So, here I am, being bothered to go out more and more, it's now warm again and I'd LOVE to be able to wear my awesome dress' and skirts, the problem however is, I don't know how to tuck? Nor what I need in order TO tuck? I also have no idea the cost of the stuff needed to tuck, if it's reusable/washable or if it makes any sounds when taking it off. (Cuss the name tucking sounds like tape is involved so, yea..) I also don't know the risks of tucking or what happens if you get excited *cough* while you're tucked? I basically know NOTHING and REALLY need to know all of this. However, I'm scared even if you explain to me how to tuck, I may not understand it. (I've always been the type to get how to do things when shown vs. reading how to do it lol) Still, if anyone can help me out that'd be great. Oh and how long does tucking last and if you undo it can you re-tuck using the same stuff you currently just undid?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fzp9tbedh7Q start at 4:28. been wearing mines for the past month. just got it right last week though lol
I haven't done it much but there are some good videos in YouTube. No, they're not explicit. Also lookup "gaff", a form of clothing that helps you do it without tape.
I just wear a slimming brief , does the trick
This is how I did it for a while and its easy to wash, comfortable and easy to hide under clothing.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ia6Zeeb2ZH0
You also need to learn to insert your testes inside yourself, which sounds sore but is easy once you practice. I recommend laying on your bed once you make the gaff and very slowly pushing then up until them seem to sit a cm or two in you, then pull back your...bit >.> and pull the gaff up. This will give you a flat look.
I have a pair of vassarette under-shapers (bought it from wal mart for like $2.50) and it works fantastic. Just push... yourself back and pull them up. The underwear will hold it for hours and hours without getting uncomfortable. I fully recommend these, and will be buying more soon, lol.
I'm not sure I get the need for gaffs unless your like uber well hung or have huge testicals or you know something. I just sit on a seat with my panties just above my knee ready to go.Push your testicals up into that bit where they naturally run and hide when your cold(and seriously if it hurts at all either your trying to push them into the wrong place or your being too rough).Once there in place, stand and wrap your penis as if your trying to make it touch your anus and basically if you have done it right you will have what looks like a vagina anyway(roughly)then just pull up your panties(make sure they are a good tight fit) and thats it. To me thats easier than making gaffs or taping/gluing or whatever ppl do. If your on HRT your testicals will be shrinking like crazy anyway so for me at least this is getting easier and easier. Everything stays in place, no pain or discomfort.
But like I said I guess it might depend on your size. BTW clearly wearing a tiny g-string you will need a gaff but then again I dont get why you would be wearing one anyway, not like ur gonna show a bit of butt and say check out my sexy gaff ;)
Just my two cents. Try the tight boyleg/hipster(can still get plenty of sexy variations of them and there slightly wider across the pelvic area, so no need for a gaff) panty thing tho I think it will work :)
I never use tape.
I use two pairs of 10% spandex women's panties that are a size or two small for me. I stick the boys into my inguinal canal, angle the shaft pointing backward, and then pull the panties up. It takes about four seconds, and everything stays tucked all day. I can jump, cough, run, etc., never had a problem.
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And not doimg any of this is why i hand to exsperiment and waste so much monay buying skirts that my bulge diddnt show though, (i just pull it all up the front).
never realy had a problemb with it dressed although i do hate the sight of my, half naked, ready for bed, crotch area. But extra effort looking at and touching it is somthing id rather be without.
I don't often worry about tucking unless I'm wearing a swimsuit. My jeans are usually tight enough that it keeps everything in place the first time, and when I wear dresses and skirts I don't put much effort into "effectively" tucking 100% :P. But in the situation that I need to tuck and make sure it stays in place, I pretty much just wear tighter underwear :P not CRAZY tight, just maybe one size smaller and it works quite well. Though that first video above is SUPER helpful, I'm definitely gonna give that a shot xD
The idea of tape has always made me cringe because tape hurts lol... And ive tried over and over to do the "legit" tucking where you put the two unwanted house guests back into their respective guest rooms and then pull the landlord between :P i can't seem to get it right >_____< and i'm afraid of hurting myself lol.
Curious question (for anyone who is interested in answer; don't wanna take attention away from the OP's post & also; sorry if it's a bit graphic): when you successfully do the legit tuck, are they supposed to reside in a place that it feels as though they are somewhat "under" the frontal pubic region?... because in my attempts... thats about as much success as i've managed... it kinda makes me fear for accidentally running into the corner of a table >_<.. or is the inguinal cavity somewhere else?
