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Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: MugwortPsychonaut on July 20, 2014, 06:24:17 PM

Title: Whoop! My wig fell off!
Post by: MugwortPsychonaut on July 20, 2014, 06:24:17 PM
Warning: lots of skateboard jargon

Today is 7-20, so I had to do a few 720 slides on my skateboard. Or just skate and get rad. So I'm bombing this hill. It's a long, mellow hill. I'm bombing it switch (that's opposite my natural stance). I like to run and give a few pushes first to get speed, then do a 180 at high-speed. That way I feel like Ricky Oyola. He's this BAMF seen below:

(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VZN7gbugwEw)

I get near the bottom of the first section. I'm still going kind of fast. I don't want to lose my speed before the second part, so I turn around to push push push! When I turned around, I totally fell and ate ->-bleeped-<-, and my wig came off!

Yeah, it's embarrassing to be trans and bald. I do what I have to. Normally, I keep her secured on with bobby pins. I just didn't this time around. Live and learn. It took it in stride, though. I laughed, and put my wig back on real fast, and laughed more for a good while. I have thick skin.

SK8orDIE
Title: Re: Whoop! My wig fell off!
Post by: Rachel on July 20, 2014, 07:39:26 PM
You are an awesome skater!
Title: Re: Whoop! My wig fell off!
Post by: Lyric on July 21, 2014, 10:25:23 AM
You skateboarders should be wearing helmets anyway. Wear a helmet with a strap and your wig will never fall off.
Title: Re: Whoop! My wig fell off!
Post by: MugwortPsychonaut on July 21, 2014, 10:47:30 AM
You transsexuals should stay closeted, anyway. Take off that silly dress, pray to God, and you'll never have these sick fantasies again.

Sound familiar? Would you let a cis person tell you how to transition? Please don't tell me how to ride my skateboard.
Title: Re: Whoop! My wig fell off!
Post by: melanie maritz on July 21, 2014, 10:52:28 AM
There is a difference though, wearing a helmet can save your life while staying in the closet can make you commit suicide. I'm just saying, not being mean or nasty.
Title: Re: Whoop! My wig fell off!
Post by: Brenda E on July 21, 2014, 02:10:26 PM
I thought using the helmet to keep the wig snug was a great idea.  Safe and practical at the same time.  But maybe I'm getting too old...

Surely it's never a bad thing to bring up safety issues.  For example, we chastise self-medicators all the time here, which is the transition equivalent of riding without a helmet: probably going to be ok, but accidents tend to lead to greater harm if you're not adequately protected.

I don't think Lyric meant any harm.  We're all just trying to look out for one another.  But it's noted - not cool to tell skateboarders to wear helmets...something we never knew before.

Stay safe.
Title: Re: Whoop! My wig fell off!
Post by: Lyric on July 22, 2014, 09:32:32 AM
Perhaps a smiley face at the end might have communicated that my tongue-in-cheek intention above. I only meant to make a suggestion. I always wear a helmet when I bicycle and it just seems like a good idea for skateboarding, but maybe not. It's not a sport I've paid much attention to. Good luck with it, at any rate.
Title: Re: Whoop! My wig fell off!
Post by: MugwortPsychonaut on July 22, 2014, 11:05:49 AM
Quote from: Lyric on July 22, 2014, 09:32:32 AM
Perhaps a smiley face at the end might have communicated that my tongue-in-cheek intention above. I only meant to make a suggestion. I always wear a helmet when I bicycle and it just seems like a good idea for skateboarding, but maybe not. It's not a sport I've paid much attention to. Good luck with it, at any rate.

Actually, I do on the rare occasion that I ride a bike, because I hardly know what the hell I'm doing. Combine that with city traffic, and yeah, riding a bike scares the ->-bleeped-<- out of me. I feel a thousand times more confident skating somewhere.

I tell myself that I'll wear my badass, Devil's-Rejects-inspired, white helmet with a black upside-down cross, when I skate a bowl that's significantly big enough, like nine or ten feet deep. The Peanut Bowl at FDR is ->-bleeped-<-in' gnarly. I probably should pad up for that thing, but I don't. Years ago, when I was still male, I hyper-extended my knee in that thing. No pads will prevent that.
Title: Re: Whoop! My wig fell off!
Post by: YinYanga on July 22, 2014, 11:26:28 AM
Just the thought of losing my wig at some point and people seeing sends shivers through my spine...brrrrr

Guess I could learn from your resolve

Ps: I want my hair back already :\