Hi My name is Elliot,
I'm pretty new here, I was speaking with a lovely woman who suggested I check out this forum.
I'm still pretty new to the idea of transitioning myself, I picked the name transphoner because I play a woman over the phone as a phone sex operator. I was playing with an operator who noticed that every time we played I played a woman who wanted to be with another woman. She asked me if I ever wanted to RP a straight sex scene and I told her that straight sex doesn't really excited me in the slightest. I'm not into being a man with a woman at all, Whenever things get sexual I want to be girly whether I'm alone or with a woman. I identify with a lot of the same likes as the lesbian community as well. And when it comes to the kind of women I'm attracted to I like women who like other women, not because of the idea of being in a threesome, I don't think I can handle that, but because I want to be the woman they desire. During my day to day life I'm ok with being a man. I'm just not sure if sex is the best reason to transition. Ever since I came out to my family as a phone sex operator, they haven't been the most supportive bunch of my career choice. I don't think they'd like me coming home for Christmas with curves.
Basically I've come here looking for answers, to questions. hopefully talk with some like minded people, and get some advice on my condition and how I feel.
I hope you're all well,
Elliot
Hi Elliot :icon_wave:
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V M
Thanks for the links, I don't think I'll have much of a problem here.
I like to keep things civil, and sexual things are better done in private.
Post counts and stature have never been important to me, what is important to me is conversation and making friends.
Is there a better section to post my story/condition to find like minded people and advice? I'm not exactly sure where I'd fit in even after reading over the definitions.
Quote from: Transphoner on July 31, 2013, 02:04:00 AM
Is there a better section to post my story/condition to find like minded people and advice? I'm not exactly sure where I'd fit in even after reading over the definitions.
Welcome, Elliot :icon_wave-nerd:
I would suggest in the 'Transgender Talk'.
Welcome Elliot! I hope you find what you're looking for. :)
Amy
Welcome! Glad to have you join us!
Thanks for the welcome SavemeJeebus and Amelia Pond, A couple of cultural references I can get behind. And a welcome from Susan too, as in "The Susan" I'm guessing?
I will see about explaining myself more thoroughly in the 'transgender talk' section
:)
-L
The one and only! :)
Hi Elliot, :icon_wave:
Welcome to our little family. Over 6861. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams. Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.
But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another member. (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fsmileys.on-my-web.com%2Frepository%2FAnimals%2Fferret-3.gif&hash=f49e2f86761323f2abd9c33941920389dbb3b10f)
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Janet )O(
Welcome Elliot, from sunny southern California. Not to worry about labels and how you fit in. The "transgender umbrella" covers a wide variety of people, orientations, and gender identities.
Glad you found us. :)