I've currently got no job and an extremely limited pool of money and social outlets.
I really want to go out and do something, I don't even care if I wander around the WalMart and never buy anything.
Buut my boyfriend has really unstable work hours and when he's not at work, we play video games - which is all fine and dandy but I'm getting bored to the point of madness.
None of my bros have any energy, money, motivation to have fun with me - and because of my crippling financial/clinical position, I have very little to give... Somehow i feel like I don't have the right to ask for things because of the position I'm in, like I'm a chore... it's also 110 outside so taking a stroll is out of the question (i'm really sun/heat senitive)... our public transportation system isn't that reliable either so I can't just up and go on my own without getting stranded somehow. My outside friends and family are also extreme emotional vampires so, again, I could end up in even more and more diverse problems if I seek them out.
This is hard, what i would have suggested seems there are issues that make them non useable.
Just a suggestion maybe each week you and your BF look at his work week and pick at least 1 day of the week you two get out somewhere or do something outside the house/apt. Even something that does not cost money.
Maybe that will help and soon as the weather turns less hot maybe you can get some other time out and about?
Izz
Good idea Izzy. Couples should have occasional "date nights."
It's just a nice thing to look forward to.
Yeah, I agree. You should go out with your boyfriend and have a fun night out.
If you are looking for things to do, you could always join a club or a meet up group. It's a fun way to start taking up new activities and meet new people at the same time. There are a lot of things going on in the world if you know where to look. And you can be a part of it!
...you guys are right.
lmao i feel kind of silly now but yeah
I WILL TAKE THE SIMPLE ADVICE<3