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Title: Skin Care Routine? Where to Start?
Post by: Carrie Liz on June 21, 2013, 09:15:47 AM
So, on another topic, someone mentioned that adopting a skin care routine was possibly even more of a big deal to attaining a feminine appearance than HRT was in terms of skin appearance. And in another topic, I think it was Jennygirl that suggested adding coconut oil to my skin-care routine.

Well, right now, I don't have a skin care routine. At all. And I'm completely clueless when it comes to anything beauty-product-related, because I've never used any before. And, well, I'm still fighting against some skin issues... some dark pores on my nose, some slight dark skin discoloration around my mouth, and a big patch of discoloration on the right side of my face. And these things admittedly are starting to bug me now that I'm concerned with achieving a softer, more even, feminine skin texture.

So where do I even begin? What are the basics? How can I start adopting a skin care routine that can improve my skin's appearance and maybe deal with some of these problems?
Title: Re: Skin Care Routine? Where to Start?
Post by: Ms. OBrien CVT on June 21, 2013, 11:24:13 AM
Exfoliate each evening.  I use a rotating brush and Dove.  At least once a month, steam your face, followed by Biore Deep Cleaning Pore Strips.
Title: Re: Skin Care Routine? Where to Start?
Post by: Andaya on June 21, 2013, 11:41:02 AM
Everyone's skin is different too. A great place to start is by going to a nice skincare store and asking for their advice. They could tell you if you're skin is dry or oily and let you know what would work for you. You wouldn't have to buy the super expensive things there either, there are always affordable options in your local pharmacy.

Personally I'm a fan of cleansing wipes over pore strips but everyone gets different results.
Title: Re: Skin Care Routine? Where to Start?
Post by: Joanna Dark on June 22, 2013, 03:24:24 PM
You should get an exfloliating brush, start giving yourself facials once a week (I use a dead sea salt mask), and start moisturizing. A good moisturizer is prob going to run you $15-$20. I am in love with all moisturizers Olay. Garnier has some good ones too.

Do you use makeup? makeup alone can be the difference between passing and not passing.
Title: Re: Skin Care Routine? Where to Start?
Post by: Sammy on June 27, 2013, 08:51:56 AM
I use grapefruit salt scrub three times per week to clean my face. Then, because skin suddenly changed very much and got much drier, I am also applying daily cream-moisturiser and night creme (I went with L'Oreal). If I feel like I am in the mood, I tend to add a bit of concealer here and there.
Title: Re: Skin Care Routine? Where to Start?
Post by: xchristine on June 27, 2013, 08:56:54 AM


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Title: Re: Skin Care Routine? Where to Start?
Post by: SciNerdGirl on July 10, 2013, 11:32:59 PM
Personally I feel that the most important skin care product is SUNSCREEN.  I use waterproof SPF50 every time I go out in the sun for more than 15 minutes.  All the moisturizer, clay masks and alge scrubs will be for nothing if you let the sun destroy your skin.

Additionally I like to use a retinol cream every night (ROC Deep wrinkle night cream), because there is real science behind it.  If you do use a retinol cream, only use it at night and be extra good about using sunscreen.

J.

Title: Re: Skin Care Routine? Where to Start?
Post by: RedFox on July 10, 2013, 11:56:39 PM
ok.. since no one else has mentioned this I will:  find a good esthetician!  Their training is all about skin care.  I was amazed at the difference I saw using their products and following their advice vs using the store bought stuff.

What I didn't know is that the stuff you buy in the store, olay, garnier, etc.... only affects the dead skin cells on the surface.  Anything stronger you have to purchase from an esthetician.  I bought a moisturizing sunscreen from the woman I see and it's not only lasted a long time.. it really makes my skin look great!  I don't normally like sunscreen, but this stuff is wonderful.. I know put it on before I leave the house every morning.

So.. basics.. I scrub my face in the morning and evening with the clairsonic Mia.. and use their opal infuser on my eye area.  At night, after cleansing I use a needle roller on my face (not sure what you call it.. cheap roller with needles sticking out of it).  That is supposed to stimulate collagen production.  Seems to work.  Then the opal infuser on the eyes, then I alternate between a retinol based product (from the esth) and an over the counter serum I picked up from Amazon.

I'm still not a beauty queen.. but i do have great skin!!  I've also found that regular cardio workouts (I run) and a good sweat helps clean up and rejuvenate the skin as well.
Title: Re: Skin Care Routine? Where to Start?
Post by: Carrie Liz on July 11, 2013, 12:51:26 AM
Well, I have started using a moisturizing lotion as well as a clinical dark spot corrector in order to try and clear up a couple of areas of dark pigmentation on my left cheek and under my mouth...

And honestly, for some reason my skin looks worse. It looks dull for some reason, and just doesn't seem to have that same "glow" that it had a couple of months ago. Not sure if it's hormones, the fact that it's summer and I got some sun while I was at Cedar Point a few weeks ago, or the products actually making it look worse, but I still need some advice on getting that healthy radiant glow back.
Title: Re: Skin Care Routine? Where to Start?
Post by: kelly_aus on July 11, 2013, 01:05:02 AM
Quote from: Joanna Dark on June 22, 2013, 03:24:24 PM
You should get an exfloliating brush, start giving yourself facials once a week (I use a dead sea salt mask), and start moisturizing. A good moisturizer is prob going to run you $15-$20. I am in love with all moisturizers Olay. Garnier has some good ones too.

Do you use makeup? makeup alone can be the difference between passing and not passing.

Makeup and clear skin are not a winning combo..
Title: Re: Skin Care Routine? Where to Start?
Post by: Joanna Dark on July 14, 2013, 05:13:10 PM
Quote from: Kelly the Trans-Rebel on July 11, 2013, 01:05:02 AM
Makeup and clear skin are not a winning combo..

