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Title: Do you have a song about your life?
Post by: AnneB on April 13, 2014, 02:56:53 AM
They say music can say what our hearts can't, can show the world what we can not quite say, for fear of losing our family, or friends....  or from uncertainty.  A song, can speak from our hearts, our minds, our very soul..

Mine, is Christine Agulera's "Reflection", from Disney's Mulan. 
Or Sophie Ellis-Bextor's "Mixed Up World"
When I have that uncertainty what am I doing, it's Jessie J's "Who You Are"

I was just wondering, what yours is?  And does it help you?
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Post by: Ms Grace on April 13, 2014, 03:01:15 AM
Freedom of Choice - DEVO...! ::)

Wouldn't say it helps, but it sure is apt sometimes!
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Post by: AnneB on April 13, 2014, 03:09:02 AM
Devo...  Lol... Are We Not Men?

No, we are def not men!  *giggles*
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Post by: Jessica Merriman on April 13, 2014, 03:11:55 AM
Before transition it was U2s "Still haven't found what I'm looking for". :-\

Now it is Katrina and the Waves "Walking on sunshine". :laugh:
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Post by: JulieBlair on April 13, 2014, 03:12:55 AM
"Somewhere" from West Side Story has been stuck in my head for a while.  Don't know if I'm feeling hopeful or insecure.
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Post by: xponentialshift on April 13, 2014, 03:13:32 AM
I relate to a lot of Dr Awkward's music.
My early childhood is a lot like "keep on moving" from his earlier albums, and more recently "different" and "blank pages" have been resonating.

Other than that I have been listening to the Buffy "once more other feeling" soundtrack on my work commute... And I'm starting to notice that the whole episode is like one giant metaphor for living life as trans*... Maybe I am just over analyzing it, but that's what it sounds like to me.
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Post by: Jessica Merriman on April 13, 2014, 03:17:56 AM
I just wish someone would think of me like in the Aerosmith song "Don't want to miss a thing", sigh! ::)
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Post by: Cindy on April 13, 2014, 03:21:35 AM
For all of my life it has been REM, Everybody Hurts Sometime.
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Post by: FalseHybridPrincess on April 13, 2014, 03:56:38 AM
Listen after the 3rd minute

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yQJCi4RVFZ8
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Post by: KatVonDoom on April 13, 2014, 04:44:56 AM
This Year, by the Mountain Goats, or Girl Anachronism by the Dresden Dolls. :P
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Post by: Veronica M on April 13, 2014, 05:47:53 AM
Right off the top of my head as it relates it would be David Bowie's "Changes" and "My Life" by the Beatles. I have such a wide taste in music it is hard to tie just one song down though. But that is a good start.
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Post by: immortal gypsy on April 13, 2014, 06:23:12 AM
Four songs (cheating I know but there is darkness and light in all of us)

When I'm in a good mood
Here I go again - Whitesnake
Rebel Rebel - David Bowie (I would of been your queen my goblin king)

When the horns start coming out
Curse of Millhaven
O'malley's bar
Both by Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds
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Post by: Christinetobe on April 13, 2014, 06:50:41 AM
It always is dependent on my mood but whenever I need to smile I listen to Hate My Life by Theory of a Deadman
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Post by: big kim on April 13, 2014, 06:52:56 AM
I walk alone by Tarja
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Post by: JaneNicole2013 on April 13, 2014, 06:57:05 AM
I went to see the local symphony perform Beethoven's 7th a few months back and thought, "wow, that is my life." The first movement reminded me of my denial phase-very structured and conformist. The second movement reflected my inner sadness. The third, the joy I felt coming out and becoming myself and the 4th, the triumph that is sure to follow.

