http://www.buzzfeed.com/chrisgeidner/federal-government-is-recognizing-same-sex-couples-new-mexic
Source: BuzzFeed Author: Chirs Geidner
"Although a Pentagon official wouldn't confirm any change in policy, at least one Air Force base has begun recognizing the marriages of same-sex couples married in New Mexico — even before the state's supreme court reaches a final decision on the matter." At least one couple has stated that an air force based recognized their same-sex marriage from New Mexico, even though it's not clear whether new Mexico actually recognizes same-sex marriage.
The Pentagon hasn't given a clear answer, but those from Kirkland Air Force base said the policy came from off-base.
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This post (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,147652.0.html) from August might be of interest for those who aren't aware of New Mexico's same-sex marriage issues.