is this dress apropriate for MtF with kinda broad shoulders (not very broad, just a bit broader than girls normally have)?
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I think it would be ok unless you have large arm muscles as well. My arms are still a little too big in circumference to pull it off. Also the girls are not there enough on me to hold it in place. Depends a lot on your age also as this is a younger girls look. :)
Hmmm... I'm 33 right now but feel much younger.
Quote from: Pia Bianca on February 21, 2014, 05:39:22 PM
Hmmm... I'm 33 right now but feel much younger.
Your within the age range. I'm 31, and wear similar things. Just make sure it matches your skin, and hair tones. I know that certain colors just don't work for me. Oh, and make sure it matches your personality.
For what it's worth ... that is a lovely look!
Sam x
I will be 50 in May.
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"Age appropriate" is not in my vocabulary. I'm middle aged and making up for lost time, dammit.
I do draw the line at tramp stamps though.
Quote from: Jill F on February 21, 2014, 06:45:17 PM
I do draw the line at tramp stamps though.
I'm totally going to get the new version of this. Two bow ties on the backs of my thighs, right below my butt cheeks.
Quote from: Brooke777 on February 21, 2014, 05:44:51 PM
Your within the age range. I'm 31, and wear similar things. Just make sure it matches your skin, and hair tones. I know that certain colors just don't work for me. Oh, and make sure it matches your personality.
Cool. That gives me some hope. Still I'm not very good in matching clothes to my body. I'll have to learn I suppose. I think I'm quite similar to that model (just a bit older), that's why I think this dress might look good on me as well. (And I absolutely love flowers, at least in "girl mode".)
Quote from: barbie on February 21, 2014, 06:30:37 PM
I will be 50 in May.
No way. I don't believe you to be (almost) 50. That said, I'd kill to look as good as you in that cute dress. (So you'll probably never be 50.)
Quote from: barbie on February 21, 2014, 06:30:37 PM
I will be 50 in May.
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:o You are so beautiful
I didn't know your age until now , but clearly you look way younger , i would believe it if you would say 30 - 35 but definitely not 50
Well, Pia, the dress is appropriate if you're shaped like porn star Alison Angel, your model there (I don't know how I know that). Anyway, the look works for Barbie. I'm a bit too veiny in the upper chest area for the strapless look.
~ Lyric ~
Quote from: Lyric on February 22, 2014, 08:17:17 AM
the dress is appropriate if you're shaped like porn star
So given that I'm not shaped like a porn star - should I skip on such dresses?
This is a lovely dress indeed...
I wouldnt be able to wear it now cause I have eeeer male muscles on my arms? if thats the right way to put it...
but if hrt has taken care of that for you then Id say its ok.
Quote from: Pia Bianca on February 23, 2014, 12:31:01 AM
So given that I'm not shaped like a porn star - should I skip on such dresses?
No, don't skip on it. I'm sure as hell not shaped like a porn star, and like I said, I ware things like that. I say go for it! Try it on, and see if you (and a friend that you shop with) like how you look in it. If so, get it. Forget about what anyone of us has to say. Trust yourself!
Quote from: FalsePrincess on February 23, 2014, 12:38:21 AM
but if hrt has taken care of that for you then Id say its ok.
I'm pre-HRT but furtunately my arms aren't that muscular. As I'm still in the closet, arm hair is more of a concern. But this will be solved soon I hope. Still need to find a therapist.
But still, I love that dress. And yeah, I'm looking at porn. Seems as if I'm lesbian - but since I accepted being trans I'm thinking if I might be bisexual. Time will show. That said, the topic is not porn stars or my sexual orientation... ;D
I still love that dress!
Quote from: Brooke777 on February 23, 2014, 12:46:03 AM
Trust yourself!
That's not gonna happen any time soon. I have absolutely no routine in selecting clothes. I must admit I'm terrible. But I will learn, I hope.
In fact, that's why I asked. I want to learn now, not any time later when I'm really starting to transition. You know... early bird and their kind... ;D
Quote from: Pia Bianca on February 23, 2014, 12:31:01 AM
So given that I'm not shaped like a porn star - should I skip on such dresses?
That type of dress is nowadays a kind of formal dress. You can wear them during a party or wedding ceremony.
Waring them in the street can look bold here, but a lot of young women wear them in the beach or even the street during summer.
My wife took the following photo for me. She usually hates my wearing those shoulderless dresses or tank tops, but at that time, she forgave me, as I think it looks rather dull and casual.
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I want to wear the dot dress here, but I have not had any chance, as my family do not like it. When with my friends, I may be able to wear it.
barbie~~
I know I'm the wrong sort to answer (ftm with lifelong lack of fashion sense) but I always had broader shoulders than a "normal" girl and I found that what looked prettiest on me was whatever made me feel the most happy or confident. So the times I did wear dresses without being forced to was when I was lighthearted and it was hot weather, and I wore (sometimes sleeveless) sundresses that were only slightly less formal and shapely than what you posted. As long as I pitched my voice high enough, women thought my gear was nice and boys seemed to approve. I think a dress like that might depend as much on your demeanor as your physical proportions.
Hi Pia,
I get so paranoid about my shoulders when I'm wearing anything that has straps or doesn't cover my shoulders entirely but I think in time I'll be a become more comfortable with something like that.
In fact I wish I could pull off something like that, but as Felix said, whatever makes you feel most confident. There is no point in finding an amazing dress or outfit that makes you feel 100% awkward because you won't relax, it will play on your mind and you'll inevitably draw attention to yourself.
At the same time confidence comes with being out there and doing it! If you're not sure about it yourself, maybe find something similar that will give you the same look but with some shoulder coverage (yea, kinda tricky with a dress like that :) ), or try other tricks that everyone uses.
Wear your hair down to help hide your shoulders. Try a nice dangley type pendant that will help draw the eyes from shoulder to your chest (assuming you're comfortable with your chest) or other accessories like bangles.
But yes, beautiful dress! Go for it!
I have a few dresses that are like that. If I am feeling self conscious I wear a semi see thru scarf draped over my shoulders. That breaks them up and makes them look smaller.
It really depends on how much you care what other people think, and your honest assessment of how old you look. I'm commonly mistaken for much younger so I still often wear outfits that would normally not be considered age-appropriate, but I do care about blending in fashionwise in different situations.
I personally don't wear strapless dresses because I hate pulling them up because they inevitably ride down, so I wear spaghetti straps in the summer at the very least. With that silhouette the width of your hips isn't visible so it's possible to wear the dress without being read as masculine.
Quote from: kira21 ♡♡♡ on February 23, 2014, 08:34:41 AM
I have a few dresses that are like that. If I am feeling self conscious I wear a semi see thru scarf draped over my shoulders. That breaks them up and makes them look smaller.
How do you wear that scarf? Around the neck or over your shoulders?
In summer, every girl here exposes as much as possible. I am not exceptional.
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Personally I think it's appropriate, if you're feeling insecure about broad-ish shoulders pairing it with a cardigan/ bolero would frame you in a flattering way.
This instant read is: it's awesome. The personal critique read is:add a teeny skirt under it for slightly more shape.