Jane
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Post by: Teela Renee on April 13, 2014, 10:57:30 AM
Iris
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Post by: stephaniec on April 13, 2014, 11:00:26 AM
Hey Jude , revolution  -  beatles , whole lota of love - zeppelin, ball and chain -Janis Joplin  at monteray pop festival, white rabbit- airplane , watch tower- Jimmy Hendrix , Aqualung - Jethro Tull , Day by Day - from godspell
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Post by: Ltl89 on April 13, 2014, 11:23:06 AM
Shostakovich's 8th string quartet.  I think it explains my life fairly well I'm sad to say. 
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Post by: Northern Jane on April 13, 2014, 12:22:34 PM
"White Rabbit" by Jefferson Airplane - that's how weird my early life was!
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Post by: Christine Eryn on April 13, 2014, 03:50:51 PM
"Because seen through these eyes
We lead a double life
No one will know
So check it out steppin' out here I go"

The Fixx - Are We Ourselves

I could search for another song that I identify with better, but this is the first thing that came to mind.
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Post by: Kim 526 on April 13, 2014, 06:33:49 PM
"Any World That I'm Welcome To" by Steely Dan
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Post by: radsi on April 13, 2014, 06:38:52 PM
Quote from: Jessica Merriman on April 13, 2014, 03:17:56 AM
I just wish someone would think of me like in the Aerosmith song "Don't want to miss a thing", sigh! ::)

You know that is my favourite film/song.

Does walmart sell animal crackers? haha
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Post by: mandonlym on April 13, 2014, 07:17:11 PM
It used to be KT Tunstall's "Suddenly I See"

http://www.youtube.com/embed/9AEoUa0Hlso

Here's the opening lyrics:

Her face is a map of the world
Is a map of the world
You can see she's a beautiful girl
She's a beautiful girl

And everything around her is a silver pool of light
The people who surround her feel the benefit of it
It makes you calm
She holds you captivated in her palm

Suddenly I see (suddenly I see)
This is what I wanna be

Now it's "Do You Realize?" by the Flaming Lips:

http://www.youtube.com/embed/lPXWt2ESxVY
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Post by: KelsieJ on April 13, 2014, 07:40:34 PM
Definitely

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qRFhNZNu_xw (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qRFhNZNu_xw)


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Post by: jussmoi4nao on April 13, 2014, 08:09:11 PM
Ride by Lana del Rey. That is so much like me it's ridiculous. The intro and outtro as well as the actual song. It's funny gus I first heard it cuz somebody played it for me because they said it reminded them of me and I was like..welll damn.
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Post by: Evelyn K on April 13, 2014, 08:42:53 PM
Natalie Grant - The Real Me

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j155MjxCPUU
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Post by: Veronica M on April 13, 2014, 08:43:40 PM
Quote from: Northern Jane on April 13, 2014, 12:22:34 PM
"White Rabbit" by Jefferson Airplane - that's how weird my early life was!

I love Jefferson Airplane... Funny thing is I found out last week in therapy that my therapist is good friends with Grace Slick... Who would have thought... Did you know she is now a very talented artist in the Malibu area... Google her, it is quite an interesting story.
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Post by: Sephirah on April 14, 2014, 12:27:40 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jhC1pI76Rqo

This one.
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Post by: MelanieH74 on April 14, 2014, 12:43:55 PM
I'd have to say mine would be "It's a long road" by Dan Hill from the Rambo movies
Explaines me to a tee sometimes
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Post by: Eris on April 14, 2014, 01:58:05 PM
Behind Blue Eyes...
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Post by: HoneyBunny on April 14, 2014, 02:20:38 PM
This is pretty much my song

http://youtu.be/m4SPbhrgpxE


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Post by: immortal gypsy on April 14, 2014, 05:11:32 PM
Quote from: Falconer on April 14, 2014, 01:58:05 PM
Behind Blue Eyes...

Who's (next) version? The original or the cover
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Post by: Jill F on April 15, 2014, 01:41:12 AM
The Who - "The Real Me"
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Post by: Jill F on April 15, 2014, 02:18:24 AM
Quote from: FA on April 15, 2014, 01:45:29 AM


Oh is there anyone I can hold onto right now? Anybody to help this feeling?

