Hello to all,
I'm 50, divorced and I am transvestite long.
Nature has helped me because I have gynecomastia.
I'm 1,90 m and 115 kg, I look a bit like a Yeti. So I can not become a Woman. Here in France it would be impossible to live on a daily basis, it would be a tragedy for my children. French society is not very open ....
So I have to stay transvestite ...
I have a well-rounded chest that requires wearing a bra. My physics allows me to spend my days as a man with a bra and a nice chest. I never had any comments about this bra. At least when I am a woman, I have a nice chest. I ordered my first bra "tailor" this week.
I had great difficulty in agreeing not to become woman but I found a way of life that allows me to still be feminized.
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Hi Perele,
I'm surprised that France is not more open to gender differences. There are conferences scattered about that are celebratory of us and our femininity that you might want to explore. One just ended here in Washington State USA, which was life changing for me. I hope you can find a place where acceptance of diversity is both allowed and embraced. This is one of those magical virtual places until more real world options are there. Welcome.
Julie
We have another member from France. I think the legal hassles she described for transition over there is awful. I'm glad you found a way to be able to deal with it. Welcome to Susan's.
One of the cool things about this place is having members from all over the world.
Hi there Perele :icon_wave: and welcome to Susan's! Here you'll find a lot of great information and a lot of great people to talk with as well! Here's a big :icon_hug: from your new sister.
Hi Perele and welcome to Susan's.
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