No it's not. But it can be the difference between passing and not passing. She is looking for better appearing skin. The fastest way to achieve that is makeup.
Title: Re: Skin Care Routine? Where to Start?
Post by: kelly_aus on July 14, 2013, 05:29:24 PM
To add to my previous post, go see a beautician, they'll be able to help with a skin care regime that is specific to your needs..

Quote from: Joanna Dark on July 14, 2013, 05:13:10 PM
No it's not. But it can be the difference between passing and not passing. She is looking for better appearing skin. The fastest way to achieve that is makeup.

It might be the fastest, it's also the worst.
Title: Skin Care Routine? Where to Start?
Post by: Keira Rosa on February 22, 2014, 10:13:13 AM
This thread helped out. Thanks :)
Title: Re: Skin Care Routine? Where to Start?
Post by: crowcrow223 on May 02, 2014, 11:43:45 AM
I heard one should wash their face with very cold water?
Title: Re: Skin Care Routine? Where to Start?
Post by: MikaylaGC on May 03, 2014, 08:09:56 AM
Quote from: crowcrow223 on May 02, 2014, 11:43:45 AM
I heard one should wash their face with very cold water?

^that. Water is like a key to your pores; hot water unlocks, cold water locks. So you would use warm/hot water when your cleansing your face/toning and all that, and then finish up with a splash of cold water to 'lock'(close) your pores. My mum and sisters always drummed that into my head when I was growing up. :)
Title: Re: Skin Care Routine? Where to Start?
Post by: TheQuestion on May 03, 2014, 08:37:38 AM
I use sunblock when I leave the house - cleanser on my face, no soap - on my body I use an unscented moisturizing soap - I try to moisturize after every wash - and I also use coconut oil a few times a week...

Just throwing this out there, but coconut oil is also fantastic when used on the scalp and in the hair.  There's evidence that it can slow the balding process and even promote better growth from a healthier scalp.  It will also give it a really shiny and healthy look in not too long a time.  I'd strongly recommend using coconut oil.  Some people can get breakouts from it if left on longer than needed, I haven't had an issue, but it can clog your pores if used incorrectly; so I guess just keep an eye on it and see how your skin reacts.  Good luck...
Title: Re: Skin Care Routine? Where to Start?
Post by: TheQuestion on May 03, 2014, 08:48:12 AM
The hot water/cold water routine is also something I do. I also rub my face down w ice cubes twice a day. I feel it helps. I plan on getting on some kind of retanol for wrinkle/ance prevention as well...
Title: Re: Skin Care Routine? Where to Start?
Post by: MikaylaGC on May 03, 2014, 08:49:15 AM
OMG yus...coconut oil is so good for your hair(just make sure its like pure and doesn't have other oils in it otherwise it will yellow/brass blonde hair/highlights) and skin. And its so cheap too. Glad I'm not the only one using it :)
Title: Skin Care Routine? Where to Start?
Post by: ashley_thomas on May 03, 2014, 08:53:56 AM
Match your skin type to you products, an exfoliating wash meant for oily or combo skin will wreck dry skin.  Wash religiously twice a day, and use a quality sunscreen daily also without exception even if you work in an office, and especially in the hot and sunny south and southwest.
Title: Re: Skin Care Routine? Where to Start?
Post by: TheQuestion on May 03, 2014, 08:54:20 AM
Oh, and also, you could look into a chemical peel or derabrasion, they can do wonders. I've never had it done, but I have a few red spots on my chest and back from a couple breakouts over the years and I'm going to have it done if I transition. My face is really clear, but I still want that done as well, to tighten it a bit and promote collegen production...
Title: Re: Skin Care Routine? Where to Start?
Post by: BlindSeeress on May 03, 2014, 02:46:50 PM
My Skincare routine has been evolving as I learn more and get older - when I first started coming out, pre-transition, I wasn't doing ANYTHING but wearing makeup and washing it off. Then for a few years I was just doing a combination of exfoliating and moisturizing. Now I've got a pretty obsessive skin-care routine: in the morning I exfoliate or cleanse, then put on some skin toner, an anti-aging serum, a moisturizer, and finally a 50 spf sunscreen before I even get to makeup. In the evening I cold creme cleanse (removing makeup), toner, anti-aging serum, and moisturize. Takes about 15 minutes all together each time.

I'm having some problems with breakouts - possibly rosacea from stress and or too much hot water in the shower (I like hot showers) - between my brows and on my cheeks and my nose, so I'm planning to incorporate a retinol creme soon, and perhaps a vitamin e serum. Occasionally I do something deeper like a deep cleansing exfoliator or a pumpkin facial mask. I had not heard about coconut oil.
Title: Re: Skin Care Routine? Where to Start?
Post by: eggy_nog on May 03, 2014, 05:14:13 PM
Here is my old routine, to make my skin really good before HRT.

Mornings and evenings:
1. Cleanse with a cleanser (experiment which suits your skin)
2. Rinse muslin cloth in VERY hot water and squeeze out excess. While cleanser is still on, exfoliate using muslin cloth in circles on forehead, cheeks, chin, below nose (basically whole face but not eyes)
3. Wash off excess cleanser/rinse face with warm water, and then splash with cold water
4. Use small amount of toner on cotton pad across whole face, but not eyes
5. Use pore refiner on areas with large pores

If you have blackheads, 'Pores no more' is FANTASTIC! If you want details, I'll check my products and let you know.

Twice a week you should use a cleansing mask, which you can leave on for like half an hour before washing off like from step 3 onwards

Once every 2 weeks, you should use something more substantial for exfoliation. I use Bobby Brown Buffing Grains, in combination with the cleanser to remove dead skin. Leaves skin so soft!