So to make a long story short. Had been talking to a really sweet guy over the net for a month or so now. So We decide to meet up finally. Which was just this morning. We went out to eat and seen a movie, then just cruised around town and chatted and b.sed the afternoon away. This is the first guy ive ever really gone on a date with, was totally nervious, freaking out almost, finally met up with him, and everything just came natural. Suddenly was more relaxed, really enjoyed myself, he was real respectful, funny, lots of conversation. Even felt comfortable enough to lean against him while we was at the movies. ^-^ didnt expect that out of myself one bit but couldnt resist the urge, Then at the end of the date. We hugged and said our goodbyes, and I let him kiss me. (the idea of kissing a guy was always a curiosity to me, but still nerve racking to imagine.) But we kissed, and I loved it. Something felt so right about it compared to any woman id ever dated. So im kinda geeking over what ive been missing. I had such a great time, I never felt more like a woman in my whole life then I do right now. I feel high thats how happy I am right now. I agreed to see him again sometime, and I just wanted to share the experience with everyone. :angel:
It is nice isn't it?
Dose he know your past?... FYI I won't judge you for not telling I will be honest I've not always told right away.
9 months in a guy hit on me, I thought he was taking the piss, I was previously highly androgynous and ridiculed in public for it so I snapped at him it was only when I saw the dejected look on his face that I realized he wasn't making fun
It happened again a few months later when I was more confidently presenting as a woman and a similar experience to yours happened, I didn't tell him, because It was so nice to just be any other girl and let other parts of my personality shine through. but ultimately ya know if you want your relationship to go from nice, to love your gonna have to tell him.
PS: It's interesting and different from kissing women isn't it?... Men are tall and prickly, It also feels strange, but I think that's me that's different rather than him.
im an inch taller then him, Im really tall. 6'1. But he knows im ts already. I told him when we was talking online along time ago. cause im not gonna invest my time in someone if they dont accept me right away. I dont wanna go through the rejection drama. :-\
I am really happy for you.
I'm happy to hear it! This gives me hope for a good post-transition dating experience, too.
Congrats hun....it's amazing how having someone to cuddle next to every now and then can really make a big difference in how you feel.
Sounds like a really great experience. Thanks for sharing it and I wish you the best!
Quote from: Teela Renee on July 09, 2013, 06:45:19 PM
im an inch taller then him, Im really tall. 6'1. But he knows im ts already. I told him when we was talking online along time ago. cause im not gonna invest my time in someone if they dont accept me right away. I dont wanna go through the rejection drama. :-\
Good experience for you Teela, smart too that you're right up front before going out, saves a load of BS and grief later.
Girl. Go you! That's great news
good for you :)
Awwww super cute.
Fingers crossed for you!
Sounds very promising.
I just started talking to someone online, the site says 96% match (i still don't trust those things, but on all the questions she's answered, they're almost all the same as mine). I hope to have some good come out of it like you have, congrats!