Hi everyone!
I was wondering if anyone had any problems with depth after SRS?
(in particular, Brassard patients?)
What about sensation (inside the vagina and clitoris)?
How was your experience? (anyone is welcome to answer) ;) :)
Quote from: daahrling on April 13, 2014, 08:57:16 PM
Hi everyone!
I was wondering if anyone had any problems with depth after SRS? around 5 1/2" depth.
(in particular, Brassard patients?)
What about sensation (inside the vagina and clitoris)? Yes and Yes
How was your experience? (anyone is welcome to answer) ;) :)
I am happy, he was always the top of my list. If you look around there are more threads i and Jenna have answered on Dr. Brassard.
Isabell
Quote from: mind is quiet now on April 13, 2014, 09:40:15 PM
Hi Isabell :)
Would you say that you found the depth appropriate/enough?
Also, do you think his surgery provides a "natural" look (I know that there is a lot of variation in both cis and trans woman)? I want a very clean but natural look (sort of like these: http://urogyn.org/labiaplasty_rim.html)
Please let me know. I look forward to your answers :D ;)
Quote from: daahrling on April 13, 2014, 09:53:52 PM
Hi Isabell :)
Would you say that you found the depth appropriate/enough? Depth is good for the average and once i made it up to the OMG (orange monster guage) dilator, size was also good. When everyone gets stuck on depth. A male only has so much room for depth, if you try and get to much depth is when fistula happens. Dr B is around the 6 inch mark.
Also, do you think his surgery provides a "natural" look (I know that there is a lot of variation in both cis and trans woman)? I want a very clean but natural look (sort of like these: http://urogyn.org/labiaplasty_rim.html) Yes mine is more like the right side of the pics.
Please let me know. I look forward to your answers :D ;)
Quote from: mind is quiet now on April 13, 2014, 10:21:55 PM
Oh, I see. The thing about Dr. Suporn is he *guarantees* at least 6 inches of depth. I don't know if Brassard guarantees any at all? This worries me a lot, because I definitely want to be able to have an active sex life afterwards :embarrassed:
Ah, yes. I want that sort of look (like the ones on the right). If I can get something like that I will be very happy :D ;) :)
Quote from: daahrling on April 13, 2014, 10:25:38 PM
Oh, I see. The thing about Dr. Suporn is he *guarantees* at least 6 inches of depth. I don't know if Brassard guarantees any at all? This worries me a lot, because I definitely want to be able to have an active sex life afterwards :embarrassed:
Ah, yes. I want that sort of look (like the ones on the right). If I can get something like that I will be very happy :D ;) :)
As i said other places, I am a solid 5 1/2" depth mark. I am about normal to most that loose about 1/2" from there starting depth. Again that is one thing dilations are so important. I can not stress enough the aftercare is so, so important.
Isabell
Quote from: mind is quiet now on April 13, 2014, 10:31:30 PM
As i said other places, I am a solid 5 1/2" depth mark. I am about normal to most that loose about 1/2" from there starting depth. Again that is one thing dilations are so important. I can not stress enough the aftercare is so, so important.
Isabell
I see. Do you know if Brassard guarantees any type of depth? Do you think that by consistent dilation it is possible to gain more (even if little) depth or it returns to the same as it was immediately after the surgery? Also, what does it feel like when you reach the end of the vagina? What about the channel itself (I read that during the first year post-op that the tissue becomes like the ones in cis women). I apologize if the questions are too personal :embarrassed: :angel: :D
Quote from: daahrling on April 13, 2014, 10:37:10 PM
I see. Do you know if Brassard guarantees any type of depth? Do you think that by consistent dilation it is possible to gain more (even if little) depth or it returns to the same as it was immediately after the surgery? Also, what does it feel like when you reach the end of the vagina? What about the channel itself (I read that during the first year post-op that the tissue becomes like the ones in cis women). I apologize if the questions are too personal :embarrassed: :angel: :D
If i knew today back when i started my dilations i think i would have been able to keep my depth. But 1/2" is not much. I will let Jenna answer the rest being i am only just a few weeks past my 1 year mark.
Isabell
Quote from: mind is quiet now on April 13, 2014, 10:41:52 PM
If i knew today back when i started my dilations i think i would have been able to keep my depth. But 1/2" is not much. I will let Jenna answer the rest being i am only just a few weeks past my 1 year mark.
