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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: Esther79 on July 25, 2014, 01:56:25 AM

Title: Looking for Abbyxoxo
Post by: Esther79 on July 25, 2014, 01:56:25 AM
Not sure if are still around, but just wish to inform you that your pics are being posted on a ->-bleeped-<-'s forum. Apparently posted by an American guy.

The admin on the other board would usually taken down the pics if the person indicates that the pics are posted without their knowledge. So if are ard , pls contact me so i can point you to the website in question.
Title: Re: Looking for Abbyxoxo
Post by: Auroramarianna on July 25, 2014, 05:57:23 AM
Wow, wow, this is quite is baffling  ???

Does this mean that there may be ->-bleeped-<-s who come here, save our pictures and share them online?  :embarrassed:  :-\ That is sooo unsafe for us!
Title: Re: Looking for Abbyxoxo
Post by: Cindy on July 25, 2014, 06:03:51 AM
First rule of the Internet. Never post anything you don't want others to see.

See ToS 6
Title: Re: Looking for Abbyxoxo
Post by: Miyuki on July 25, 2014, 06:16:05 AM
Quote from: Auroramarianna on July 25, 2014, 05:57:23 AM
Wow, wow, this is quite is baffling  ???

Does this mean that there may be ->-bleeped-<-s who come here, save our pictures and share them online?  :embarrassed:  :-\ That is sooo unsafe for us!

Does that really surprise you? I have noticed people who openly admitted to be ->-bleeped-<-s signing up for accounts and posting here a few times. I'm sure that represents just a small minority compared to the ->-bleeped-<-s that lurk in the background.
Title: Re: Looking for Abbyxoxo
Post by: Auroramarianna on July 25, 2014, 06:20:43 AM
Quote from: Miyuki on July 25, 2014, 06:16:05 AM
Does that really surprise you? I have noticed people who openly admitted to be ->-bleeped-<-s signing up for accounts and posting here a few times. I'm sure that represents just a small minority compared to the ->-bleeped-<-s that lurk in the background.

Yes, I know, you are right. I guess that I am just too naive sometimes, or I try to ignore certain things subconsciously.

I never posted inappropriate pictures so I'm not worried for myself, but idk, it just feels weird knowing you are attracting attention and you won't ever know who they are and what they are up to...
Title: Re: Looking for Abbyxoxo
Post by: alabamagirl on July 25, 2014, 06:42:22 AM
I think Abby deleted her account. I tried several different methods of searching, but I couldn't find her here.
Title: Re: Looking for Abbyxoxo
Post by: Hideyoshi on July 25, 2014, 06:46:58 AM
Quote from: Esther79 on July 25, 2014, 01:56:25 AM
Not sure if are still around, but just wish to inform you that your pics are being posted on a ->-bleeped-<-'s forum. Apparently posted by an American guy.

The admin on the other board would usually taken down the pics if the person indicates that the pics are posted without their knowledge. So if are ard , pls contact me so i can point you to the website in question.

She willingly put her pictures (very sexual ones) on many of those trans sites, so naturally they are spread to jackoff sites. Rule of thumb is to never upload something you wouldn't want your mom to see on the internet.
Title: Re: Looking for Abbyxoxo
Post by: Kylie on July 25, 2014, 06:49:04 AM
If i remember correctly, she was also talking about working with/for an adult website/cam and made comments about her pictures being "out there" already.  So it may have more to do with that site than Susan's.  Who knows?  Just hope she is ok
Title: Re: Looking for Abbyxoxo
Post by: Esther79 on July 25, 2014, 07:49:15 AM
Oh ok, though the pic posted on the other forum had been posted on susans before, but the poster mentioned that its from a dating site or something and was contacting her on something. So its her choice, her lifestyle :angel:
Title: Re: Looking for Abbyxoxo
Post by: xponentialshift on July 25, 2014, 12:06:07 PM
On her tumblr, someone mentioned that they saw another person on ->-bleeped-<- using her pictures and pretending to be her. She replied that she didn't care, and in fact kind of wanted it because then more people would see her pictures.

I figure if she is OK with it, then no problem.

