Hello, I had just recently came out about being transgender FtM this past August. The thing of it is, I feel about 70% male, and 30% female. I still love to dress up in very feminine clothing, heels, and dresses, but I also love to wear men's button up shirts, ties, and dress shoes. I don't know if I'd be considered still as a transman or not, but I feel more comfortable as a man that a woman. I'm the only one I know personally who is trans, so when I try and talk to other people about it, they don't think I'd be a trans man since I am a straight female. I just have so many questions, and even though my fiance tries to help, he doesn't even know what to say. Luckally I picked a good one :) He is bi and actually doesn't mind me dressing and acting as a guy. I don't ever wish to get bottom surgery, but breast cancer does tend to show up in our family history, so if I had to get them removed, I don't think i'd mind. :( I'm just kinda lost here with no one to talk to. Thank you for reading.
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Welcome to Susan's ShortCircuit!
Gender identity and gender expression are two different things. Regardless of how you dress, the question you need to ask yourself is "Am I a man?". You've made a good start to finding answers by joining up here. See you around!
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