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Community Conversation => Non-binary talk => Topic started by: alexand(er)(ria) on October 05, 2013, 02:28:55 AM

Title: Thought I'd say hello :)
Post by: alexand(er)(ria) on October 05, 2013, 02:28:55 AM
Hi! Just dropping by to say hello. I'm on a search for peers, and I'm not finding them in men or women. So, I turn to the in-betweens, if ya'll dont mind me calling you that. :D So hello!
Title: Re: Thought I'd say hello :)
Post by: Danielle Emmalee on October 05, 2013, 02:34:17 AM
I wouldn't really call myself in-between but I'm also not offended easily so no worries on my part.  I already said Hi to your other post but since you said Hi twice, I figured I would too :P
Title: Re: Thought I'd say hello :)
Post by: Cindy on October 05, 2013, 03:16:20 AM
Please don't cross post, it causes confusion!!!

Hi, and welcome to Susans! We have people come to visit us from all over the world, expressing different points of view, and you are likely to find someone to help you along your way :) Here are some important links and things to ponder as you begin your journey here.



Cindy
Title: Re: Thought I'd say hello :)
Post by: alexand(er)(ria) on October 05, 2013, 03:38:12 AM
Hello again!

@cindy
Sorry! >.< my bad
Title: Re: Thought I'd say hello :)
Post by: Cindy on October 05, 2013, 03:44:07 AM
Quote from: alexand(er)(ria) on October 05, 2013, 03:38:12 AM
Hello again!

@cindy
Sorry! >.< my bad

Don't worry Honey. You didn't know the rules!!!!

Welcome again, have a look around and enjoy!!!!
Title: Re: Thought I'd say hello :)
Post by: Lo on October 05, 2013, 09:58:41 AM
Hi there and welcome, Alex!

Not all of us feel in-between at all, but rather completely removed from the whole thing. There's much more to gender than shades of M and F. ;)
Title: Re: Thought I'd say hello :)
Post by: Jessica Merriman on October 05, 2013, 10:18:48 AM
I don't get offended, we're family here. Welcome and BIG HUG! :) This is a totally fantastic place. Enjoy!
Title: Re: Thought I'd say hello :)
Post by: WolfSpirit on October 05, 2013, 01:25:45 PM
Welcome Alex   :)
Title: Re: Thought I'd say hello :)
Post by: Pica Pica on October 05, 2013, 03:52:56 PM
Welcome.

Don't worry about offending, I find most andros are rather less desperate to be offended then other trans peoples.
Title: Re: Thought I'd say hello :)
Post by: DriftingCrow on October 05, 2013, 03:58:19 PM
Welcome Alex! :)
Title: Re: Thought I'd say hello :)
Post by: Jamie D on October 05, 2013, 03:59:58 PM
Quote from: alexand(er)(ria) on October 05, 2013, 02:28:55 AM
Hi! Just dropping by to say hello. I'm on a search for peers, and I'm not finding them in men or women. So, I turn to the in-betweens, if ya'll dont mind me calling you that. :D So hello!

Greetings!  You can call me what you want, but I'll call you "friend," if you don't mind.  :)

Perhaps the best term for many of us is "non-binary."  That is to say, we don't identify as fully male, or fully female, or possibly as neither.
Title: Re: Thought I'd say hello :)
Post by: Taka on October 05, 2013, 06:44:56 PM
welcome, alex!

i think that's supposed to be exclusively male or female? people can be fully male and female, or neither, or something else entirely... i generally identify as "person".
Title: Re: Thought I'd say hello :)
Post by: Darkie on October 05, 2013, 06:51:20 PM
I kinda switch between boy, girl, or a weird combo of both. My boy side is different than my girl side, and then sometimes I'm a weird combo of the two.
Title: Re: Thought I'd say hello :)
Post by: Ms. OBrien CVT on October 06, 2013, 12:08:03 AM
Hi alexand(er)(ria), :icon_wave:

Welcome to our little family. Over 7853 members. That would be one heck of a family reunion.

Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams.  Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.

But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another member. (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fsmileys.on-my-web.com%2Frepository%2FAnimals%2Fferret-3.gif&hash=f49e2f86761323f2abd9c33941920389dbb3b10f)

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Janet  )O(
Title: Re: Thought I'd say hello :)
Post by: alexand(er)(ria) on October 08, 2013, 07:15:31 PM
Thanks everyone! And sorry about the in-between comment, I know better, my mind just wasnt working at 2 ish AM in the morning, haha.
Title: Re: Thought I'd say hello :)
Post by: Darkie on October 08, 2013, 07:33:21 PM
Quote from: alexand(er)(ria) on October 08, 2013, 07:15:31 PM
Thanks everyone! And sorry about the in-between comment, I know better, my mind just wasnt working at 2 ish AM in the morning, haha.

That's ok.  I know I understand the peril of 2am brain.  It's nice to meet you Alex! We are name twins! ^.^