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Title: Going on my first real date tomorrow, possibly.
Post by: kitty on July 27, 2014, 12:20:18 AM
So, tomorrow I will hopefully be going on a date with a guy who I have been talking to for a little while,
I practically live full time as a female, but I've never gone on a date with a guy as such
We're going to go see a movie and probably eat before.
It was suppose to happen today but I was just too worried. aha
He's straight and is only curious about trying other things, which is what scares me the most
I am soooo nervous, just wondering if anyone can give me some advice
Title: Re: Going on my first real date tomorrow, possibly.
Post by: Jessica Merriman on July 27, 2014, 12:41:29 AM
Just relax and try to have a good time. However, keep your guard up a little and don't let anything happen that you don't want. Just be safe and see how it is to be treated like a lady. I am so happy for you in this very big step.  :)
Title: Re: Going on my first real date tomorrow, possibly.
Post by: kitty on July 27, 2014, 04:08:50 AM
Quote from: Jessica Merriman on July 27, 2014, 12:41:29 AM
Just relax and try to have a good time. However, keep your guard up a little and don't let anything happen that you don't want. Just be safe and see how it is to be treated like a lady. I am so happy for you in this very big step.  :)

Thank you very much~
Yeah, I'll try to relax. I just hope he sees me as a lady and treats me as such
Title: Re: Going on my first real date tomorrow, possibly.
Post by: crowcrow223 on July 27, 2014, 06:13:58 AM
Have fun, don't take dating too seriously, you're not getting married tomorrow, have a laugh, relax, it's what it's for! Don't stress too much about having to find someone immediately :)

also, if possible, keep first dates short and sweet, keep it flirtatious and fun!

good luck!
Title: Re: Going on my first real date tomorrow, possibly.
Post by: YinYanga on July 27, 2014, 06:23:20 AM

Enjoy! Praying its a keeper, rare finds they are ;)

Dont forget to tell us how it went

Vivien
Title: Re: Going on my first real date tomorrow, possibly.
Post by: FrancisAnn on July 27, 2014, 06:35:36 AM
You should have fun. Just enjoy being yourself & being as happy as possible. Smile, laugh & enjoy the man. Maybe hold his hand, touch him some at first if you are attracted to him & let natural take it's course. Good for you GF.