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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: Juliett on September 08, 2014, 09:15:21 AM

Title: Gun shy
Post by: Juliett on September 08, 2014, 09:15:21 AM
I've been feeling depressed a lot lately about my lack of a love life. My current long distance relationship has been a soul sucking miserable experience for longer than I'd like to admit. I'm a hopeless romantic at heart and I've been struggling with the paralyzing fear that I'll never be able to let someone close to my heart again.
Title: Re: Gun shy
Post by: big kim on September 08, 2014, 10:20:03 AM
I know what it's like(apart from a long distance relationship).I've long since given up on ever having a relationship.My last one was 9 years ago,I've had 3 dates since then which is pretty feeble.I hope things improve for you
Title: Re: Gun shy
Post by: Sammy on September 08, 2014, 10:25:24 AM
I was expecting something else, considering the title...
Title: Re: Gun shy
Post by: ImagineKate on September 08, 2014, 11:01:37 AM
Well I am NOT gun shy, not in the least!  ;D

Oh, not that kind of gun..

Well I've been there, even trying to fit in as a cis guy. I just don't know, I couldn't hit it off with many people. I'm too short, too nerdy, too ugly I guess.
Title: Re: Gun shy
Post by: stephaniec on September 08, 2014, 11:16:33 AM
a lot of people go to gun shows, you  might find a hot pistol there.
Title: Re: Gun shy
Post by: Rose City Rose on September 10, 2014, 05:55:48 PM
Don't worry too much about it then.  Focus on friendships for now.  I find that love without friendship is useless anyway, so you might as well make some friends.
Title: Re: Gun shy
Post by: janetcgtv on September 10, 2014, 09:29:06 PM
I agree with Rose.

Start out being friends first then if you do not want to take a chance with losing the friend, stay friends  as having a close friend is very important. If you will take the chance then you could end up with someone who loves you.

As in some quote I had heard: Nothing ventured nothing won.