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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: Matthieu on March 01, 2014, 07:42:49 AM

Title: Am I the only one??
Post by: Matthieu on March 01, 2014, 07:42:49 AM
Am I the only one who's completely fine with their masculinity yet not with their genitalia??  I think I am, witch realy sucks...  It's tough enough transitioning when you're going from man to woman, but there's no platform for someone who's going from man to woman to man...

There's maybe 5 people who understand this post, so peace out for those individuals, you are amongst the many few that really get it, and I adore and respect you for that....

- Matt
Title: Re: Am I the only one??
Post by: stephaniec on March 01, 2014, 09:58:46 AM
maybe if you explained more we could begin to understand
Title: Re: Am I the only one??
Post by: Tori on March 01, 2014, 03:57:22 PM
Quote from: Matthieu on March 01, 2014, 07:42:49 AM
Am I the only one who's completely fine with their masculinity yet not with their genitalia??  I think I am, witch realy sucks...  It's tough enough transitioning when you're going from man to woman, but there's no platform for someone who's going from man to woman to man...

There's maybe 5 people who understand this post, so peace out for those individuals, you are amongst the many few that really get it, and I adore and respect you for that....

- Matt

No you are not. Androgyny comes in every form.
Title: Re: Am I the only one??
Post by: Satinjoy on March 01, 2014, 06:16:24 PM
We have to get to know you a little better dear.... not enough there to respond right.  And you are not alone, believe me.   The dysphoria can go all kinds of places with us, and none of these places are wrong, only our perception of it and how we handle it, self destructively or self affirming....

I live stealth as a male and I am very comfortable doing it, although also very self conscious now with all the physical changes of transition.
Title: Re: Am I the only one??
Post by: vlmitchell on March 01, 2014, 07:00:05 PM
Define... masculinity?
Title: Re: Am I the only one??
Post by: Jessica Merriman on March 01, 2014, 07:06:29 PM
Just my 2 cents, but having Dysphoria does not mean you have to hate any certain part of your body. :)
Title: Re: Am I the only one??
Post by: ath on March 01, 2014, 08:00:33 PM
I've read the words of people like you, OP. I'm not like you, but I know as a fact there are others like you, so you aren't alone.
Title: Re: Am I the only one??
Post by: Jamie D on March 01, 2014, 08:27:57 PM
Quote from: Matthieu on March 01, 2014, 07:42:49 AM
Am I the only one who's completely fine with their masculinity yet not with their genitalia??  I think I am, witch realy sucks...  It's tough enough transitioning when you're going from man to woman, but there's no platform for someone who's going from man to woman to man...

There's maybe 5 people who understand this post, so peace out for those individuals, you are amongst the many few that really get it, and I adore and respect you for that....

- Matt

Matt - I am one of those in our non-binary community that sees and lives that we are blends of male and female, masculinity and femininity.

Perhaps you would feel better by avoiding the male/female binary altogether.  Be yourself.