I am post op have been online dating cites for less than a yr have hsd 5 dates only the last date hss blossomed into a frienfship. He wants to get in t bed on our 2nd date. I disclosed my trans to him bfr t first date. Should l I look for more out of him or end it. I met another guy who is fascinatrd by my online photo and he wants to come t ny to meet me I have not disclosed to him. Any suggestion would b fabulous gals
Seems to me like you just met? I would definitely get to know him better before sleeping with him
Rule of thumb. Set the boundaries and let him know that your worth the wait. If you give up the cookie to fast he will just see you as a conquest
Great advise i willl follow
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A real caring honest man will not even think about sleeping with you until YOU are ready. We are trans, not second class people or an amusement park ride. You are worth it, as GWTF said set boundaries and don't give in. If he says do it or he walks, open the door for him! Take care baby! :) PS-Stick with the real world, dating sites are just not where I would even think about meeting Mr. Right. ;)
If I were looking for a spouse, I wouldn't bother with the online thing. I just don't like that idea.
When I saw the title for this thread, the first thing that I thought was: "What's an online dating city?" Then I took a closer look. :D :D
Well to b honest I enjoy looking at diff profiles of guys and have learned from my experiences. I also learned disclosing depends on t situation. And ive learned it is brtter to dsclose bfr meeting. I just retired look fabulous so I choose not to b in public socially unless I want to b.