I didn't realize she deleted her account. I really miss reading her posts...
Title: Re: Looking for Abbyxoxo
Post by: EllieM on July 25, 2014, 12:55:40 PM

Oh my...
I hope she's ok.
Title: Re: Looking for Abbyxoxo
Post by: Jess42 on July 25, 2014, 01:38:47 PM
Quote from: EllieM on July 25, 2014, 12:55:40 PM

Oh my...
I hope she's ok.


Yep, me too.
Title: Re: Looking for Abbyxoxo
Post by: Miss_Bungle1991 on July 25, 2014, 01:49:14 PM
Quote from: Auroramarianna on July 25, 2014, 05:57:23 AM
Wow, wow, this is quite is baffling  ???

Does this mean that there may be ->-bleeped-<-s who come here, save our pictures and share them online?  :embarrassed:  :-\ That is sooo unsafe for us!

One reason why I use what I do and never use my full name (Or sometimes I don't use my real name at all). Too many idiots, freaks and losers on the net.
Title: Re: Looking for Abbyxoxo
Post by: Jess42 on July 25, 2014, 02:14:49 PM
Quote from: Laura Squirrel on July 25, 2014, 01:49:14 PM
One reason why I use what I do and never use my full name (Or sometimes I don't use my real name at all). Too many idiots, freaks and losers on the net.

I'm hurt Laura that you called me all those names. Oh never mind you weren't talking about me guess. ;) Or were you?

I know the last couple of times she posted she was going into that world. What really worries me is that it takes a "special" type of person to be in it. She acted angry when some of us would tell her things like be careful and so on. So... I just hope she's OK
Title: Re: Looking for Abbyxoxo
Post by: stephaniec on July 25, 2014, 04:30:03 PM
I'm sorry to here this, When I first joined Susan's about 9 months ago she was involved with some weird dating situation with some rich guy she didn't know and was going to live with him so she could get the surgery. I think I remember correctly. I hope she hasn't gone back to doing those things.
Title: Re: Looking for Abbyxoxo
Post by: Jess42 on July 25, 2014, 04:37:32 PM
Quote from: stephaniec on July 25, 2014, 04:30:03 PM
I'm sorry to here this, When I first joined Susan's about 9 months ago she was involved with some weird dating situation with some rich guy she didn't know and was going to live with him so she could get the surgery. I think I remember correctly. I hope she hasn't gone back to doing those things.

I can't judge her for anything. If I was young in today's world I may even cosider the same thing but I would definately get to know the person first and form a relationship with him that at least had some sort of resemblance of caring and love instead of just using him. But if he wants to be used, that's his perogative and I can't judge that either. I just hope she can handle it though and uses good judgement in the situation. God I hate being so nonjudgemental sometimes cause it makes me sound like a moron. :-\
Title: Re: Looking for Abbyxoxo
Post by: Jessica Merriman on July 25, 2014, 04:41:20 PM
FYI Abby was banned for an incident I will not go into. While she was here she was known for thriving on controversy and what I consider reckless living. This is my personal opinion. She has to live her life a she see's fit which is something we must all do. I do not judge her, just question some of her choices in life. I hope some day she finds whatever it is she has been looking for. I wish only the best for her.
Title: Re: Looking for Abbyxoxo
Post by: Jess42 on July 25, 2014, 04:47:31 PM
Quote from: Jessica Merriman on July 25, 2014, 04:41:20 PM
FYI Abby was banned for an incident I will not go into. While she was here she was known for thriving on controversy and what I consider reckless living. This is my personal opinion. She has to live her life a she see's fit which is something we must all do. I do not judge her, just question some of her choices in life. I hope some day she finds whatever it is she has been looking for. I wish only the best for her.

Thanx for clearing that up Jessica. I know what you mean. Now we know. It alwasy kind of makes me a little nervous when one day someone is on here and then not heard from again. It makes me wonder, ya' know what I mean. :-X
Title: Re: Looking for Abbyxoxo
Post by: alabamagirl on July 25, 2014, 04:50:11 PM
Quote from: Jessica Merriman on July 25, 2014, 04:41:20 PM
FYI Abby was banned for an incident I will not go into. While she was here she was known for thriving on controversy and what I consider reckless living. This is my personal opinion. She has to live her life a she see's fit which is something we must all do. I do not judge her, just question some of her choices in life. I hope some day she finds whatever it is she has been looking for. I wish only the best for her.

