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As an example, here is someone being indecisive.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3XMRGfCmXlo

Yes.
No.
Yes.
No.
Yes.
NO.
YES.

*head explodes*  :icon_headache:

I don't know.

Maybe.

I'm not sure.

Let me get back to you on that....

;D

Emelye

I don't want to offend anybody, but what is that thing.

it's gollum from what i guess to be an abomination of theatre, lord of the rings, the musical.

Thanks for answering my question Pica Pica.

I don't know, will let you know tomorrow. Unless I'm some place else tomorrow. Where would you like my answer? I know I can give it tomorrow, but I don't know what time. OK, now I know where I can give you my answer. If, I know I will be there or not, Gee, I don't know. I know I'm not indecisive.

Absolutely not!

tink :icon_chick:

Are you sure Tink? I mean really really sure  ;D

Quote from: Kat on July 16, 2007, 09:45:46 PM
Are you sure Tink? I mean really really sure  ;D

Ummm....actually...well.....ummmm. YES!  :P

tink :icon_chick:

I'm not entirely sure while I'm still in this thread, I already got Head-Explodey.

I am not sure...

Buffy

I can't decide.


I am best known for the phrase, "I don't know". Not only am I indecisive, but I often will not commit to an idea.   ???

I voted No since else there is no way to explain why I commonly seem to make the wrong decision ;)  8) (Daddy cool ne?) :P

daddy cool indeed

I voted NO, as I am generally a very impulsive person. Having said that, it all depends on how much information I have when making decisions. The more info I have, the less indecisive I am, the less information does not mean for sure I will be indecisive, but it increases the chances. I am not afraid to change my mind either. I don't stick with a decision just because I made it.

Love always,
Elizabeth

Honestly?

Yes, Extremely. I overthink everything and trap myself into logic circles and 'on the other hand' viewpoints until I can't even tell what the original arguement was.

The benefit of this however, is I have a very clear idea of every angle of the arguement.

I just can never determine which viewpoint is the most 'correct.'

I think a lot of it has to do with the fact that one of the first things I learned about 'being a guy' was "Hide Your Feelings" and I did a very good job of that.

So good in fact, that I've lost touch with them.

I said "Don't Know" because that was the "right" answer...kinda like the right answer to "does this make my butt look big?" is always yes.  Some questions just scream the right answer, whether it is true or not.

The honest answer is that I am not.  I tend to get as much information as possible, and then trust my intuition to fill in the gaps.

I have a friend who is so indecisive that if he fell into a swimming pool, he would probably drown before he could make up his mind which side to climb out of.  It drives me crazy.

My problem is not deciding what to do, it is getting up off my lazy hiney and actually doing it.  I think I went through the lazy/procrastination line too many times when they were passing out bad habits.

.....Laurry

Pica,

That was two questions.

I used to be indecisive but now I'm not so sure....

Actually, I'm very head strong.  I have opinions that seem to crush those around me.  I know with assuredness that I am right! ;) 

I'm working on that though.  I need a good solid dose of humility.

Cindi

I am extremely indecisive about certain things. Its depends on what.

What, there isn't an option for "let me think about this for a while before answering"!! OK, I'll say yes then... well, maybe, I think... hmmmmm, what should I make for lunch?.... ;D >:D :D

Zythyra

I answered "Yes" in a heartbeat.  ;)

Quote from: Hypatia on August 22, 2007, 08:50:26 AM
I answered "Yes" in a heartbeat.  ;)

I started to laugh, but couldn't decide whether to guffaw, snicker or giggle.

Answering this or any question "in a heartbeat" doesn't sound too indecisive to me...maybe we should schedule a pre-meeting to discuss the agenda of the kick-off meeting regarding decision-making before we get bogged down in the details of meeting planning and admin...

...Laurry

There really should've been a category for "trying to make up my mind, give me a little more time to decide". I'd choose that.... I think.... maybe..... >:D

Z

I haven't voted yet -- maybe one day I'll be able to choose.

  Nfr

Tolkien decided that whomever butcherd his masterwork can join Peter Jackson in hell for making Twin Towers and Whatever the 3rd movie was called, (yes I know it was Return of the King), but omg, lets just call it "Dude, Where's My King?"

No btw

Yes.... No... yes... I mean. Y-No.... Maybe?

Tomorrow is another day why do something today that you can do tomorrow. If the world ends tomorrow then you have waste energy.....

I didn't know which "Don't know" to answer....  :-\

lol

So i finally chose the top one.

Still not quite so sure though...  ???

