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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Topic started by: Jay on July 24, 2007, 12:20:17 PM

Title: Parents!!!
Post by: Jay on July 24, 2007, 12:20:17 PM
Right I am not going to run around the houses I am going to jump right in with it!

Well today is a lovely raining day her is sunny England  :-\  and about 10 mins ago my sister and my mother come in from going what I think was clothes shopping.  :-X
I mentioned to my mother yesterday that there is a pair of shoes that I like in Tescos (I know the rhymes and don't perticually care.. I'm broke!) for £18 and she said that I should put them on my credit card. (By the way these shoes are mens and where/are going to be used for an office job that I hopefully am going to get offered in September. I don't own any shoes what so ever other than trainers and there white so yeah.... anyhow)

My mother after talking to me for about 5 mins says to me "oh yeah are them shoes in Tesco's mens?" and I said "yeah" and my mother and sister where like "thats skanky" and there other comments and mum insisted shouting "there skanky you cant wear mens shoes to work in an office" I just acted like a typical teenager and shouted "yeah yeah yeah" and shut my bedroom door on them. (so sick of this)  Then my mother comes into my room after giving me an application form for another job and says AGAIN "you cant wear mens shoes". "People will be like errr shes wearing mens shoes" I said "Alright" in a sarcastic not really paying attention to what she is saying, she replied "they will think your some kind of trany". I however didn't reply and I wanted deep down to shout I am!!! however I cant tell my parents whilst I am still living here because they are so hard to talk to they think everything is a phase and treat me like I am 10 still and it annoys the heck out of me!

Just wanted to share this all with you........ GRRRRRRRR!!!!!  :embarrassed:
Title: Re: Parents!!!
Post by: Sarah Louise on July 24, 2007, 12:30:48 PM
It is going to take time.  That doesn't mean it isn't hard and frustrating right now.

Sorry


Sarah L.
Title: Re: Parents!!!
Post by: Nero on July 24, 2007, 12:39:10 PM
She actually said people will think you're some kind of ->-bleeped-<-? Ouch. :(
God, I don't see what the big deal is. Men's shoes, women's shoes. People can't tell the difference.
Sheesh! ::)
Title: Re: Parents!!!
Post by: Jay on July 24, 2007, 01:14:34 PM
Quote from: Nero on July 24, 2007, 12:39:10 PM
She actually said people will think you're some kind of ->-bleeped-<-? Ouch. :(
God, I don't see what the big deal is. Men's shoes, women's shoes. People can't tell the difference.
Sheesh! ::)

I know shes harsh she truly is I think she knows I either want to be a man or something else not sure...
I know tell me about it... I don't care how somebody dresses and would certainly not judge them on it either...
Title: Re: Parents!!!
Post by: Jay on July 24, 2007, 02:09:07 PM
Quote from: HAHA! note 'UK' usage!6. skanky  65 up, 31 down 

something or someone thats horrible, dirty or just ->-bleeped-<-ed up. (UK)

finding a pair of your old dirty underpants,
'uuuhhh, they're skanky!'
You Are Truly In Good Form Jaston!

More Love, LOL :icon_bunch: ("thankyou" music from "Dio" <a href="http://cbsplayer.streamtheworld.com/index.php?CALLSIGN=WZGCFM">was HERE</a>)


Thanks for translating that Kiera.... sorry for my britishisms everyone!  ;D
Title: Re: Parents!!!
Post by: Judge Yourself on July 24, 2007, 02:34:45 PM
skanky - i just had to comment on that, always good to see someone else using that word - we get all the americanisms so its about time, pass the word everyone :P
Title: Re: Parents!!!
Post by: Jay on July 24, 2007, 02:47:33 PM
Quote from: Kiera on July 24, 2007, 02:35:56 PM
Quote from: Jaston on July 24, 2007, 02:09:07 PMThanks for translating that Kiera.... sorry for my britishisms everyone!  ;D

Oh, no problem Love! Gonna need to meet yer MUM one day! Funny, in a way, I feel like I know her already!
Any Relation <a href="http://www.harry-potter-games.com/Petunia_Dursley.htm">Here</a>?
:icon_bunch: LOL

That could be my mum seriously! Feels like it! Somebody had Harry Potter on there mine then hey?

Posted on: 24 July 2007, 20:47:13
Kiera your picture?????
Title: Re: Parents!!!
Post by: Nero on July 24, 2007, 02:51:36 PM
Quote from: Judge Yourself on July 24, 2007, 02:34:45 PM
skanky - i just had to comment on that, always good to see someone else using that word - we get all the americanisms so its about time, pass the word everyone :P
We use skanky here all the time. Just that it means something else.

Skank - dirty, trashy, promiscuous woman

Skanky - something a skank would do, say, wear, etc
Title: Re: Parents!!!
Post by: Jay on July 24, 2007, 03:13:02 PM
Quote from: Kiera on July 24, 2007, 03:02:01 PM
Quote from: Jaston on July 24, 2007, 02:47:33 PMKiera your picture?????


Your Guessing My Picture!!!! >:(

Now, you listen to me young man , er, (*thought to self* oh that's right, I had a daughter!) young girl, don't be a covering your ears when I am talking to you![/b]

ha ha I know who it is...... but I thought you would put one up of you finally....... :(
Title: Re: Parents!!!
Post by: greg-unknown on August 16, 2007, 01:20:01 PM
Quote from: Jaston on July 24, 2007, 12:20:17 PM
Right I am not going to run around the houses I am going to jump right in with it!

Well today is a lovely raining day her is sunny England  :-\  and about 10 mins ago my sister and my mother come in from going what I think was clothes shopping.  :-X
I mentioned to my mother yesterday that there is a pair of shoes that I like in Tescos (I know the rhymes and don't perticually care.. I'm broke!) for £18 and she said that I should put them on my credit card. (By the way these shoes are mens and where/are going to be used for an office job that I hopefully am going to get offered in September. I don't own any shoes what so ever other than trainers and there white so yeah.... anyhow)

My mother after talking to me for about 5 mins says to me "oh yeah are them shoes in Tesco's mens?" and I said "yeah" and my mother and sister where like "thats skanky" and there other comments and mum insisted shouting "there skanky you cant wear mens shoes to work in an office" I just acted like a typical teenager and shouted "yeah yeah yeah" and shut my bedroom door on them. (so sick of this)  Then my mother comes into my room after giving me an application form for another job and says AGAIN "you cant wear mens shoes". "People will be like errr shes wearing mens shoes" I said "Alright" in a sarcastic not really paying attention to what she is saying, she replied "they will think your some kind of trany". I however didn't reply and I wanted deep down to shout I am!!! however I cant tell my parents whilst I am still living here because they are so hard to talk to they think everything is a phase and treat me like I am 10 still and it annoys the heck out of me!

Just wanted to share this all with you........ GRRRRRRRR!!!!!  :embarrassed:


my mom told me to wait untill i was older to decide about things like if i want to be a man, i just want to tell her that i know i am, but at least she siad this "If you are like thirty years old and you decide you want to be a man, go ahead." at least she wont mind...
Title: Re: Parents!!!
Post by: Pica Pica on August 16, 2007, 02:39:58 PM
Is there a difference in men and women's formal shoes then?

MMM Slang, one of the few things I am patriotic about.

I want the The New Partridge Dictionary of Slang and Unconventional English, 60,000 entries - 125 pounds....