Definitely agree with that statement. She was the type of person who if I invested my worry in, I don't think I would ever stop worrying about, so I try not to. I can only hope she's okay and that she doesn't later come to regret things.
Title: Re: Looking for Abbyxoxo
Post by: Miss_Bungle1991 on July 25, 2014, 04:51:33 PM
Quote from: Jess42 on July 25, 2014, 02:14:49 PM
I'm hurt Laura that you called me all those names. Oh never mind you weren't talking about me guess. ;) Or were you?

:D As a freak and a loser, I only speak for myself.
Title: Re: Looking for Abbyxoxo
Post by: Jess42 on July 25, 2014, 04:57:02 PM
Quote from: Laura Squirrel on July 25, 2014, 04:51:33 PM
:D As a freak and a loser, I only speak for myself.

Welcome to the club. It's all inclusive ;) And I resemble all of those earlier remarks of yours. ;D Oh well it's way more fun than being normal I guess. Plus we always have an excuse for our behavior.
Title: Re: Looking for Abbyxoxo
Post by: Jessica Merriman on July 25, 2014, 05:02:12 PM
Quote from: Jess42 on July 25, 2014, 04:47:31 PM
Now we know. It alwasy kind of makes me a little nervous when one day someone is on here and then not heard from again. It makes me wonder, ya' know what I mean. :-X
I just did not want anyone to worry to much. I thought an explanation was needed.  :)
Title: Re: Looking for Abbyxoxo
Post by: stephaniec on July 25, 2014, 05:08:40 PM
Quote from: Jessica Merriman on July 25, 2014, 05:02:12 PM
I just did not want anyone to worry to much. I thought an explanation was needed.  :)
thanks
Title: Re: Looking for Abbyxoxo
Post by: Jess42 on July 25, 2014, 05:20:03 PM
Quote from: Jessica Merriman on July 25, 2014, 05:02:12 PM
I just did not want anyone to worry to much. I thought an explanation was needed.  :)

Yeah but I still worry though. I guess my heart is too big sometimes, not the real one 'cause that's a serious medical condition but the proverbial one. :)
Title: Re: Looking for Abbyxoxo
Post by: kelly_aus on July 25, 2014, 05:47:08 PM
Quote from: Jess42 on July 25, 2014, 05:20:03 PM
Yeah but I still worry though. I guess my heart is too big sometimes, not the real one 'cause that's a serious medical condition but the proverbial one. :)

She made her choices.. I just hope she's prepared for that industry - it left me a little broken..
Title: Re: Looking for Abbyxoxo
Post by: EllieM on July 26, 2014, 09:40:55 AM
Quote from: Jessica Merriman on July 25, 2014, 05:02:12 PM
I just did not want anyone to worry to much. I thought an explanation was needed.  :)

Thanks Jessica. Still, I worry about the poor waif... she thinks like a kid. I'll echo your sentiments here, I hope she finds what she is looking for, and I'll add the following: I hope she learns how to err on the side of caution.
Title: Re: Looking for Abbyxoxo
Post by: Urban Christina on July 28, 2014, 06:26:11 PM
Abby and I found out we live only half an hour from each other so we talk everyday. And, her account got banned. That's the answer. She is ok and aware of this thread.
Title: Re: Looking for Abbyxoxo
Post by: Allyda on July 28, 2014, 09:21:04 PM
Quote from: Urban Christina on July 28, 2014, 06:26:11 PM
Abby and I found out we live only half an hour from each other so we talk everyday. And, her account got banned. That's the answer. She is ok and aware of this thread.
Thanks for letting us know she's okay. No matter what her choices I wish her my very best.

Allie :icon_flower:
Title: Re: Looking for Abbyxoxo
Post by: EllieM on July 28, 2014, 10:24:36 PM
Quote from: Urban Christina on July 28, 2014, 06:26:11 PM
Abby and I found out we live only half an hour from each other so we talk everyday. And, her account got banned. That's the answer. She is ok and aware of this thread.


Thanks! Look out for each other, ok?