On a good day......no.
On a bad day.......yes.
To determine what is a good or bad day is another problem, because it can start off being a good day and end up bad and visa versa.  So I can't actually decide, I could take one option at the start of the day and end the day choosing another! 
I chose the second 'Don't know' after much deliberaton, whether that was wise choice, I don't know.  I'm thinking now maybe I should have chosen the first one, cause that one was more popular.  Phooey!!!  :icon_doh:

What...me indecisive??? Hum...I don't think so...wait...well...sometimes...but not generally...well...on second thought...ya...I can be at times...well...then again...no...guess which on I voted for...

Peace and love,
Isabelle St-Pierre

Which one should I vote for?

Capricious, changeful, commutative, convertible, fickle, fitful, flighty, fluctuating, fluid, impulsive, inconstant, indecisive, irregular, irresolute, irresponsible, kaleidoscopic, mercurial, mobile, movable, mutable, permutable, protean, restless, reversible, revocable, shifting, skittish, spasmodic, transformable, transitional, uncertain, unpredictable, unreliable, unsettle, unstable, unsteady, vacillating, vagrant, variable, variant, varying, versatile, volatile, wavering, whimsical

??? all of these but unsure if I'm indecisive, really can't make up my mind

so really, you're a thesaurus - the most frightening of the dinosaurs.

Pica Pica,

I thought this poll was closed months ago!  I hope you have the change vote option.  I can't remember which way I voted!  My New Year's resolution is to be decisive in 2007!

Take care.
W

Okay Results in,

Don't Know wins, but only just,
followed by Don't Know and No in joint second.

What are the implications of this poll? Don't know.

Quote from: Pica Pica on January 10, 2008, 03:57:39 PM
Okay Results in,

Don't Know wins, but only just,
followed by Don't Know and No in joint second.

What are the implications of this poll? Don't know.

Two different choices for voting "don't know"... I'm confused... and here I thought I was merely indecisive. ;)

y2g

Quote from: y2gender on January 10, 2008, 05:27:19 PM

Quote from: Pica Pica on January 10, 2008, 03:57:39 PM
Okay Results in,

Don't Know wins, but only just,
followed by Don't Know and No in joint second.

What are the implications of this poll? Don't know.

Two different choices for voting "don't know"... I'm confused... and here I thought I was merely indecisive. ;)

y2g

you are indecisive if you couldn't decide on which 'don't know'.

Quote from: Pica Pica on July 16, 2007, 06:01:55 PM
it's gollum from what i guess to be an abomination of theatre, lord of the rings, the musical.

i heard that audiences really liked it, but what do they know.

here's a pretty interesting review:

http://westendwhingers.wordpress.com/2007/06/06/review-the-lord-of-the-rings-the-musical/

Quote from: Rebis on January 10, 2008, 09:27:09 PM
you are indecisive if you couldn't decide on which 'don't know'.

I chose the 2nd knon't dow  :P

y2g

I knon't dow about you anymore.

I'm impulsive and I can also be indecisive, it really depends on the topic at hand. I'll be more at ease making choices the least options there are, 2 options versus 5 options is good to me for example.

Quote from: ell on January 10, 2008, 10:08:19 PM

Quote from: Pica Pica on July 16, 2007, 06:01:55 PM
it's gollum from what i guess to be an abomination of theatre, lord of the rings, the musical.

i heard that audiences really liked it, but what do they know.

here's a pretty interesting review:

http://westendwhingers.wordpress.com/2007/06/06/review-the-lord-of-the-rings-the-musical/

sounds about what I expected. I'm not a Lord of the rings fan anyway - I find plot and characterisation take a back seat to world creation....but that was fine by me in gormanghast...meh. Just don't like Tolkein (Am coming off as a real moaner recently, there are many things I do like.)

Quote from: Pica Pica on January 14, 2008, 06:54:10 PM

Quote from: ell on January 10, 2008, 10:08:19 PM

Quote from: Pica Pica on July 16, 2007, 06:01:55 PM
it's gollum from what i guess to be an abomination of theatre, lord of the rings, the musical.

i heard that audiences really liked it, but what do they know.

here's a pretty interesting review:

http://westendwhingers.wordpress.com/2007/06/06/review-the-lord-of-the-rings-the-musical/

sounds about what I expected. I'm not a Lord of the rings fan anyway - I find plot and characterisation take a back seat to world creation....but that was fine by me in gormanghast...meh. Just don't like Tolkein (Am coming off as a real moaner recently, there are many things I do like.)

I liked LotR as a book more than the movie renditions, I find it sad how much they cut from the rich story onscreen.

I didn't find the story rich, I found it cramped with events but little motivation for those events.

Are the new crop more decisive?

I like to over analyze certain choices which makes people call me indecisive. I was terribly indecisive when I was younger and answered everything with a Maybe or I don't know but I am much more decisive now.