So the girl I have been talking to, I just came out to her turns out my friend already told her I was trans in the beginning of the year, She told me that she doesn't judge and that she already knew that, And she's is still willing to let me get a chance to know her better. That made my day.
That's fantastic! It's great when people accept you no matter what :)
Congrats Brandon. I wish you the best in finding that one true love.
Isabell
Thats so exciting man!
There is always hope in this world.
Congrats! :)
Quote from: GnomeKid on March 17, 2014, 04:21:03 PM
Thats so exciting man!
There is always hope in this world.
I know right.
Great to hear that, Brandon! I know that made your day!
That's brilliant news, dude! :)
Some people reaffirm your faith in humankind. :)
--Jay
That's awesome man! Great news :)
It's great that she accepts you but I'd be concerned about your friend telling people your business like that.
congrats
Quote from: Alexthecat on March 20, 2014, 12:46:32 PM
It's great that she accepts you but I'd be concerned about your friend telling people your business like that.
No she only did that so she could know beforehand all my friends already know my situation they just see me as any other guy and the I'm cool with is not judgemental at all I'm shes known it takes a load off me. And the girl who told her forgets I'm trans half the time literally because I'm very manly in lost of ways
Quote from: Brandon on March 20, 2014, 10:03:09 PM
No she only did that so she could know beforehand all my friends already know my situation they just see me as any other guy and the I'm cool with is not judgemental at all I'm shes known it takes a load off me. And the girl who told her forgets I'm trans half the time literally because I'm very manly in lost of ways
If you told her that it's okay to tell people then that's fine, but its problematic if you didn't and they think it's an okay thing to do. You might not be bothered but it's not okay to out a trans person without their say so. If they see that you don't care and thus think that its okay it could lead to a lot of trouble for either you, or another trans person, later in life.
If you didn't tell your friend that it's okay to do that then maybe have a quiet word with her, something along the lines of "I don't mind you telling so-and-so, it actually worked out well, but next time you should ask before you tell people."
Quote from: lxndr on March 21, 2014, 07:03:30 AM
If you told her that it's okay to tell people then that's fine, but its problematic if you didn't and they think it's an okay thing to do. You might not be bothered but it's not okay to out a trans person without their say so. If they see that you don't care and thus think that its okay it could lead to a lot of trouble for either you, or another trans person, later in life.
If you didn't tell your friend that it's okay to do that then maybe have a quiet word with her, something along the lines of "I don't mind you telling so-and-so, it actually worked out well, but next time you should ask before you tell people."
Well me and her are like brother and sister so as long as she knows how to correctly explain it then Its fine I'm not mad though pretty much everyone knows besides most of the freshies and sophies, And it took a load of my chest.
Quote from: Brandon on March 21, 2014, 02:22:41 PM
Well me and her are like brother and sister so as long as she knows how to correctly explain it then Its fine I'm not mad though pretty much everyone knows besides most of the freshies and sophies, And it took a load of my chest.
I was less concerned about you, and more concerned about trans people she may meet in the future if she thinks it's okay to tell people.
Quote from: lxndr on March 21, 2014, 02:37:50 PM
I was less concerned about you, and more concerned about trans people she may meet in the future if she thinks it's okay to tell people.
Well its said and done know I mean I get what your saying but thais is not even what this topic is about. And the only reason she told her was because this girl is really beautiful to me and I take interest in her thats probaly why she doesn' just go around telling people though.
that's totally cool, dude, that she accepted you.
That's great man. When you are accepted it is the best feeling in the world.