Quote from: LittleEmily24 on May 21, 2014, 11:08:07 AM
Curious question (for anyone who is interested in answer; don't wanna take attention away from the OP's post & also; sorry if it's a bit graphic): when you successfully do the legit tuck, are they supposed to reside in a place that it feels as though they are somewhat "under" the frontal pubic region?... because in my attempts... thats about as much success as i've managed... it kinda makes me fear for accidentally running into the corner of a table >_<.. or is the inguinal cavity somewhere else?
In me, the inguinal canals are directly upwards toward my head and away from my feet. I suppose if I bumped that part of my lower abdomen it wouldn't feel pleasant.
I need to add one caveat. This worked better after a few weeks of spiro and some shrinkage. When I first started HRT, it was too uncomfortable, and I had to settle with just resting them in the cavity.
Quote from: suzifrommd on May 21, 2014, 11:53:52 AM
In me, the inguinal canals are directly upwards toward my head and away from my feet. I suppose if I bumped that part of my lower abdomen it wouldn't feel pleasant.
I need to add one caveat. This worked better after a few weeks of spiro and some shrinkage. When I first started HRT, it was too uncomfortable, and I had to settle with just resting them in the cavity.
This was infinitely helpful lol, all this time I thought that it was NOT supposed to be there xD I guess now I know where the inguinal canals are EXACTLY. I guess i've been doing it right and just didnt know it hahaha.
I can't really tell if i've had any atrophy yet :P shows how well acquainted I am with my equipment lol
Quote from: suzifrommd on May 21, 2014, 11:53:52 AM
In me, the inguinal canals are directly upwards toward my head and away from my feet. I suppose if I bumped that part of my lower abdomen it wouldn't feel pleasant.
I need to add one caveat. This worked better after a few weeks of spiro and some shrinkage. When I first started HRT, it was too uncomfortable, and I had to settle with just resting them in the cavity.
I usually don't put them up there... But when I'm sitting down they sometimes just.. 'slide up in! It's not uncomfortable for a while since it happens a lot, but it really starts to get sore after a while. Does this go away? I've tucked with them both inside, but it feels reaaaally uncomfortable to walk around and it hurts after a while.
So how long does it usually take to get used to it?
Quote from: MikaylaGC on May 20, 2014, 09:22:22 PM
Push your testicals up into that bit where they naturally run and hide when your cold(and seriously if it hurts at all either your trying to push them into the wrong place or your being too rough).
Wait. Come again? I'm confused. I don't feel any aircraft wheel compartments for mine to ascend up into.
Quote from: Evelyn K on May 21, 2014, 04:02:48 PM
Wait. Come again? I'm confused. I don't feel any aircraft wheel compartments for mine to ascend up into.
I know 0.0. Im reading all these posts and making complete, waste of time attempts to follow them. And i have absoloutly no idea.
I'd like to try the 2 size smaller panty method, but where do I find something smaller than an XS? And what would that size be called?
Quote from: suzifrommd on May 21, 2014, 09:47:09 AM
I never use tape.
I use two pairs of 10% spandex women's panties that are a size or two small for me. I stick the boys into my inguinal canal, angle the shaft pointing backward, and then pull the panties up. It takes about four seconds, and everything stays tucked all day. I can jump, cough, run, etc., never had a problem.
Pretty much the same here, panties one size too small, only I wear and extra set of panties, just in case. push my testes up into their canals, tuck penis under and back, pull undies up, no problems, can move around and do everything like normal. Well, unless in that rare case I've been off the hormones too long and that thing decides out of the blue to get aroused for no reason but its own. But while I have testicles I rarely feel comfortable wearing short tops that don't cover my crotch area, another precaution.
I just made myself laugh with the whole tape thing. Made me picture a scene, trans-girl in the toilet stall, bathroom full, other women have to go to the bathroom as well waiting to use it, suddenly there a sound like that of tape being unrolled and cut. A cis-gender girl outside stall, "Hey, come on, I have to pee! What're doing in there anyway, wrapping presents!?"
I tried briefs and all that, but invariably, things get moving and pinched and uncomfortable. For the last several years, I've only taped and wear it like that for several days at a time before undoing, shaving and all that and then the next day, back to it, unless I have a day or two off and then I'll just let my unders deal with holding things as best they can.
