So, I've never been one to really advocate therapy. A lot of people I know have had it for one reason or another, I was even a part of helping both my sisters through therapy in high school. But I never really thought it was THAT big of a deal, or that it would really help that much. I saw it as someone helping the individual fix themselves. So I thought why not just do it yourself and spare the trouble? But with all my focuses being on transitioning and figuring it out I really had no other option than to find a therapist for myself.
If you've read my other top then you'll know how hard I tried looking for one. Eventually I found one through a website (June Huelskamp if you're interested). Well today I just had my first session with her. At first, as the days got closer, I started having doubts and didn't really think it would help.
Fortunately, I was wrong :) after just the first few minutes of talking to her I felt like we could talk about anything and that she would completely understand what I'm talking about. She explained to me how she views gender, transitioning, and the process of going through it. Honestly, she explained how I was feeling better than I could. But, like all first sessions go ( ;) ) it ended too soon.
I can't express how oddly excited I am for our next appointment and to talk more with her.
So, here is my public announcement: For whatever reason, if you are confused, in doubt, questioning or wondering; whether you feel anxious about the future, regretful of the past, or just want to make sense of the present - just go talk to someone. There are people out there who really can make sense of nonsense and who are willing to make your life easier for you. As cheesy as this is, it really does help :)
//que dramatic music
Thank you for sharing this; it takes a strong person to admit they were surprised. I'm certain that strength will serve you well in your life to come! :)
That's awesome, hon. And it really is good to hear things like this.
*big hug*
I felt the same way and just like you said, I really didn't think I needed help until I actually got the help that I needed.
Quote from: Megan on October 15, 2013, 09:18:51 PM
I felt the same way and just like you said, I really didn't think I needed help until I actually got the help that I needed.
That's the best way it could be put
Good for you Alara! :)
I understand how you were feeling as I felt similarly when I was seeking out a therapist and after my first appointment. :)
*HUGS*
Amy
Great! I'm looking forward to therapy too!
Can you give me any advice to make a fix date with the therapist?
Im so **** afraid of going there :(