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General Discussions => General discussions => ARGHHH! => Topic started by: Jessica90 on June 25, 2014, 03:26:32 AM

Title: Are Gahhh anyone else feeling alone
Post by: Jessica90 on June 25, 2014, 03:26:32 AM
Ok girls so I'm here just curious I'm 4 weeks in on hormones my libido has dropped I'm on progesterone and estrogen my bf dumped me Cus he wasn't ok with my transition and I live alone away from family we barely talk just curious how do you all deal with your stress and feeling of being alone ? I know maybe I'm hormonal but I just get this feeling I have so much I'm front of me and I'm soooo scared Cus I have a very small support group how do you do with the stress ? The crying and emotional moments when they happen ide love anybody input I have a bad should so I'm not working and I'm mainly stuck at home all day
Title: Re: Are Gahhh anyone else feeling alone
Post by: LordKAT on June 25, 2014, 05:03:15 AM
Nothing wrong with volunteering to visit the elderly or kids in hospital. Helps them and you aren't so alone.
Title: Re: Are Gahhh anyone else feeling alone
Post by: Jessica90 on June 25, 2014, 05:09:16 AM
Hmm never thought about that I'm a vet I'm sure I could volunteer at a hospital thanks :)
Title: Re: Are Gahhh anyone else feeling alone
Post by: Cindy on June 25, 2014, 05:14:21 AM
You can: be a volunteer for disabled or aged people, join an amateur theatre group, go to a LGBT centre and help kids.

The more you give without wanting or expecting anything - the more you will receive without knowing it.
Title: Re: Are Gahhh anyone else feeling alone
Post by: Jessica90 on June 25, 2014, 05:49:28 AM
Thanks Cindy it's just hard I get social anxiety so i don't know  sometimes I really want to be in the community then I get really scared guess it's something internally I'm still battling with but ide love to help people I mean that's what my major is going to be i love being around people and life situations
Title: Re: Are Gahhh anyone else feeling alone
Post by: Ms Grace on June 25, 2014, 05:57:53 AM
I've always found that when certain relationships wither away it's a sign to go looking for other connections, new people, new situations. Or sometimes it's a case of reconnecting with old relationships that withered away years ago. What goes around comes around.
Title: Re: Are Gahhh anyone else feeling alone
Post by: Jessica90 on June 25, 2014, 07:41:53 AM
Grace it's hard for me Cus I'm not full time and most guys see transitioning women as sex toys which is frustrating Cus I'm not and my last relationship she was trans so that's not going to happen because we now hang out and talk I moved away from home about a year ago so I'm pretty much on my own I'm not really sure how to find a guy that is willing to wait it threw thew tough to see the beauty in the end :/
Title: Re: Are Gahhh anyone else feeling alone
Post by: Ms Grace on June 25, 2014, 12:51:37 PM
Sorry, when is said relationships I meant in the general friendship and social activities with groups of people kind of way, not the intimate sexual relationship kind. I think many of us, myself included, share that concern about intimate relationships.