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Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: Riven on July 27, 2014, 07:07:51 PM

Title: A picture of Me!
Post by: Riven on July 27, 2014, 07:07:51 PM
I finally got the nerve up to post a picture of myself. A few weeks ago I was with my friend and her sister in law and she taught me everything about makeup so I did the whole 9 yards and hung out with them as a girl. It was really great to just be myself with someone for the first time ever. I hate my arms and shoulders. I never work out but they seem to broad and defined :(
Title: Re: A picture of Me!
Post by: Jessica Merriman on July 27, 2014, 07:09:46 PM
Your back kind of far, but I don't see anything wrong with your passing skills!  :)
Title: Re: A picture of Me!
Post by: Riven on July 27, 2014, 07:13:14 PM
So if i just keep 7 feet away from everybody at all times I should be fine? Is that what you're saying? :)
Title: Re: A picture of Me!
Post by: Jessica Merriman on July 27, 2014, 07:20:43 PM
NO! Don't get me wrong, I just can't see your face and makeup, nothing else. I would do anything for your body shape though!  :)
Title: Re: A picture of Me!
Post by: LordKAT on July 27, 2014, 07:27:17 PM
Hmm, my reply went into the etherland.


Her is a repeat. It is good to see that rest of you looks as good as the legs we are used to seeing. At least now we know there is more to you than pretty legs. Seriously though, you look real good.

Don't worry about Jessica, she just wants to see you close up.
Title: Re: A picture of Me!
Post by: Jessica Merriman on July 27, 2014, 07:31:15 PM
Quote from: LordKAT on July 27, 2014, 07:27:17 PM
Don't worry about Jessica, she just wants to see you close up.
Furball!!  :D

I love to see how people do their makeup. I might get some new ideas! An old lady like me has to stay up to date on these things.  :)
Title: Re: A picture of Me!
Post by: Riven on July 27, 2014, 07:42:04 PM
Haha, thanks. I don't think I've ever posted a picture of myself; legs or otherwise. I cropped it a bit. I was so nervous to be in front of people as me.
Title: Re: A picture of Me!
Post by: Jessica Merriman on July 27, 2014, 07:48:41 PM
Girl, you are adorable! I love the smile. You should have no problem passing from what I see.  :)
Title: Re: A picture of Me!
Post by: Natalie on July 27, 2014, 08:01:49 PM
Quote from: Riven on July 27, 2014, 07:07:51 PM
I finally got the nerve up to post a picture of myself. A few weeks ago I was with my friend and her sister in law and she taught me everything about makeup so I did the whole 9 yards and hung out with them as a girl. It was really great to just be myself with someone for the first time ever. I hate my arms and shoulders. I never work out but they seem to broad and defined :(

I finally decided to put a picture on my profile too. I transitioned many many years ago though.
Title: Re: A picture of Me!
Post by: Riven on July 27, 2014, 08:36:35 PM
Quote from: Natalie on July 27, 2014, 08:01:49 PM
I finally decided to put a picture on my profile too. I transitioned many many years ago though.

I've been waiting to transition for years now but the Military says I'm not allowed to be human.

So I'm just waiting and watching the news for this stupid ban to be dropped.
Title: Re: A picture of Me!
Post by: Riven on July 27, 2014, 08:41:54 PM
Quote from: LordKAT on July 27, 2014, 07:27:17 PM
Hmm, my reply went into the etherland.


Her is a repeat. It is good to see that rest of you looks as good as the legs we are used to seeing. At least now we know there is more to you than pretty legs. Seriously though, you look real good.

Don't worry about Jessica, she just wants to see you close up.

Quote from: Jessica Merriman on July 27, 2014, 07:48:41 PM
Girl, you are adorable! I love the smile. You should have no problem passing from what I see.  :)

Thanks for the kind words! My confidence really appreciates them! :)
Title: Re: A picture of Me!
Post by: Ms Grace on July 27, 2014, 09:17:39 PM
Arms and shoulders look fine to me, you look great! :)
Title: Re: A picture of Me!
Post by: JLT1 on July 27, 2014, 10:03:49 PM
Very nice!  You look really good.  If you do HRT you will be beautiful.  Seriously, stunning.

Hugs,

Jen
Title: Re: A picture of Me!
Post by: Riven on July 27, 2014, 10:15:38 PM
Quote from: Ms Grace on July 27, 2014, 09:17:39 PM
Arms and shoulders look fine to me, you look great! :)
Quote from: JLT1link=topic=170195.msg1483852#msg1483852 date=1406516629
Very nice!  You look really good.  If you do HRT you will be beautiful.  Seriously, stunning.

Hugs,

Jen

You girls are really too kind! I'm really excited to see what HRT will hold for me. I'm considering so many things like a new name and what kind of girl I want to be when I can live honestly.
Title: Re: A picture of Me!
Post by: Lyric on July 27, 2014, 10:33:52 PM
Quote from: Riven on July 27, 2014, 07:07:51 PMI hate my arms and shoulders.

