So, when I transitioned 11 years ago, I lost friends and family. I do now have a talking relationship with them. But, I find the only time I hear from any of them is when they want something from me. A shoulder to cry on or help in dealing with their issues. And, I am tired of it. and I am tired of seeing everyday as just another day to get through. So, I am giving myself one year to change things up. Otherwise it will be time to just accept my lot in life and deal with it. Something has to change. Enough is enough.
Good on you and best of luck. Do you have a plan of action?
Well, I am now working with a life coach instead of doing the therapy stuff. It's tough not doing therapy only because when things get tough it's hard not having the chance to vent. With life coaching, it is a forward moving approach to life. The thing that makes that hard is I have yet believe things can change. And, I know it's time to believe