right im sure there are better ways of putting this but that matters not, i hear lots about post op depth and nothing about width, i need to know if i get srs is it possible to be fisted. I know its a odd question but its a super important one for me :) x
While I am not post op, so I would be far from an expert, but I would think it would be possible. I would think you would have to work at it though. I think things would stretch like anything else.. Not sure though. Quite the kinky question but I for one appreciate you openness. Suppose it is something we should know if the occasion were to happen. Myself I would be a little intimidated but that's me... ;D ;D ;D
Sheesh, I just spat me coffee out when I read that. Never mind it is currently being topped up by my eyes watering due to the thoughts conjured up. :eusa_shifty:
With enough work it may be somewhere to conceal your personal belongings. ;D
Seriously though, it is an interesting question. How stretchy does the neo vagina get. Does the skin used change its properties over time ? Would tearing not be an issue due to the method(s) of construction and how it is attached to whatever is inside.
Knowing a little about surgery, physiology and having seen a few different surgoens do SRS, I'm going to say maybe. But if you can, it's unlikely to be comfortable.. And I wouldn't be attempting it before 5 months or so, you'll want to be fully healed..
:o you would have to do lots of stretching down there. the neo vag is not as flexible as a genetic female's.
it has to be extra flexible because otherwise how could babies get out .
you could possibly damage something down there and or end up with a loose Vag.
or maybe not
umm so it might be a possibility ? lets hope, i have some strange cis friends and wish to fit in lol.
Quote from: jebee on April 17, 2014, 11:11:31 AM
umm so it might be a possibility ? lets hope, i have some strange cis friends and wish to fit in lol.
I would say so... LOL... It's all good though... But like Nikkit, I had to clean my keyboard of coffee when I first read your post... Did make my day though, I'm still chuckling... ;D ;D ;D
LOOOOOOLL this is so hilarious
Did you not say you would remain a ->-bleeped-<- forever before? You changed mind now? ;D
Quote from: Evolving Beauty on April 17, 2014, 11:38:42 AM
LOOOOOOLL this is so hilarious
Did you not say you would remain a ->-bleeped-<- forever before? You changed mind now? ;D
i dont know why its so funny its a perfectly important question, and yes i have changed my mind.
Personally I found it to be a valid question... But you have to admit it is a little funny. But valid none the less... I don't think I could have ask it.. ;D ;D ;D
Quote from: Veronica M on April 17, 2014, 01:34:20 PM
Personally I found it to be a valid question... But you have to admit it is a little funny. But valid none the less... I don't think I could have ask it.. ;D ;D ;D
I want to know what im singing up to, and if that involves asking interesting questions it does, though i must admit its a bit funny. xx
Most natal females would struggle being vaginally fisted. I think it would be difficult for re constructed women to do so. Considering dilation and getting the larger ones in, no damn way would I let a fist in, and no way could I.
Quote from: jebee on April 17, 2014, 11:11:31 AM
umm so it might be a possibility ? lets hope, i have some strange cis friends and wish to fit in lol.
I hope you would do it because you think it would be a worthwhile experience and not just to fit in.
Quote from: ♡ Emily ♡ on April 17, 2014, 03:01:50 PM
Well, "fitting in" was quite ironical choice of verbs - given the topic of thread.
:laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
Brassard's nurses said width can be gained even though depth can't, which has been my experience and that of most women I know using the Soul Source dilators (caveat only b/c I'm not familiar enough with the other types to know the sizes etc.). I am easily able to accommodate the largest, which I couldn't when immediately post-op. I assume there's SOME limit to the possible width, though, and it's probably the dimensions of the pelvis. So the answer is probably the same as for cis women, but a bit less likely for us : if all the variables align, including hand size and pelvis size and vaginal stretchiness, yes.
I know at least one post-op woman here has said she managed it, but I'm not that brave. :) I do also second the recommendation that you be *fully* healed before trying.
I could have sworn I replied to this but I don't see my post . . .
Yes it is possible to be fisted but requires a LOT of working up to it! How much depends on you natural size and how big the guy's hands are. Lots of lube is also required.
On the other hand (pun intended!) it is the most incredibly arousing feeling, multi-orgasmic, mind-blowing experience EVER! (Not that I would know anything about it ROFL!!!)
I'm going to go out on a limb and admit that I've *seen* a woman fisted and I could not *imagine* that happening to me. Maybe I'm too lazy to do the work. :)
I'm sorry, maybe I'm not very socially experienced , but what's the purpose of being fisted. I know someone told me once that he was at a party and girls used two liter coke bottles . I don't know if that's the same I'm kind of confused. I know if someone tried to put a fist in me they immediately would get one back
Quote from: stephaniec on April 18, 2014, 02:55:15 PM
I'm sorry, maybe I'm not very socially experienced , but what's the purpose of being fisted. I know someone told me once that he was at a party and girls used two liter coke bottles . I don't know if that's the same I'm kind of confused. I know if someone tried to put a fist in me they immediately would get one back
I have no idea, tbh. But its something thats super inportant to me.
I looked it up in the urban dictionary . I guess it's not something I'd be interested in after SRS. I could see another part of a man inside me though
Fisting sounds interesting... something i would like to try.
Over the years, I've developed fondness for a lot of sexual kinks, fetishes and activities...but not once have I ever had the desire to be fisted
Quote from: stephaniec on April 18, 2014, 06:39:42 PM
I looked it up in the urban dictionary . I guess it's not something I'd be interested in after SRS. I could see another part of a man inside me though
no MAN will be putting his fist in me ether. Lol
Quote from: jebee on April 19, 2014, 05:00:52 AM
no MAN will be putting his fist in me ether. Lol
LOL... I have always been of the consensus if it feels good do it... But that would be a hand full... (Sorry, couldn't resist)
;D ;D ;D
Quote from: jebee on April 19, 2014, 05:00:52 AM
no MAN will be putting his fist in me ether. Lol
well then that's a different story.
Gone fisting?
No, seriously, even ciswomen mostly think it's more painful than pleasurable and you need to really work up to it. And yes, I've fisted.
I would think that I wouldn't want to risk a fist-ula this way! *rimshot*
There might only be a handful of people on the planet that can answer this with any certainty but if things work similar to any other orifice I would imagine it's just a matter of liberal lubrication and years of training, with the proper training and preparation I would presume it should be very pleasurable.
Size Queens come in all shapes and sizes ::)
Quote from: Jill F on April 19, 2014, 11:20:41 AM
I would think that I wouldn't want to risk a fist-ula this way! *rimshot*
Hahahahaha! Jill, whatever it is that you're taking, I want some!
My two Euro-cents' worth: after all the effort and money to finally **have** a vagina, I would really hate to do myself a damage with something as invasive as fisting. There is a limit to the amount of stretch in skin, and given how many girls complain about plain ol' dilation, it would have to be a very small fist... And we do need to be be realistic - it's fantastic that medical science can help us out, but we shouldn't really expect totally equivalent functionality from our new anatomy compared with a natal vagina.
For me, "close" is quite good enough :)