I think you look really cute and your arms and shoulders are OK. In fact, I think they're considerably less masculine than those of TV star Jaime Pressly. I was watching her on her new "Jennifer Falls" show the other day in a sleeveless to and she looked like she could take on a linebacker. But she can also dress really hot. Like all girls, you just have to dress for your figure. Emphasize your assets and underscore the rest.

~ Lyric ~
Title: Re: A picture of Me!
Post by: Riven on July 27, 2014, 11:22:45 PM
Quote from: Lyric on July 27, 2014, 10:33:52 PM
I think you look really cute and your arms and shoulders are OK. In fact, I think they're considerably less masculine than those of TV star Jaime Pressly. I was watching her on her new "Jennifer Falls" show the other day in a sleeveless to and she looked like she could take on a linebacker. But she can also dress really hot. Like all girls, you just have to dress for your figure. Emphasize your assets and underscore the rest.

~ Lyric ~
I didn't think she looks that bad. Thanks though!

Quote from: jamienicoled on July 27, 2014, 10:24:57 PM
You look fabulous! :)  As for the arms etc... don't fear that. I get it all the time from guys "You look great babe... I can tell, you workout!  :icon_wink:" ...lol  And I say "Yes", because I do workout...lol 3 to 4 times a week ...but I never do ANY upper body exercises. :-D

Thank you for your service sister.. I'm prior US Navy... OS2(SW)

Thank you for your service as well! Is OS2 an officer? I'm not sure if that's a rank or profession sorry :(
Title: Re: A picture of Me!
Post by: Ciara on July 28, 2014, 07:46:07 AM
Quote from: Riven on July 27, 2014, 07:42:04 PM
Haha, thanks. I don't think I've ever posted a picture of myself; legs or otherwise. I cropped it a bit. I was so nervous to be in front of people as me.

I don't understand why you waited so long to post your photo. Such a figure, such a smile....
You look gorgeous.
Title: Re: A picture of Me!
Post by: solexander on July 28, 2014, 12:47:41 PM
You are absolutely gorgeous! You have a really great figure. Honestly, from that picture, if I saw you in public I wouldn't look twice... except to see your pretty face again! :) Seriously, I really hope the military gets rid of that ban soon, it's so unfair to try and block perfectly normal and functional people from serving just because they didn't get to be their gender the same way as others.... Stay strong!
Title: Re: A picture of Me!
Post by: Shantel on July 28, 2014, 12:57:39 PM
Gawd Riven, you look terrific already girl! Your shoulder/hip/waist ratio is perfect, stop being so insecure you're going to slay them all with your great shape and pretty looks! Hope you, Jamienicoled and other ex-service are plugged into VA, spent time in the paratroops in VN and they take great care of me kids. Endo, meds et. al. free!
Title: Re: A picture of Me!
Post by: Riven on July 28, 2014, 06:35:34 PM
Quote from: jamienicoled on July 27, 2014, 11:35:14 PM
Enlisted.. Petty officer second class.. I was a working class E5 girl...lol  OS=Operation Specialist (Scope Dope...lol) I did AIC... air intercept controller. I sent info between ships and aircraft for weapons systems. I worked in CIC (Combat Information Center) on the ship. Basically Intel Ops.   
Ah I see. Don't worry, navy was my second choice too :) I'm an e4 myself and get to test for staff NCO next cycle :) wouldn't be bad at my 4 year mark.
Quote from: solexander on July 28, 2014, 12:47:41 PM
You are absolutely gorgeous! You have a really great figure. Honestly, from that picture, if I saw you in public I wouldn't look twice... except to see your pretty face again! :) Seriously, I really hope the military gets rid of that ban soon, it's so unfair to try and block perfectly normal and functional people from serving just because they didn't get to be their gender the same way as others.... Stay strong!

Thanks. My friend saw this picture of me and said it was a shame he was already married, haha. Honestly if the ban is dropped I might stay in after 6. If not I'll have to move on with my life. I can't imagine the ban lasting much longer. It seems like the issue is being looked at by the media and the pentagon cracks under attention pretty quickly. Is anybody in the know or have any strings to pull and can let me in on how that's going that'd be great!

Quote from: Shantel on July 28, 2014, 12:57:39 PM
Gawd Riven, you look terrific already girl! Your shoulder/hip/waist ratio is perfect, stop being so insecure you're going to slay them all with your great shape and pretty looks! Hope you, Jamienicoled and other ex-service are plugged into VA, spent time in the paratroops in VN and they take great care of me kids. Endo, meds et. al. free!
thank you :) some of my pictures look great and some look not so great. I'm really just banking on the ban being dropped and getting HRT underway before I'm even out.