Isabell
Ah, I see :) You can answer too, if you'd like. Nothing that will make you uncomfortable :angel:
I am just happy for all the help ^^
Quote from: daahrling on April 13, 2014, 10:37:10 PM
I see. Do you know if Brassard guarantees any type of depth? That you will have to ask the office, i know all the girls i was with had there dilators marked at the 5 1/2" dot. One i first started dilations i could go past the mark but i held it to the mark. Do you think that by consistent dilation it is possible to gain more (even if little) depth or it returns to the same as it was immediately after the surgery? You will be able to maintain depth, he strongly says not to try and force gain any. I think damage can be done easy. Also, what does it feel like when you reach the end of the vagina? Hmmm. that is kinda hard to answer. Each size of dilator gives it own feel. What about the channel itself (I read that during the first year post-op that the tissue becomes like the ones in cis women). It changes due to emotions and such for me, mine is always moist. I still need some type of lube for it to be enjoyable. I think in more time it will get better. I apologize if the questions are too personal :embarrassed: :angel: :D
Quote from: mind is quiet now on April 13, 2014, 11:02:21 PM
Ah, okay. What about width, does the small dilator feel too large, or the bigger one too big?
Ok, so since this is a topic about sex after SRS, did you have any troubles with that? I apologize if this is too personal :P ;D :angel: I really do worry about having a channel that is too shallow
Quote from: daahrling on April 13, 2014, 11:13:14 PM
Ah, okay. What about width, does the small dilator feel too large, or the bigger one too big?
Ok, so since this is a topic about sex after SRS, did you have any troubles with that? I apologize if this is too personal :P ;D :angel: I really do worry about having a channel that is too shallow
You will only be as loose as your dilator. I have found that it is not very giving on length.
I think depth will be fine. It has been do for many years. the average of a GIS is 3-4 inch, just it is way more giving.
I found this
The depth of the typical neovagina created by male-to-female sex reassignment surgery is generally limited by the length of Denonvilliers' fascia and is reported to be between 11 and 12 cm (4.3-4.7 in), within the range of the natural female vagina.
typical vaginal depth in Masters and Johnson's participants ranged from 7–8 cm (2.8-3.1 in) in an unstimulated state, to 11–12 cm (4.3-4.7 in) during sexual arousal with a speculum in place.
Isabell
Quote from: mind is quiet now on April 13, 2014, 11:22:04 PM
You will only be as loose as your dilator. I have found that it is not very giving on length.
I think depth will be fine. It has been do for many years. the average of a GIS is 3-4 inch, just it is way more giving.
I found this
The depth of the typical neovagina created by male-to-female sex reassignment surgery is generally limited by the length of Denonvilliers' fascia and is reported to be between 11 and 12 cm (4.3-4.7 in), within the range of the natural female vagina.
typical vaginal depth in Masters and Johnson's participants ranged from 7–8 cm (2.8-3.1 in) in an unstimulated state, to 11–12 cm (4.3-4.7 in) during sexual arousal with a speculum in place.
Isabell
I see :) Hopefully whatever depth I have will be enough :D I still worry about the aesthetics though LOL
3 months post with Dr.B here and I'd like to say that I get pretty wet. I even squirt! And the texture of the vaginal walls already feel like a cis vagina which really surprised me considering I thought it would get there after months/years when the tissues change to become near mucosal.
I've been playing with vaginas since I'm like 12 and my GF is a goldstar lezzy so there's no BS there. Aesthetic wise it's really not there though and that is what I really expect(hope) to change over time and if it doesn't well at least I'll be functional.
Oh but my depth is on the short side though like 4,4.5 inches but I'm not tall and it does matter since obviously the taller you are the more room there is to dig =P
Quote from: Seyranna on April 18, 2014, 10:46:10 AM
3 months post with Dr.B here and I'd like to say that I get pretty wet. I even squirt! And the texture of the vaginal walls already feel like a cis vagina which really surprised me considering I thought it would get there after months/years when the tissues change to become near mucosal.
I've been playing with vaginas since I'm like 12 and my GF is a goldstar lezzy so there's no BS there. Aesthetic wise it's really not there though and that is what I really expect(hope) to change over time and if it doesn't well at least I'll be functional.
Oh but my depth is on the short side though like 4,4.5 inches but I'm not tall and it does matter since obviously the taller you are the more room there is to dig =P
Hi Seyranna. How are you? :)
Wow, I had no idea squirting was even possible ;D
What do you think could be improved aesthetically, if I may ask?
Did Dr. Brassard tell you beforehand around what amount of depth he was going to provide?
