Two days ago, my roommate brought home a friend and told me that he's gonna be our new roommate. He seemed like a nice guy. :) 20 years my senior. We talked and found that we had a lot in common. Last night he told my roommate that I've really grown on him and that he's fallen in love with me and that the feeling is mutual. :) He's I took him out last night to a shopping mall, and he was very impressed on how much of a woman I am, and how much people thought we were a couple. :)
Hummmmm. You lucky girl. Hope it works out for you both. Let your feelings guide you.
Huggs
Catherine
Quote from: Catherine Sarah on February 26, 2014, 09:56:07 AM
Hummmmm. You lucky girl. Hope it works out for you both. Let your feelings guide you.
Huggs
Catherine
I feel lucky Catherine, and I will let our feelings guide us. Thanks. :) I overheard him talking about me with my roommate, and it was all nice and sweet things he was saying. :)
That's magic Gina! I so hope it blossoms well for the two of you :)
Congratulations Gina. I'm so jealous.
And I wouldn't be a friend if I didn't remind you that, while feelings of love can blossom quickly, a true connection between two people takes months or years to forge.
Quote from: EllieM on February 26, 2014, 10:22:09 AM
That's magic Gina! I so hope it blossoms well for the two of you :)
Thanks Ellie. We'll be like spring flowers that are just blooming under the sunlight :)
Quote from: suzifrommd on February 26, 2014, 10:57:53 AM
Congratulations Gina. I'm so jealous.
And I wouldn't be a friend if I didn't remind you that, while feelings of love can blossom quickly, a true connection between two people takes months or years to forge.
Y'know Suzi, I guess it was just being at the right time right place. Thanks for the good words of advice. We do plan on taking it very slow though. For those that rush into a relationship really don't understand each other, so that's why we've decided that we're gonna get to know each other and take as much time doing that first before we make any real concrete plans. But we do know that our hearts are meant for each other. :icon_bumdance-nerd:
In love after two days? I believe in love at first sight, but be careful.
Quote from: Gina Taylor on February 26, 2014, 12:01:12 PM
Y'know Suzi, I guess it was just being at the right time right place. Thanks for the good words of advice. We do plan on taking it very slow though. For those that rush into a relationship really don't understand each other, so that's why we've decided that we're gonna get to know each other and take as much time doing that first before we make any real concrete plans. But we do know that our hearts are meant for each other. :icon_bumdance-nerd:
You're being very wise.
Quote from: Gina_Z on February 26, 2014, 12:03:53 PM
In love after two days? I believe in love at first sight, but be careful.
Thanks Gina Z. But you know it's that special connection between us. He tells me that every time he looks at me I remind him of a person he used to know. But I will be careful . . .
See how it goes, Gina. Roll with it.
;)
congratulations, you definitely are having a good year.
Quote from: gennee on February 26, 2014, 02:43:08 PM
See how it goes, Gina. Roll with it.
;)
Last night we were talking and he told me that right now he's comfortable with just being friends, which I'm comfortable with as well. No point in rushing the relationship. Seen it happen too many times.
Quote from: Cynthia Michelle on February 26, 2014, 06:23:10 PM
congratulations, you definitely are having a good year.
Y'know Cynthia, I was thinking the same thing as well. It's all been great. The only down side of this year is that I've lost a few friends, but at least they've shown their true colors to me finally. But I've made so many new girl friends! :)
Quote from: suzifrommd on February 26, 2014, 12:11:49 PM
You're being very wise.
Thanks Suzi. Wisdom comes with age . . . and some experience . . .
Three days ago, I was sitting in the library and this gentleman passed by an smiled at me,so I returuned the smile back to him. He came over and told me that he had been checking me outfor a few weeks, and after a little small talk {he's 62 and he's Itallian} we went over to his house, and I really think a nice relationship is blossoming! :icon_mrhappy:
Wow, that is wonderful. Sounds like several people are interested. Have fun :)
It cannot hurt to have some fun & let go with this person. It seems awful quick to be in "love" however you never know what will happen in life. Go have fun GF.
What a wonderful thing (: I wish I could be in love, it's never been easy for me... I hope your relations with this person advance <3!!
Quote from: lannie on March 15, 2014, 03:33:11 PM
What a wonderful thing (: I wish I could be in love, it's never been easy for me... I hope your relations with this person advance <3!!
