I do not know where to post this, but I got this wierd problem that people is falling in love with me all the time.
I didn't had that pre-transition in fact I here just wierd and a loner so just a few people liked me as more than friends.
in transition it started to blom alittle and now its like it happents all the time.
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It somethimes a funny problem but it also pretty annoying
just talking about the last 1-2 months I had 4 friends admitting to be in love or have obviously chrush on me at the same time which I know of.
I dont know what I do wrong/right to get to this, I try to be nice but not flirty. people say they like my hair and my eyes and for personalety they say im a complect person and like the fact im not very scandinavia, (whatever that means?)
but it actually kinda strange getting used to,
anyone experience that?
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.sureiscute.com%2Fimages%2F50360e411d41c877260001f0.jpg%3Fmw%3D555&hash=70e47d36d8ff04869d837f67086bec7a0bb27d18)
That is a cute picture ^_^
I guess there could be worse things than this. lol
lol I forgot 1 person who also have a chrush on me but she is like 5 years old so she dosen't really count in this. :laugh:
I got this a lot before I came out as trans. For me, it went past annoying and into dangerous and hurtful.
Quote from: Edge on July 31, 2013, 10:12:48 AM
I got this a lot before I came out as trans. For me, it went past annoying and into dangerous and hurtful.
:embarrassed: dosent sound good,
I never been in complitely danger for having people liking me but had one guy which I rejejcted for just being friend and he got extremly angry at me, totally rejejcted me for along time and broke the door in the school.
Quote from: Natkat on July 31, 2013, 10:17:12 AM
:embarrassed: dosent sound good,
I never been in complitely danger for having people liking me but had one guy which I rejejcted for just being friend and he got extremly angry at me, totally rejejcted me for along time and broke the door in the school.
The guys I knew ignored that I wasn't interested and wanted them to drop it, so they kept pushing me. It never turned out well for me.
Mind you, they didn't actually love me. They just claimed to have crushes on me. In reality, all they wanted was sex. They didn't actually like me at all.
I felt compelled to post.... Apparently i am "flirty". Honestly, i don't have much romantic experience, so it's weird having been told that i am. I am not trying to be, i am just being nice and trying to be funny. When i have been told by people that they have a crush on me, i find it weird as i think it's too soon :/ Meh.
Quote from: SaveMeJeebus on July 31, 2013, 05:12:50 PM
I felt compelled to post.... Apparently i am "flirty". Honestly, i don't have much romantic experience, so it's weird having been told that i am. I am not trying to be, i am just being nice and trying to be funny. When i have been told by people that they have a crush on me, i find it weird as i think it's too soon :/ Meh.
yeah thats me,
its funny cause if I dont try to be flirty or anything people like me but if I try to make a compliment or good impression then it always turn out very akward and I say something ridiculous like.. "you hair smells like fish" or something who gets me in trouble..
Quote from: Natkat on July 31, 2013, 06:12:00 PM
"you hair smells like fish"
That made me smile.
I don't compliment people, and i find it weird receiving them. I say stuff like what you said, 'your hair smells like fish'. I might say, 'your name is so boring :p', but i am only teasing them, yet i have gotten into a lot of trouble with that and sarcasm
I somehow get this all the time, and it's strange to me. I'm not much of a looker, I'm kinda boring, and I'm incredibly awkward. But guys (and girls) still hit on me pretty frequently, or at least show interest, and the few guys I do end up dating turn out to be annoyingly in love with me, while I don't feel the same way towards them. :/ It always makes breakups frustrating, because they're never on the same page as me.
I think my male personality coupled with my female appearance is what mostly attracts people to me. I look female without playing the mind games and the moodiness that usually comes with dating a woman.
Quote from: SaveMeJeebus on August 01, 2013, 07:30:52 AM
That made me smile.
I don't compliment people, and i find it weird receiving them. I say stuff like what you said, 'your hair smells like fish'. I might say, 'your name is so boring :p', but i am only teasing them, yet i have gotten into a lot of trouble with that and sarcasm
you're a copy of me? :o
well, the thing is i'm not doing sarcasm I actually mean it but it either comes out as insults or very bad compliemnt
(the original story is I said to a girl her hair smelled like when I was in norway. she asked what its like. I wanted to say rocks or water and the beutifull sea around but water or rocks dosen't really smell so the only thing who got in mind where when we went fishing..)
Quote from: Natkat on August 01, 2013, 04:12:58 PM
you're a copy of me? :o
well, the thing is i'm not doing sarcasm I actually mean it but it either comes out as insults or very bad compliemnt
(the original story is I said to a girl her hair smelled like when I was in norway. she asked what its like. I wanted to say rocks or water and the beutifull sea around but water or rocks dosen't really smell so the only thing who got in mind where when we went fishing..)
xD, I do understand why the girl got annoyed. I hate getting misread. I sometimes will tell them straight away that i am only joking, or explain what i mean, just as i know most people misread me.