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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Topic started by: Tysilio on August 27, 2014, 05:51:03 PM

Title: Passed in the barber shop... :D
Post by: Tysilio on August 27, 2014, 05:51:03 PM
What it says. I guess my man voice is coming along better than I think. I pass pretty well in public, in casual encounters, but not always in conversations w/ strangers, etc.

Chatting with the barber about fantasy football -- "Are the other guys in your league...?"

Yes. (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fthefiringline.com%2Fforums%2Fimages%2Fsmilies%2Fbiggrin.gif&hash=fa2db8a2d15c338f95b7a2cbcb46a673a808a937)
Title: Re: Passed in the barber shop... :D
Post by: lilthumper on August 27, 2014, 05:57:08 PM
It's awesome to hear things went well for you today at the barber! :D   
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Post by: G on August 27, 2014, 06:04:32 PM
It's an awesome feeling passing for the first time there  :)
Title: Re: Passed in the barber shop... :D
Post by: Tysilio on August 27, 2014, 06:09:49 PM
It sure is!!
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Post by: mm on August 27, 2014, 06:55:00 PM
great you passed in the barber shop which is a real male domain.  I have going to a barber shop near campus where I go to school for almost a year now with no problems.  How long you been on t?
Title: Re: Passed in the barber shop... :D
Post by: Tysilio on August 27, 2014, 10:24:13 PM
I've been on T for just over six months. It feels like external changes are happening pretty slowly (I'm, er, a good bit older than average), so it's great to get this kind of affirmation that it really is happening.

It's also the first time I've ever enjoyed a conversation with any haircutter. I've always preferred the quiet ones...  (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fthefiringline.com%2Fforums%2Fimages%2Fsmilies%2Fcool.gif&hash=d4879c0267a356dff26cd86b0fa87ea42a6199e1)
Title: Re: Passed in the barber shop... :D
Post by: JandJ on August 28, 2014, 10:47:05 AM
That's fantastic Ty!  I can only dream of that day, for now.  I am pre anything and have to cut my own hair.  I am usually assumed male - UNLESS I have to open my mouth!  I'm grateful my voice is not extremely high but it's certainly not low enough to prevent those double takes and puzzled looks. 

I'm really happy for you!
Title: Re: Passed in the barber shop... :D
Post by: Tysilio on August 28, 2014, 12:49:33 PM
Thanks, J!

Oh, and... he also asked if I wanted my eyebrows trimmed. I couldn't resist saying yes (serious guy-in-barbershop experience, there), even though I really like the way they're getting all long and tangly.  (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fthefiringline.com%2Fforums%2Fimages%2Fsmilies%2Ftongue.gif&hash=635dd8fbd198d13e75e7b21e12e5f405e686d654)
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Post by: Maleth on August 28, 2014, 02:23:48 PM
Congrats on passing! It is always a great feeling.
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Post by: Bombadil on August 30, 2014, 09:35:57 PM
that's totally cool!

I was just at the barbershop and watched the other guys get asked about the eyebrow trim
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Post by: Tysilio on August 31, 2014, 08:25:43 PM
Quote from: christopher on August 30, 2014, 09:35:57 PM
that's totally cool!

I was just at the barbershop and watched the other guys get asked about the eyebrow trim
I thought so.   ;D

But I think next time I'll say, "Leave them, they remind me of my father."

Which is true.
Title: Re: Passed in the barber shop... :D
Post by: Edge on August 31, 2014, 09:10:40 PM
Congrats!
On another note, I had no idea eyebrow trimming was a thing.
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Post by: Maleth on September 01, 2014, 03:32:03 PM
Quote from: Edge on August 31, 2014, 09:10:40 PM
Congrats!
On another note, I had no idea eyebrow trimming was a thing.

Me neither. Then again I rarely go to the barbershop. If I had thicker eyebrows maybe I'd try it but I barely have any so I'm gonna keep 'em safe :D
Title: Re: Passed in the barber shop... :D
Post by: Tysilio on September 01, 2014, 04:17:00 PM
It's a geezer thing. It's not the thickness, so much, but there are hairs that just grow, and grow, and then they start curling around and looking sort of tangly...  :icon_mrgreen:

It's sort of fierce-looking, actually.

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2F3.bp.blogspot.com%2F-00MWN7YgYM8%2FTdnrqJOPVxI%2FAAAAAAAAA6s%2Fyj6GVh-G59k%2Fs1600%2Feyebrows.jpg&hash=263d3a7550c35efb29ebee5c616ce2c60e63a763)
Title: Re: Passed in the barber shop... :D
Post by: Maleth on September 01, 2014, 06:50:42 PM
Quote from: Tysilio on September 01, 2014, 04:17:00 PM
It's a geezer thing. It's not the thickness, so much, but there are hairs that just grow, and grow, and then they start curling around and looking sort of tangly...  :icon_mrgreen:

It's sort of fierce-looking, actually.

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2F3.bp.blogspot.com%2F-00MWN7YgYM8%2FTdnrqJOPVxI%2FAAAAAAAAA6s%2Fyj6GVh-G59k%2Fs1600%2Feyebrows.jpg&hash=263d3a7550c35efb29ebee5c616ce2c60e63a763)

If I brush my finger against the grain of my eyebrows, they kinda look like that except not as thick and long of course and not as extreme. xD My sister said I should go as a werewolf on Halloween one year and I won't have to wear special makeup, I can just brush back my eyebrows.
Title: Re: Passed in the barber shop... :D
Post by: aleon515 on September 02, 2014, 02:11:13 PM
I love the barbershop. But I have never been asked about eyebrows. I would not agree to it since I like my big bushy eyebrows. Not quite like the character here though. :)

--Jay
Title: Re: Passed in the barber shop... :D
Post by: Tysilio on September 02, 2014, 04:26:03 PM
Yeah... I wouldn't do it again, Jay. But after seeing the barber do other guys' eyebrows, I thought "Just this once!"

It felt sort of weird, actually.