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Title: So, heyy.
Post by: ThoughtTheif on September 18, 2013, 05:37:33 PM
Hello strangers, whom I hope to meet and get to know quite well  :D So, I've never really been great at introductions, but I hope I can do this a'ight, I suppose.

Humm, I was born female, but I identify as male, though a bit hesitant to really do anything at the moment. I'm pre-everything and still live at home, with my mom and step-father. I've only recently really been able to accept myself, simply because I've been mulling over what others would think if I told them. Honestly, before about December of last year, or the January/February-ish time of this year, I had never even considered something like trans*-ness (that is so not a word, but I make words up so often it's not even funny) before, because of how I grew up.. And honestly it wasn't even because of my parents that I'd think anything bad about it or anything (they're really open minded, due to their own.. Identities, I suppose?) but rather, the town that I grew up in, which when I think back at it, most of my classmate were pretty.. ehm.. close-minded all the way back to 2nd grade.. So, because of this, I never even thought that I could be different, like, at all. It took me having a couple of friends who were really open minded and a lesbian and a few gay guy friends, before I even came to realize I was bisexual. Anyways, I'm getting off point a lot.. (I really hope my ramblings aren't too hard to get used to.. My thoughts tend to wander) So, I've been lurking around these forums for a while, and haven't really signed up until today.. I'm pretty much just looking for support, as I'm a bit afraid to look for it in the real world, and also I'm hoping to move on with my own life, and progress.

So, anyways, again, hello everyone!
Title: Re: So, heyy.
Post by: bethany on September 18, 2013, 05:41:52 PM
Hello ThoughtTheif, Welcome to Susan's. You will find a lot of very nice people here. You defiantly came to the right place for support. Good luck on your journey.
Title: Re: So, heyy.
Post by: ThoughtTheif on September 18, 2013, 06:01:05 PM
Quote from: Bethany Dawn on September 18, 2013, 05:41:52 PM
Hello ThoughtTheif, Welcome to Susan's. You will find a lot of very nice people here. You defiantly came to the right place for support. Good luck on your journey.

Thanks, Bethany! I appreciate the welcome, and have no doubt I've come to the right place. From what I've seen, everyone here seems really helpful and nice. ^^; Again, thanks!
Title: Re: So, heyy.
Post by: Darkie on September 18, 2013, 06:47:02 PM
Welcome to our little family! Where are you from?  Like, where do you live now?
Title: Re: So, heyy.
Post by: Marissa on September 18, 2013, 07:39:23 PM
Hi ThoughtTheif, nice to meet ya! Can we call you TT?
Title: Re: So, heyy.
Post by: V M on September 18, 2013, 10:27:53 PM
Hi  :icon_wave:

Welcome to Susan's  :)  Glad to have you here

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V M
Title: Re: So, heyy.
Post by: Ms. OBrien CVT on September 18, 2013, 11:03:33 PM
Hi ThoughtTheif, :icon_wave:

Welcome to our little family. Over 7619. That would be one heck of a family reunion.

Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams.  Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.

But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another brother. (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fsmileys.on-my-web.com%2Frepository%2FAnimals%2Fferret-3.gif&hash=f49e2f86761323f2abd9c33941920389dbb3b10f)

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Janet  )O(
Title: Re: So, heyy.
Post by: Jamie D on September 18, 2013, 11:51:08 PM
Pleased to meet you TT !!  :)
Title: Re: So, heyy.
Post by: ThoughtTheif on September 19, 2013, 09:19:42 AM
Quote from: Darkie on September 18, 2013, 06:47:02 PM
Welcome to our little family! Where are you from?  Like, where do you live now?

I live in a small town in Colorado.. I'm not comfortable explaining specifically where I live or anything, though.. An' thanks for the welcome!

Quote from: Marissa on September 18, 2013, 07:39:23 PM
Hi ThoughtTheif, nice to meet ya! Can we call you TT?

Hey, Marissa, ya'll can call me whatever you want, as long as I know you're referring to me. XD

Quote from: V M on September 18, 2013, 10:27:53 PM
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Hello to you too, I'll be sure to look at those.. I think I may have looked at them already, though.. >.> My memory is awful when it comes to these things :D

Quote from: Ms. OBrien CVT on September 18, 2013, 11:03:33 PM
Hi ThoughtTheif, :icon_wave:

Welcome to our little family. Over 7619. That would be one heck of a family reunion.

Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams.  Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.

But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another brother. (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fsmileys.on-my-web.com%2Frepository%2FAnimals%2Fferret-3.gif&hash=f49e2f86761323f2abd9c33941920389dbb3b10f)

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fsmileys.on-my-web.com%2Frepository%2FAnimals%2Fferret-5.gif&hash=cfc7a68438be4575d8493dfbe65d1b3586f10b81)
Janet  )O(

Thanks for the warm welcome, Ms. OBrien CVT.

Quote from: Jamie D on September 18, 2013, 11:51:08 PM
Pleased to meet you TT !!  :)

Likewise!
Title: Re: So, heyy.
Post by: Bunny Girl Zoe on September 21, 2013, 07:40:46 AM
Hiya welcome to the family.
Title: Re: So, heyy.
Post by: Asche on September 21, 2013, 09:09:42 AM
Quote from: ThoughtTheif on September 18, 2013, 05:37:33 PMI've only recently really been able to accept myself, simply because I've been mulling over what others would think if I told them. <snip> I had never even considered something like trans*-ness before, because of how I grew up.. And honestly it wasn't even because of my parents that I'd think anything bad about it or anything ... but rather, the town that I grew up in, which when I think back at it, most of my classmate were pretty.. ehm.. close-minded all the way back to 2nd grade.
BTDT (=been there, done that)

I tell people I grew up "in the Ante-Bellum South."  Saying or thinking anything that hadn't been said or thought before the Civil War marked you as a weirdo, and they'd  "all move away from me on the bench," (as Arlo Guthrie put it.)  I now live in the New York City area, where people are used to seeing all kinds of different people.  (They may not like people who are different, but at least they don't call the Men in Black if they see a guy in a turban -- or a man in a skirt.)
Title: Re: So, heyy.
Post by: Kaylee on September 21, 2013, 09:22:08 AM
Welcome to the house of fun now I've come of age
Welcome to the house of fun
Welcome to the lion's den, temptation's on it's way
Welcome to the house of...

Hey there ;D