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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: stephaniec on May 22, 2014, 01:42:25 PM

Title: a very pickle of a day so far
Post by: stephaniec on May 22, 2014, 01:42:25 PM
started out taking the bus to shop at target for a dress for my next therapy session.  I get on the bus and this guy sits extremely close to me pinning me against the seat divider . I could of moved but only had a little ways to go. He ended up staring at my legs the whole time. I had on an above the knee dress , but when I sit down it goes to my waist. I get to target sit in the cafĂ© and look at my image on the web cam to see if every thing alright . I begin to have a melt down about not seeing anything in the slightest feminine. almost panic attack time in the middle of a big store. Force myself to plow ahead and buy the dress. Made it through the man in the dress syndrome. I decide to take cab home then realize I need to talk. I do alright at first, then get to destination and find my credit card doesn't work. I'm forced to talk longer . I think I did all right , but was freaking . My card finally went through and the nightmare over.
Title: Re: a very pickle of a day so far
Post by: Jessica Merriman on May 22, 2014, 02:54:21 PM
 :eusa_clap: :icon_hug: :icon_yes: :icon_woowoo:

There you go Stephanie. You took on the beast and didn't let it win. Good job even with the rough conditions. :)
Title: Re: a very pickle of a day so far
Post by: stephaniec on May 22, 2014, 02:56:01 PM
Quote from: Jessica Merriman on May 22, 2014, 02:54:21 PM
:eusa_clap: :icon_hug: :icon_yes: :icon_woowoo:

There you go Stephanie. You took on the beast and didn't let it win. Good job even with the rough conditions. :)
I'm just so loving being me
Title: Re: a very pickle of a day so far
Post by: Ms Grace on May 22, 2014, 03:11:32 PM
Congrats on beating back the fear and doubt monsters!
Title: Re: a very pickle of a day so far
Post by: jussmoi4nao on May 22, 2014, 03:19:08 PM
So what if somebody thinks you're a man in a dress? Why can't men wear dresses? Last I checked dresses were made for people...it just so happens mostly women wear them. And you are a woman...from what I've seen a very strong, determined and persistent woman, at that, so no biggie ;)

Bottom line is, you're fab and don't let anyone make you feel otherwise, even for a second ;)
Title: Re: a very pickle of a day so far
Post by: stephaniec on May 22, 2014, 03:19:45 PM
Quote from: Ms Grace on May 22, 2014, 03:11:32 PM
Congrats on beating back the fear and doubt monsters!
those monsters are bigger than the ones Godzilla fights
Title: Re: a very pickle of a day so far
Post by: stephaniec on May 22, 2014, 03:22:41 PM
Quote from: Abbyxo on May 22, 2014, 03:19:08 PM
So what if somebody thinks you're a man in a dress? Why can't men wear dresses? Last I checked dresses were made for people...it just so happens mostly women wear them. And you are a woman...from what I've seen a very strong, determined and persistent woman, at that, so no biggie ;)

Bottom line is, you're fab and don't let anyone make you feel otherwise, even for a second ;)
thanks
Title: Re: a very pickle of a day so far
Post by: Cindy on May 22, 2014, 04:17:42 PM
Congrats Hon, facing Godzilla and winning - that Sis is what makes us pass.

You are a wonderful lady and should be very proud.
Title: Re: a very pickle of a day so far
Post by: stephaniec on May 22, 2014, 04:24:52 PM
Quote from: Cindy on May 22, 2014, 04:17:42 PM
Congrats Hon, facing Godzilla and winning - that Sis is what makes us pass.

You are a wonderful lady and should be very proud.
thank you so much. I really appreciate it.