Yesterday was a major step for me. I went to my first trans support group as Emily. I first was terrified and was trying to make up any excuse for me to not go, but I am so tired of making excuses in trying to find a way to hide myself and not be happy. One I got there though everyone made me feel very relaxed and welcome. I know this one girl there from a support page that I go to, first time meeting her but at least I had someone there who I knew. They only meet twice a month but I defiantly plan on going back and get out more as myself. I know it is not a big thing for some but for me this is a major stepping stone for me in my transition and just wanted to share.
Quote from: EmilyMI on August 11, 2013, 05:41:38 AM
Yesterday was a major step for me. I went to my first trans support group as Emily. I first was terrified and was trying to make up any excuse for me to not go, but I am so tired of making excuses in trying to find a way to hide myself and not be happy. One I got there though everyone made me feel very relaxed and welcome. I know this one girl there from a support page that I go to, first time meeting her but at least I had someone there who I knew. They only meet twice a month but I defiantly plan on going back and get out more as myself. I know it is not a big thing for some but for me this is a major stepping stone for me in my transition and just wanted to share.
First off i wish to welcome you to the group.
No i would say that is a big deal with 99% of all who are starting out. First steps are always the hardest and most need multi attempts to get there.
You need the support system along with a good gender therapist/therapy in this process. It seems you are on your way to the support side.
This path you will walk going forward will be daunting at time but the path can also be full of self enlightenment moments.
Izzy