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General Discussions => General discussions => ARGHHH! => Topic started by: mariella on December 29, 2013, 07:20:18 PM

Title: I have done something very stupid!
Post by: mariella on December 29, 2013, 07:20:18 PM
Well i did something very stupid today.

Ive only been here for 3 days cause i had to accept my feelings.

I'm not transitioned.

Last week i pierced my ears for no reason cause i had to, then i shaved my legs..
But yet i'm still in denial.

I have a tattoo machine and i wrote i am a girl with the girl "sign" under it.

Its located on my arm....

Yeahh so what should i do when its summer or whatever... can i remove it or something...

Title: Re: I have done something very stupid!
Post by: Jessica Merriman on December 29, 2013, 07:22:37 PM
Might be a good time to go "full time"! *giggle* Sorry, couldn't resist. Uh, those are pretty permanent.
Title: Re: I have done something very stupid!
Post by: LordKAT on December 29, 2013, 07:23:48 PM
create a tattoo around it that is acceptable?
Title: Re: I have done something very stupid!
Post by: Jill F on December 29, 2013, 07:25:48 PM
Two options- laser or cover up.

And step away from the tattoo needle, please.  Put it away for safe keeping.
Title: Re: I have done something very stupid!
Post by: mariella on December 29, 2013, 07:29:40 PM
Well ive allready taken care of the wonderfull peace maker... it wont be able to do that again...

I am kinda scared about this cause will a laser not leave any mark or wont completely fade it...

And how expensive is that im 19 years old and still got alot of finance with my parents...
I know a bit about tattoo's and iknow this cant be covered up unless its my full arm.

yea. i really dont know >.<
Title: Re: I have done something very stupid!
Post by: JLT1 on December 29, 2013, 09:08:39 PM
Make a saying like "I am a woman XXX" where XXX is ->-bleeped-<-, lover,  a symbol such as a heart or even a penis.  Get something there. 

Put a man symbol beside the woman symbol.

I believe you should start to talk with a gender therapist.  They will help you sort things out.  The ear piercing and leg shaving, that happens.  Don't worry. 

Hugs,

Jen
Title: Re: I have done something very stupid!
Post by: lovelessheart on December 30, 2013, 05:15:31 PM
or you can have strong put under the 'i am a' part. that way it would be like i am a strong girl.. or.. i dont know if you watch the bad girls club.. but you can put the bad girls symbol there also.. or just bad.
Title: Re: I have done something very stupid!
Post by: SunKat on December 30, 2013, 11:03:02 PM
For the short term until you can have your tattoo lasered or embellished... you can try dermablend.  It's a pain to use but I've known a few folks who use it to cover tats up for work.
Title: Re: I have done something very stupid!
Post by: Declan. on December 31, 2013, 12:45:01 AM
You can get a small cover-up tattoo, no problem. Unless it's huge, then you're right, you'll need something more extensive unless you put a butterfly/star/etc. over each letter. Seems almost like you were, subconsciously, trying to make it impossible for you to not transition, though - which could be a good thing. A tattoo that says "I am a girl" would really call attention to your trans status though.  :-\
Title: Re: I have done something very stupid!
Post by: Aina on January 11, 2014, 12:19:51 AM
Just say you skate on Girl skate-boards if you like they are a professional skate board deck.

Or just come out, not sure what to tell you.
Title: Re: I have done something very stupid!
Post by: ConfusedHumanUK on January 11, 2014, 06:30:54 PM
I'm not sure if the OP is still around, but if so, maybe a photograph of the tattoo would help everyone collectively come up with an idea :) Whilst I've not got any tattoos myself, I've seen some pretty creative coverup jobs and I dare say there are some very artistic people here who have some great ideas on how to help you.

All the best.