Me too. I've been with lots of men. Some said they loved me however I really never loved any of them. I think it is because I've never found myself & have never physically changed my body to normal so it just seems that I'm trapped. I would love to love a man but I just do not know how. Oh well, it's good that some member is enjoying life & love.
Quote from: Cynthia Michelle on March 15, 2014, 02:36:00 PM
Wow, that is wonderful. Sounds like several people are interested. Have fun :)
Thanks Cynthia. Believe me, I was quite surprised when he told me that he'd been chcing me out and made quick advancs on me, but I guess that's the way Italian men are. :)
Quote from: FrancisAnn on March 15, 2014, 03:30:40 PM
It cannot hurt to have some fun & let go with this person. It seems awful quick to be in "love" however you never know what will happen in life. Go have fun GF.
Yeah, I know it kind of happened fast, but the sparks were there! :) We'll see what happens, , but we're gonna take it slow.
Quote from: lannie on March 15, 2014, 03:33:11 PM
What a wonderful thing (: I wish I could be in love, it's never been easy for me... I hope your relations with this person advance <3!!
Give it time Lannie, I'm sure that you'll find someoen that will love you just a much as you'll love them. I'm hoping that our rtiosipadvances as well.
It's better to love & lose than to have never loved at all.
Enjoy, ingore people like me.
Wish I could love someone, maybe one day.
Quote from: FrancisAnn on March 15, 2014, 08:18:47 PM
It's better to love & lose than to have never loved at all.
Enjoy, ingore people like me.
Wish I could love someone, maybe one day.
Good point there FrancisAnn.
Maybe someday you'll find someone and the sparks will be there!
I've never felt love or have ever been love. So I can't really understand what I am missing out on. I've always seen myself as asexual and I still do. But love is a very different thing than sex. I would like to feel how it feels to love, but I don't know if that's ever going to happen.
Quote from: 930310 on March 17, 2014, 05:33:33 PM
I've never felt love or have ever been love. So I can't really understand what I am missing out on. I've always seen myself as asexual and I still do. But love is a very different thing than sex. I would like to feel how it feels to love, but I don't know if that's ever going to happen.
Sometimes love happens unexpectedly. When you meet the right person and the stars align correctly, that's when you know that you're in love. It may happen or it may never happen. But you will know when it happens. :)
Quote from: Gina Taylor on March 18, 2014, 10:02:26 AM
Sometimes love happens unexpectedly. When you meet the right person and the stars align correctly, that's when you know that you're in love. It may happen or it may never happen. But you will know when it happens. :)
I'm not really into believing that there exists a god or that our fates are predestined, but I agree with you otherwise.
Quote from: 930310 on March 18, 2014, 10:44:36 AM
I'm not really into believing that there exists a god or that our fates are predestined, but I agree with you otherwise.
That's kewl! :)
It looks like things are really working out for you Gina. Love is a beautiful thing. When you find love, hold on to it and do not let it go.
I wish you happiness.........and a good time!!
Quote from: Ciara on March 19, 2014, 04:03:46 PM
It looks like things are really working out for you Gina. Love is a beautiful thing. When you find love, hold on to it and do not let it go.
I wish you happiness.........and a good time!!
Thanks Ciara for your kind words. Love is a beautiful thing. :) My boyfriend has asked me to move in with him next month! :icon_mrhappy: Things are really looking good for us! :icon_mrhappy:
Love is not a feeling. Love is something you do. It's a verb. It's like caring except more intense.
That's really great to hear, congratulations Gina, hope everything turns out. You seem really sweet, so hopefully he's a nice guy, good luck...
Very lovely story ! I hope you & him gonna be real couple very soon ! ;)
Unfortunately we had a falling out, and I wasn't quite all the woman he was looking for. :( I'm sure that I'll find the right person some day. Thanks for the nice comments though. :)
My ex called me today by surprise and he may have found a new boyfriend / roommate for me. He told him everything about me, and he really seems anxious to meet me. We'll see how things turn out. He's Italian as well! :)
Quote from: Gina Taylor on May 06, 2014, 11:57:45 AM
My ex called me today by surprise and he may have found a new boyfriend / roommate for me. He told him everything about me, and he really seems anxious to meet me. We'll see how things turn out. He's Italian as well! :)
good luck & yes be careful Gina
Thanx Kate and Diana for your sweet concern. My ex gave him a lot of good information about me, and he was quite pleased when he met me last night and things went well. He's divorced and has shared custody of his son. We'll see how things develop. :)