Greetings,
Hi, im not really good at this but i feel like i need to let people know about what I'm dealing with. I've been uncomfortable in my own skin for a long time. In the last few years its hurt to be intmate with women, Not physical pain but mental pain. I've been uncomfortable with me for years and couldn't explain it for years. i felt female for years never really had the Flat chest like a normal guy my Adams apple never really protruded i.e. like a normal guy. my hands are thin and long like most women i see, unlike men with big fingers and wide hands. i just started wondering if im normal in my own sense. this has been weighing on my mind and soul for years and finally trying to embrace it. i just wanna feel normal not like living a lie thats what i feel like im doing. My mom has noticed im not happy yes dont judge me but i stay with her for her health. Told a Close friend and they are helping me but i know i need to see a counselor but still trying to understand my self. Again as i said im not good at this . But this started when i was younger before my teenage years (I'm 30 now) and hope i can gain understanding to what all this is and means. Thanks for reading
Jaynie
Welcome to Susan's Jaynie83
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Izzy
Thanks Ms Izzy
Hi Jaynie and welcome to Susan's. Mrs. Izzy said everything that I could say. I hope your questions are answered.
:) :)
Jaynie
Welcome to Susans. You have certainly come to the right place to gain knowledge, find support, vent, listen and to interact with many good folk on similar journeys of their own. A gender therapist is definitely an important step as they will help you understand yourself, your options etc.
Safe travels
Aisla