Hello amazing people of this forum I am making this topic to ask if well I have issues because well I am physically male (by the goddess I wish I wasn't but unfortunately that's the hand fate dealt me :( ) and mentally female and well I really like to look at and wear and just generally touch female underwear or panties or knickers they well make me feel like I'm idk 'normal' or something.... does my idk obsession with female underwear make me a freak or a worthless person?
I touch panties every day, it's the only way to get them on! Do you wear women's clothes or are you just "underdressing"? Hugs, Devlyn
There is nothing wrong in wearing any form of clothing.
If something brings you comfort so what? I don't own any male clothes but I know woman who do, they are no less woman for doing so. I know some men who wear female clothes and wearing female clothing in no way changes that at all.
I know some people who wear sci-fi costumes, that doesn't make them any lesser people.
Superman wears a cape and his undies outside, he is still a superhero :laugh:
Don't get caught up on what you are wearing.
You are not a freak or anything.
You sound like a very normal young woman who has been born with male birth defects. I was as well.
Fortunately medicine has moved to a place where we can have those issues corrected.
Hugs
Cindy
Quote from: Devlyn Marie on June 20, 2013, 06:17:46 PM
I touch panties every day, it's the only way to get them on! Do you wear women's clothes or are you just "underdressing"? Hugs, Devlyn
unfortunately do to my living situation (living with family who think me being trans is a 'phase' or at worst a sin of some kind) I don't have many female outfits only one dress and a pair of panties and I have to hide then away so my 'family' doesn't find them and take what little bit of happiness I have from me so honestly yes I am wondering if I am a freak for wanting to wear panties and bras and such it may just be my family rubbing off on me but I'm scared :(
Quote from: lyndseyB on June 20, 2013, 06:31:33 PM
unfortunately do to my living situation (living with family who think me being trans is a 'phase' or at worst a sin of some kind) I don't have many female outfits only one dress and a pair of panties and I have to hide then away so my 'family' doesn't find them and take what little bit of happiness I have from me so honestly yes I am wondering if I am a freak for wanting to wear panties and bras and such it may just be my family rubbing off on me but I'm scared :(
You're not a freak. I have been feed the "it's just a phase" and "it's a sin" line too. When the effect of the bullying wore off I was so angry and so upset. So you are not alone there. Be brave and if that's what you've got then keep it. I know how it is to live under a family roof and live by their rules. But if they will let you see a therapist who happens to have good experience with these issues then do so. A good therapist can help you feel better about yourself as well as help you validate your issues as real and not going away.
Hugs and be strong Lyndsey
Christine pretty much said what I would have. Hey Cindy, Superman is about the only one who gets away with that!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahlWufJqcSQ&feature=youtube_gdata_player (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahlWufJqcSQ&feature=youtube_gdata_player)
There is a guy who goes to my local store who wears a superman costume together with a pirate's hat to complete the ensemble. No one seems to be particularly alarmed. He gets served pretty quick though :laugh:
Quote from: lyndseyB on June 20, 2013, 06:09:29 PM
Hello amazing people of this forum I am making this topic to ask if well I have issues because well I am physically male (by the goddess I wish I wasn't but unfortunately that's the hand fate dealt me :( ) and mentally female and well I really like to look at and wear and just generally touch female underwear or panties or knickers they well make me feel like I'm idk 'normal' or something.... does my idk obsession with female underwear make me a freak or a worthless person?
Issues? No. I call it a form of gender expression.
Do you think natal females have issues if they wear "boy shorts"?
I have yet to try women's clothing or makeup at all.
But I can't pass by a women's clothing section without wanting to die.
Hun sadly if you have issues then im totally fu#ked in the head lol. You don't have issues, your just going thru what a lot of us went thru.
Quote from: lyndseyB on June 20, 2013, 06:09:29 PM
Hello amazing people of this forum I am making this topic to ask if well I have issues because well I am physically male (by the goddess I wish I wasn't but unfortunately that's the hand fate dealt me :( ) and mentally female and well I really like to look at and wear and just generally touch female underwear or panties or knickers they well make me feel like I'm idk 'normal' or something.... does my idk obsession with female underwear make me a freak or a worthless person?
You sound fairly normal for this site. There's nothing wrong with you at all :)
The vast majority of the human race is fascinated by female underwear.
I'd say that your equating a freak with a worthless person is a much more significant issue. Thomas Edison was completely doollalley but he was one of the pioneers of electricity, something which today if you don't have you're pretty much screwed.
Some of us are freaks but we are not worthless. Both my fridge and vacuum cleaner agree with me.
So there.
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Quote from: StellaB on June 21, 2013, 02:35:15 PM
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