Hello
I'm a Trans ( Duh ) and I haven't really done much more than research about it ( And I've done a little Fantasizing )
and right now I want nothing more than to feel Girly. Anyway I can will do me.
I've already got some Ideas. But I want to ask a professional, or at least someone with a bit of experience ( That's you )
So tell me please. How can I make myself feel as Girly as possible?
Thanks and have fun.
How old are You? :)
I wish I could feel girly, but I guess I could only opt for feeling "lady" instead :)
But when I say "Girly" I mean anything from that to lady-like to womanly.
I suppose what I'm trying to achieve is the most stereotypical "female" as possible. I also want to feel cute.
Thanks.
Smile as often as You can, be warm, pretty,open and sincere with all people You are seeing :). The rest is just going to come along nicely :) Be Yourself, be natural and for Goddess sake - please do not exaggerate Your femininity - and You will do just fine :)
Quote from: Keely Mcbain on September 21, 2013, 07:20:15 AM
I suppose what I'm trying to achieve is the most stereotypical "female" as possible. I also want to feel cute.
Being a stereotype is easy being yourself and accepting who you are is the hard part. Nobody can tell you how feel more girlie it's really something to discover for yourself. You'll discover all this for yourself just give it time.
Just be yourself. You'll be much happier. You can't just make yourself feel girlier. I actually don't know what trhat means though people would consider me pretty girly. Anyhoo, start reading fashion magazines, doing your makeup, wearing girls clothes, and see how you feel. You may not like it. How sure are you that you're trans? I knew for a long time by the time I was 17 but didn't accept it and decide to transition until I was 21. I hoped it would go away. I hoped I would start liking girls. I hoped I would stop looking at my friends and wanting to kiss them. None of it ever happened and I still like men but at least I'm a woman now.
Thanks guys.
Your a big help. and I'm actually feeling pretty happy right now :D
50 years later, and I have had the amusing realization, that I AM girly, I am not manly.
I need only be me, and I am 'girly'.
Now if I wanted to be 'manly' that is something I likely would need help with.
Quote from: Keely Mcbain on September 21, 2013, 07:10:41 AM
Hello
I'm a Trans ( Duh ) and I haven't really done much more than research about it ( And I've done a little Fantasizing )
and right now I want nothing more than to feel Girly. Anyway I can will do me.
I've already got some Ideas. But I want to ask a professional, or at least someone with a bit of experience ( That's you )
So tell me please. How can I make myself feel as Girly as possible?
Thanks and have fun.
What works for me is being on the arm of a tall, strong, handsome man... in public. To be honest he doesn't need to be handsome, he just needs to be mine.
I am feeling quite girlie enough going to sleep with a broadsword under the bed and a dagger next to my pillow. I might be working off a different stereotype from you though.
Rosie.
One thing that makes me feel girlie that caught me by suprise was nail polish, I could spend a lot of time on my makeup but once I move away from the mirror I cant see it. but you can almost always see your hands.
Perfume.
Nothing like walking into a restroom and freshening your scent eh. I like to think of it almost like a washroom prank. Because the next guy in will be wondering 'why does it smell like a woman was just in here?'.
But mainly, I like stopping at a street corner waiting for a light, and a slight breeze will go buy and you catch a whiff of your perfume and it is a little reminder of how you smell like a woman.
That and another of my favs, being in a store, and paying for something and it's plain you have a purse, no not a damned man bag, it's clearly a purse, and not caring in the slightest it is a purse. Or just being able to mention it in conversation like 'oh it's in my purse' and clearly not mind stating it is indeed a purse.
Bubble bath, shave your legs, paint your toe nails, have ears pierced in 2-3 locations, go shopping for new panties & bras in pink shades, maybe some new hosiery since winter is coming soon, etc....
Just have fun.
Toe nail polish plus cute high heels make me feel very girlie. Some high heels are a lot more comfortable than others and then you can wear them all day long. I avoid the really high heels and go with 3 or 4 inches.
Quote from: Gina_Z on September 23, 2013, 12:13:02 AM
Toe nail polish plus cute high heels make me feel very girlie. Some high heels are a lot more comfortable than others and then you can wear them all day long. I avoid the really high heels and go with 3 or 4 inches.
Cool, it's nice to see a girl that also loves nice toe nails. I love everything feminine however doing my toes in a nice new color always feels great.
:) My feet have always been kinda girlie looking, unlike my shoulders and height. We have to work with what we have.