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Community Conversation => Significant Others talk => Topic started by: Katrinka on August 11, 2014, 02:07:45 AM

Title: What are the odds???
Post by: Katrinka on August 11, 2014, 02:07:45 AM
Got a message today from an exboyfriend from 17 years ago who has begun transitioning. Do I have some magic power to make the men I am with want to become female? Does lightening really strike twice?
Title: Re: What are the odds???
Post by: kelly_aus on August 11, 2014, 02:18:11 AM
Quite a few of my pre-transition GF's are now lesbian, so anythings possible - in many cases I was the only 'guy' they ever dated.
Title: Re: What are the odds???
Post by: mark s on August 11, 2014, 06:12:06 AM
Often you fall for the same kind people.
So it's possible but not likely that exes share traits.
Title: Re: What are the odds???
Post by: blueconstancy on August 11, 2014, 06:43:42 AM
Wow. And what are the odds that you'd hear about it right now?!

(I do know I used to joke that I'd found the only boy I could fall in love with b/c I preferred girls... oops.)
Title: Re: What are the odds???
Post by: Sayra on August 12, 2014, 11:30:34 AM
Lol. It's the thing that we found attractive maybe? The types we choose are perhaps more likely?