Please let me know. Thank you so much for answering. :) ;) :D
7-8 months post-op (not with Dr.Brassard but Dr.Kamol in Bangkok,Thailand) , i felt great with my vagina, i had great orgasm, and the depth is now 6" (was 5" when I had SRS done, Dr.Kamol told me that i was fat : 178 cm & 76 kg that time) because i lose a lot of weight after op, i now weigh 66 kg and i dilated twice daily (1 hour/time) in the first 6 months .. sex is great too , i'm very satisfied :)
Quote from: DianaWonderWoman on April 22, 2014, 05:10:10 AM
7-8 months post-op (not with Dr.Brassard but Dr.Kamol in Bangkok,Thailand) , i felt great with my vagina, i had great orgasm, and the depth is now 6" (was 5" when I had SRS done, Dr.Kamol told me that i was fat : 178 cm & 76 kg that time) because i lose a lot of weight after op, i now weigh 66 kg and i dilated twice daily (1 hour/time) in the first 6 months .. sex is great too , i'm very satisfied :)
Dr. Kamol is very famous in Brazil, I'm glad you are happy with the result :) So you gained an inch of depth after you lost weight, or is that unrelated? ???
Quote from: DianaWonderWoman on April 22, 2014, 05:10:10 AM
7-8 months post-op (not with Dr.Brassard but Dr.Kamol in Bangkok,Thailand) , i felt great with my vagina, i had great orgasm, and the depth is now 6" (was 5" when I had SRS done, Dr.Kamol told me that i was fat : 178 cm & 76 kg that time) because i lose a lot of weight after op, i now weigh 66 kg and i dilated twice daily (1 hour/time) in the first 6 months .. sex is great too , i'm very satisfied :)
I had surgery from Dr. Kamol too! My depth is 6" and a half. Im still afraid to try squirting and its been a year plus since my op. However... I did squirt while dilating it kinda hurt a wee bit. ><
Quote from: BornFree on April 22, 2014, 07:39:47 AM
I had surgery from Dr. Kamol too! My depth is 6" and a half. Im still afraid to try squirting and its been a year plus since my op. However... I did squirt while dilating it kinda hurt a wee bit. ><
i dont know how to squirt ... can you teach me please ?? LOL
Quote from: daahrling on April 22, 2014, 07:04:25 AM
Dr. Kamol is very famous in Brazil, I'm glad you are happy with the result :) So you gained an inch of depth after you lost weight, or is that unrelated? ???
i had skin graft ..and he said because i was chubby during the operation, graft might not stick well , therefore, the dept he could do was 5" only but he said if i lose some weight & push the dilate stick deep & hard, i might get 1/2" more .. lucky me , with my dilating discipline, i got 1" more
sorry , am trying to explain in English >_<
Quote from: DianaWonderWoman on April 22, 2014, 07:51:36 AM
i dont know how to squirt ... can you teach me please ?? LOL
*grins* nyehehe
Quote from: DianaWonderWoman on April 22, 2014, 07:51:36 AM
i dont know how to squirt ... can you teach me please ?? LOL
i had skin graft ..and he said because i was chubby during the operation, graft might not stick well , therefore, the dept he could do was 5" only but he said if i lose some weight & push the dilate stick deep & hard, i might get 1/2" more .. lucky me , with my dilating discipline, i got 1" more
sorry , am trying to explain in English >_<
Ah, now it makes sense :) The only photos I can find of his work are on his website, do you know if he has a support group or some other website with more photos?
Please let me know. Thanks =)
Is it safe for my boyfriend to finish inside of me? Or can there be any hygienic reason for us not to do it. I want to be completely sure that it's safe before we'll do anything like that. Oh, and please, don't mention STD. We're both clean. I just want to know if it can have any other consequences.
Thank You.
It can upset the natural ph and flora. Also can lead to the nasty fish smell from dying semen.
If your are all healed up I see nothing different then what might happen to a Cisco female.
As with any sexual health as ones doctor or gyn to be sure.
Izzy
Quote from: daahrling on April 22, 2014, 08:02:36 AM
Ah, now it makes sense :) The only photos I can find of his work are on his website, do you know if he has a support group or some other website with more photos?
Please let me know. Thanks =)
sorry for late reply, been busy irl
no i dont know any other sites to see, when I had mine done, i only saw pictures from website .. i dont have any friends who did SRS with my surgeon .. & I never ask any of my friends to show me their pic (i dont have any real life TS/TG friends, known them from website/FB only) .. imo i just read review & picked the doctor i wanted to do with .. if i was too worried about seeing as many pic as possible, i am not sure that i would have my vagina today LOL , everyone is different , every penises are different (my penis was quite big, thick & long before the surgery but because i was chubby {thats the word my surgeon told me LOL , I am 178cm & weighed 77kg before SRS, but today I weigh 65-66kg, his word kinda help me loose weight too LMAO} i got only 5" depth from skin graft method .. but today I reach 6" depth because of my dilating routine , am so happy with 6" depth with dilating stick no.6), and the method that surgeon gonna do to each person is different as well, therefore the outcome/appearance is different .. ;D
i hope you find the right surgeon for you, good luck ! ;)