Hi, this article is a very good read, regarding the question of one's genitalia for transitioned partners that become subjects of conversation by cisgender friends or acquaintances...
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/justin-ropella/trans-surgeries-dont-make_b_5685202.html
Thank you Katherine. Interesting article, however, please title link posts a little better? We get about five Huff Post articles per day here.
Hi Dee, I'll be sure to do that :) Thank you!