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Title: Any guys here...
Post by: jonjon on July 08, 2007, 03:40:13 AM
have female friends?

Just wondering if you do, do they bitch a lot? Like... on a massive scale of completely tearing their friendships and relationships apart?

Because i always seem to end up in the middle, and it aint fun.
Title: Re: Any guys here...
Post by: Nero on July 08, 2007, 04:00:47 AM
Does my cousin count?

Posted on: July 08, 2007, 03:54:50 AM
Oh wait. I did meet a girl recently. Hopefully I'll get to know her better.
Out of the females I've been close to, only 2 bitched all the time. My sister and a friend of mine's wife.
Constantly. annoyingly. My sister had personality though. The other one was just plain bitchy.

PS do you want to talk about it? About the friend who's doing this?
Title: Re: Any guys here...
Post by: jonjon on July 08, 2007, 05:25:15 AM
meh, i dont know. I guess kinda.

I got a text this morning from my friend asking if she is really bitchy and if she is she's really sorry and apparently the story is she's just been dumped on her 5th anniversary and it's all about saving her friendships from her bitchyness. I guess thats it all in a nut shell.

But i love all my friends and just wish they'd just get along, yanno?
Title: Re: Any guys here...
Post by: Nero on July 08, 2007, 07:46:42 AM
yeah. that sucks to be in the middle. I was kind of in a situation like that once. I had these two friends since high school. One was gay and we lived together.  The other was really homophobic. When I was out, the homophobic dude would call my house and harass my roommate, making all these mean, corny gay jokes. My roommate was really hurt by this. He felt betrayed that I would be friends with someone like that. I didn't know what to do. I had known them both since high school, and I loved both of them.
So, yeah I was stuck in the middle. It really sucks.
Title: Re: Any guys here...
Post by: jonjon on July 08, 2007, 08:11:34 AM
wow, what did you do?

Title: Re: Any guys here...
Post by: Nero on July 08, 2007, 08:27:08 AM
nothing. I told the homophobe friend to back off and stop harassing my roommate though. The whole thing just fizzled out, fortunately. :) Don't know what I would've done if it hadn't. I really couldn't choose between them.