Hi, I'm Chance. My whole life I've thought I was a lesbian, lived happily as a lesbian, got married one year ago, and in my journey to my authentic self discovered that I definitely do not subscribe to the gender binary. Recently I've started experiencing some things that might go beyond wishing to do female in my own way so I'm starting to seek out information.
I don't think I want to become a male although I have often thought how much more comfortable I would be with a physical body of a male. Do I just want my cake and eat it too? Or have I just not reached acceptance of being transgendered myself? These are the questions I'm here to figure out. I have a therapist that I have had for many years but she is not familiar with tg issues I don't believe. So that's another thing I'm here to find out about, selecting a different or new therapist.
I would also like to discuss with other non-binary/tg folks situations that arise and exist while I'm figuring myself out. Looking forward to great discussion and exchanging information.
So, this is me.... Chance
Hey Chance!
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Grace
A big warm welcome Chance! :) This is a supportive and loving family who will do what they can to help you. All you have to do is ask and you will get several different views in return to your questions. Relax and dig right in! :)