Quote from: Megan Joanne on May 21, 2014, 04:39:38 PM
push my testes up into their canals,
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Lol. Ok well the easiest way to kind of explain this is, if you standing up relatively straight and you gently grab one of ur you know testicals(insert cool alternative word here :P )and were to push it directly upwards it will slide into what feels like a cavity area thats where your supposed to put them. And seriously unless you have two basketballs down there to begin with (yay?) HRT shouldve shrunk them enough by the end of the 2 or 3 rd month that its like an easy thing to do. OF course they will kinda fall out or move as your adjusting everything else but the point is have your panties around your knees to ready to go and the panties will just hold that whole setup in place.
PS - If your feeling evil, go do whatever it takes to make you testicals cold ie. cold water, ice, snow whatevs and watch where they go(and medically they do run and hide lol) and thats 10000000% percent where your supposed to put them. WARNING brave bishes only :P
Unfortunately a gaff is required for me as the small underwear trick does not work for me, I end up with a bulge. I am also pre everything and cursed with an above average nether regions which would be brilliant if I was not a woman stuck in a male meat suit :-\. The inserting the testicles part is not as hard as people might think, in fact it took me a few tries but the putting your hands in the freezer for a moment trick allowed mother nature to give me a quick lesson in "oh god.. I know where they go now."
In the end it is a matter of trial and error and with HRT I am sure it is easier. One silly question will HRT shrink the shaft as well as the testicles or just the testicles.
Quote from: Debussy on May 21, 2014, 01:25:49 PM
It's not uncomfortable for a while since it happens a lot, but it really starts to get sore after a while. Does this go away?
After I'd been on Spiro for about a month, it became a lot easier. Before that, it became too uncomfortable to do for any length of time.
Quote from: MikaylaGC on May 21, 2014, 05:53:54 PM
Lol. Ok well the easiest way to kind of explain this is, if you standing up relatively straight and you gently grab one of ur you know testicals(insert cool alternative word here :P )and were to push it directly upwards it will slide into what feels like a cavity area thats where your supposed to put them.
Nope. No discernible wheel wells to be found. I must be a factory defect. :-\
Sorry I can't really help, since I don't need to.
But, I've heard Gaffs are really good to use.
Quote from: Shana-chan on May 20, 2014, 08:14:35 PM
So, here I am, being bothered to go out more and more, it's now warm again and I'd LOVE to be able to wear my awesome dress' and skirts, the problem however is, I don't know how to tuck? Nor what I need in order TO tuck? I also have no idea the cost of the stuff needed to tuck, if it's reusable/washable or if it makes any sounds when taking it off.
Unless they're skin tight or incredibly short you probably don't need to tuck when wearing dresses. I don't, but am the opposite of well hung anyway.
A gaff is essentially a tight thong with enough material at the front to keep everything pushed back and under and in place.
When I'm wearing pants & jeans (and once, a swim suit) I'll use a gaff and tuck like there's no tomorrow. Generally I find it more comfortable to wear it over a pair of tightish knickers/panties to stop it from digging into my butt. ;D
Your ability to make it work will depend on the size of what you're trying to tuck and the type of clothes you're wearing over the top. Like I said, I'm not well hung and can apparently get away with wearing skinny jeans without trouble or problems.
For jeans and dresses I just do the two panty method. After 5 months on HRT my testicles have considerably shrunk so its much easier to push them up in the canal.
I have recently began doing a yoga class and have resorted to using a cut up sock and 3 pieces of tape to hold everything in place. I can wear skin tight yoga shorts with no fear of bulge being seen. Even my parents thought I got my GRS when I showed them what I have to do down below to feel comfortable enough to do yoga and not have the fear of the bulge outing me.
Thank you everyone for your replies. Other than the panty one where you use nothing, I couldn't follow what the rest was talking about. lol I've yet to watch those vids either as 10 mins is a long time just to show someone and tell them how to do something. lol
New question, what about tucking when you're wearing a swimsuit? Also, what about the hair down there? Do woman's hair down there stick out and show or, what? (When they wear a swimsuit)
Quote from: Ms Grace on May 23, 2014, 03:48:17 AM
Unless they're skin tight or incredibly short you probably don't need to tuck when wearing dresses. I don't, but am the opposite of well hung anyway.
Unless the wind blows them against that area which then shows a bulge if you're not tucking. Or sometimes even sitting down or just walking does the same thing.