I got you.  I want to be your friend and I care so much about you.  Please know that.  You have an incredibly beautiful soul.
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Post by: TerriT on April 15, 2014, 02:30:47 AM
Wish You Were Here. There are plenty of songs that resonate with a particular time or mood or feeling. But always this song has new meaning and a timelessness that never escapes me. I can never turn it off and even though I can go a long time without hearing it, as soon as I do I'm flooded with emotions and memories and hope/hopelessness.
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Post by: sad panda on April 15, 2014, 04:43:40 AM
I've been too many people to have a song about my life, but I guess most recently:

http://youtu.be/Ql4Hpq2vZ7A

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Post by: Dee Marshall on April 15, 2014, 09:04:36 AM
Either:

"Walking on Air" By Kerli

or

"Hazy Shade of Winter" covered by the Bangles (which makes me cry like a banshee)

depending upon my mood.
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Post by: nikkit72 on April 15, 2014, 12:27:27 PM
For me it has to be

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=SJUhlRoBL8M

life has too much serious guff involved in it

from a transition point of view it has to be te Moonlight suite (Beethoven) movement 1-what is going on, movement 2 - realisation and positive direction, movement 3 - dealing with the NHS.......



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Post by: victoria n on April 15, 2014, 06:08:39 PM
 Loser by John Lennon.     
put that in  your bonnet people of earth 
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Post by: Jasmine96 on April 15, 2014, 09:16:36 PM
well there is "Dude Looks Like A Lady" - Aerosmith (LOL)

then theres "Fade To Black" - Metallica
   -I was me but now hes gone

but i i think my fav is "Save Me" - Avenged Sevenfold
   -save me, im trapped in a vile world
    save me, where the end game is the same as every other
    we're only here to die

i know its dark but life is dark.
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Post by: KelsieJ on April 15, 2014, 10:21:44 PM
Quote from: Jill F on April 15, 2014, 01:41:12 AM
The Who - "The Real Me"

Good song :)
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Post by: KelsieJ on April 15, 2014, 10:23:09 PM
Quote from: Dee Marshall on April 15, 2014, 09:04:36 AM
Either:

"Walking on Air" By Kerli

or

"Hazy Shade of Winter" covered by the Bangles (which makes me cry like a banshee)

depending upon my mood.

I <3 the bangles version of that song  :angel:
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Post by: ReaverMarcus on April 15, 2014, 10:27:59 PM
I listen to a lot of Disney, but I feel like Reflection from Mulan fits.

Especially the line about the lyric that says "When will my reflection show who I am inside?"
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Post by: Mermaid on April 16, 2014, 01:55:41 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nvrzKDN5-R0 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nvrzKDN5-R0)

It's over today
The heat is gone, time is gone
F for fake
I feel no wrong, hide no wrong
I love this place, the lights
Under this face, so dry
Only way to change, give yourself away
Don't be ashamed, next in line
Close one eye, just walk by
In these days
Im breathing stone, crying alone
Ill win this race
Ill leave alone, arrive alone
Love this place, the lights
Under this face, so dry
Stripped to the bone
I did no wrong
Truth is my name
Give yourself away


I'm Mike Patton's #1 fan. Wanted to pick a crazier song but if I used that in this thread, people would be scared of me =(
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Post by: stephaniec on April 16, 2014, 02:29:40 PM
Horse with no name - America, Madman across the water - Sir Elton John
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Post by: Kimberley Beauregard on April 16, 2014, 02:35:57 PM
At one point, I'd have chosen "Flowers On The Wall" by The Statler Brothers.  Though I was never sectioned or suffered from agoraphobia, I had soul-crushing clinical depression so in some ways, I could relate to that song.

Now, I'd go for "Walk of Life" by Dire Straits.
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Post by: Miss_Bungle1991 on April 16, 2014, 03:00:00 PM
Quote from: Mermaid on April 16, 2014, 01:55:41 AM
I'm Mike Patton's #1 fan. Wanted to pick a crazier song but if I used that in this thread, people would be scared of me =(

A crazier one, eh? What would that be? I'm curious. Faith No More totally rules, by the way. One of my top 5 favorite bands.

The song that I would pick isn't by them. It's by the totally GODLY Conor & Jay.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ySzWXgbZeYM
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Post by: Jasriella on April 16, 2014, 03:05:21 PM
I'm not sure really. There's a few that fit in different ways.

Lose Yourself - Eminem
Stairway to Heaven - Led Zepplin
The Day That Never Comes - Metallica
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Post by: big kim on April 16, 2014, 03:25:10 PM
The Way of the Fist by 5 Finger Death Punch for my last 4 years at school
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Post by: Miss_Bungle1991 on April 16, 2014, 03:55:33 PM
Quote from: big kim on April 16, 2014, 03:25:10 PM
The Way of the Fist by 5 Finger Death Punch for my last 4 years at school

Well, when I think of school days, this one sums it up.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UUcRAd0oZH4
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Post by: big kim on April 16, 2014, 04:20:07 PM
I don't know how  I forgot about GG Allin he was as mad as a bag of badgers!
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Post by: Monica_M on April 16, 2014, 05:33:53 PM
About a Girl - Nirvana
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Post by: Colleen♡Callie on April 16, 2014, 08:01:34 PM
It changes depending on the time and mood, but right now I've been feeling "Sober" by Kelly Clarkson is pretty fitting...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=me7GYlaliRE&feature=kp

I don't know
This could break my heart or save me
Nothing's real
Until you let go completely
So here I go with all my thoughts I've been saving
So here I go with all my fears weighing on me

Three months and I'm still sober
Picked all my weeds but kept the flowers
But I know it's never really over

I don't know
I could crash and burn but maybe
At the end of this road I might catch a glimpse of me
So I won't worry about my timing I wanna get it right
No comparing
Second guessing
No, not this time

Three months and I'm still breathing
Been a long road since those hands I left my tears in but I know
It's never really over, no
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Post by: Evelyn K on April 16, 2014, 08:06:19 PM
This one might hit some of us hard.

"Say Something I'm Giving Up On You"

the old you...

Listen to the lyrics only...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-2U0Ivkn2Ds
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Post by: Jill F on April 16, 2014, 08:08:05 PM
Quote from: big kim on April 16, 2014, 04:20:07 PM
I don't know how  I forgot about GG Allin he was as mad as a bag of badgers!

That guy was completely bonkers.  I partied with him once.  That was enough!
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Post by: Mermaid on April 17, 2014, 03:35:12 AM
Quote from: Laura Squirrel on April 16, 2014, 03:00:00 PM
A crazier one, eh? What would that be? I'm curious. Faith No More totally rules, by the way. One of my top 5 favorite bands.

Same!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0sOtoq6h5cQ (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0sOtoq6h5cQ)

Yeah, it's from their nuttiest album. Supposedly the song's about children having to live up to their parents' expectations but eh... lyrics aren't that big a part of the song, I just like how pointless and crazy it all is. Oh, past the 5 minute mark the song is super awesome and makes me laugh...

And wow, GG Allin, high school must've been bad!
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Post by: Miss_Bungle1991 on April 17, 2014, 11:58:38 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UboG6Y7ACVs

Even though I like every Mr Bungle song (Demos, CD's, it doesn't matter) If I HAD to pick only one, it would be "Merry Go Bye Bye". This song is so amazing and that ending!! THAT ENDING!!....where it mellows out at the end...WOW!! The "noise" thing after the pause, though?

Meh....underdeveloped and boring. I view it as nothing more than an outtake. It IS called "Nothing", after all.
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Post by: Alaia on April 17, 2014, 04:58:08 PM
While I was still in self denial going through the motions:

Linkin Park - Numb
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kXYiU_JCYtU


Now that I'm on the road to transitioning I've kinda made Jordin Sparks' "One Step At A Time" my theme song:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PIE5QtkxzvM
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Post by: peky on April 17, 2014, 06:01:55 PM
QuoteBORN TO BE WILD...BABY !

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rMbATaj7Il8