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Title: how do you like to dress; conservative, moderate sexy or cutting edge sexy
Post by: stephaniec on October 02, 2014, 10:01:55 AM
just curious if you experiment with the moderate to extreme side of sexy or are you strictly conservative. I'm conservative , but I'm seriously thinking of experimentation  .
Title: Re: how do you like to dress; conservative, moderate sexy or cutting edge sexy
Post by: Natalie on October 02, 2014, 10:13:51 AM
I dress however I want to dress, but the "vast" majority of the time it's simple and casual. I don't care about whether people think I am sexy or not. I just don't care to wear all the things people tend to classify as "sexy." Just no real appeal.
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Post by: katiej on October 02, 2014, 11:41:30 AM
Sexy?  No.  Stylish soccer mom?  Yes.

Title: Re: how do you like to dress; conservative, moderate sexy or cutting edge sexy
Post by: Sosophia on October 02, 2014, 11:59:55 AM
i do not know wich one i fit in , but i wish i could dress like womens in the victorian era , thoses long pretty dresses, or some long flowy dresses
Title: Re: how do you like to dress; conservative, moderate sexy or cutting edge sexy
Post by: suzifrommd on October 02, 2014, 12:06:21 PM
Moderate sexy (though I don't know that I have the body to back it up...)
Title: Re: how do you like to dress; conservative, moderate sexy or cutting edge sexy
Post by: Auroramarianna on October 02, 2014, 01:49:34 PM
Um, since I despise my body and am pre-HRT, I dress pretty conservative even for a guy. I never wear shorts and rarely t-shirts, cuz I hate body hair and shave it a lot but if I show to people my shaved body they'll judge me so yeah. I'm still very fearful of how others think of me. I think when I start HRT I won't be as unconfident and will start wearing casual or chique, but not really sexy cuz I doubt I will have the body to back them up lol. Most likely I will get small boobs but be a bit curvy. we'll see.
Title: Re: how do you like to dress; conservative, moderate sexy or cutting edge sexy
Post by: Ellesmira the Duck on October 02, 2014, 01:56:31 PM
I kept a similar style to when I presented male. I just dress a but nicer. Still its mainly jeans and a shirt with my boots. Its what I feel most comfortable in. At home I'm more likely to wear skirts or dresses but I'm still not brave/comfortable enough to wear them in public.
Title: Re: how do you like to dress; conservative, moderate sexy or cutting edge sexy
Post by: Jill F on October 02, 2014, 02:00:01 PM
Casual, mostly.  I'm not wearing prairie dresses nor do I look like a street walker.  I don't think I could pull off "sexy".

I'd say "big gnarly rocker chick who likes a lot of black and metal studs".
Title: Re: how do you like to dress; conservative, moderate sexy or cutting edge sexy
Post by: Ms Grace on October 02, 2014, 02:08:55 PM
Cutting edge moderate sexy conservative...
Title: Re: how do you like to dress; conservative, moderate sexy or cutting edge sexy
Post by: Hikari on October 02, 2014, 02:25:04 PM
I guess, I dress pretty conservatively.
Title: Re: how do you like to dress; conservative, moderate sexy or cutting edge sexy
Post by: noleen111 on October 02, 2014, 02:58:46 PM
Most of the time.. Moderately sexy..

I love wearing short skirts/dresses and tops that show my cleavage.. And love wearing heels of at least 4inches high.. But nothing too revealing. Basically what most woman in there early 20s wear.

My underwear.. Sexy.. I love wearing g-strings/thongs.. Lacy push up bras.. Wearing a garter belt..  I own a number of teddies.. And sexy sleepwear. But the public don't see that.. I love wearing sexy lingerie..
Title: Re: how do you like to dress; conservative, moderate sexy or cutting edge sexy
Post by: MelissaAnn on October 02, 2014, 03:09:53 PM
For me when I'm presenting female. I'm probably in the moderate range. I do like wearing skirts and dresses. Nothing too sexy, but not too casual. I just love the materials I just like being comfortable but more on the feminine side. Not much into jeans or pants, but I do suppose when my breast start growing. I will be tempted to wear a blouse, it's more revealing.

Hugs,

Melissa Ann
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Post by: Jaime R D on October 02, 2014, 03:19:08 PM
casually conservative, ain't nothing sexy about me at all.
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Post by: Jess42 on October 02, 2014, 03:20:59 PM
Wow Stephanie, what a question. ::) For me sometimes really provocative. Borderline.... Well I ain't even gonna' go there but PS comes to mind. :-X But mostly just normal for another woman. Shorts, tanks either high wedge sandals of women' flip flops and enough makeup to pass. ??? Winter comes this far south and skinny jeans and still high wedges and a tank with an outer shirt. :-\ But I can be kind of the "S" word. :embarrassed:
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Post by: Miss_Bungle1991 on October 02, 2014, 03:51:20 PM
I dress strictly casual.
Title: Re: how do you like to dress; conservative, moderate sexy or cutting edge sexy
Post by: LizMarie on October 02, 2014, 05:19:07 PM
Quote from: Ms Grace on October 02, 2014, 02:08:55 PM
Cutting edge moderate sexy conservative...

This!! Grace nailed it for me. This! :)

One friend told me she describes it as "elegant casual". That wasn't my goal, I just knew what I liked and didn't like when I started. That's all evolved some as I've moved forward but that core idea is still there. I love a nice tube skirt because they are simple, easy to care for, and I like to match those with blouses that show off my figure. I still want to lose a few pounds (10-15) but with 2 years HRT I've got decent breasts (nice full A cups) and a very nice little rear end now. And the right skirt and blouse shows those things off for me nicely.

At home when I'm not going out I tend to knock around in jeans and t-shirts, with my male t-shirts being the last male things I own, but also being phased out as I replace them over time.
Title: Re: how do you like to dress; conservative, moderate sexy or cutting edge sexy
Post by: Kylie on October 02, 2014, 07:58:33 PM
Casual dressy conservative.  I love Kate middleton's looks, sexy but still classy and conservative.  I've never really had the typical female love for shoes, but I do for her riding boots.  It is almost like I can feel my pupils dilate when I see some of them.  Same goes for sexy, soft, super feminine lingerie.
Title: Re: how do you like to dress; conservative, moderate sexy or cutting edge sexy
Post by: stephaniec on October 02, 2014, 08:10:47 PM
black sheer blouse , black pencil  skirt, Cuban heel  nylons , 3"  heels and thin    strap black lace bra or sheer blouse , lace bra , skinny jeans  and heels for a night out.
Title: Re: how do you like to dress; conservative, moderate sexy or cutting edge sexy
Post by: peky on October 02, 2014, 08:11:27 PM
Quote from: stephaniec on October 02, 2014, 10:01:55 AM
just curious if you experiment with the moderate to extreme side of sexy or are you strictly conservative. I'm conservative , but I'm seriously thinking of experimentation  .

Depends on the situation. Most day sport casual. For briefs, presentations, business meeting I dress up super elegant. Weekends I am down to jeans and yoga pants... but for a Friday night out with the girls (and the boys) then we are talking sexy and hot !!!

Title: Re: how do you like to dress; conservative, moderate sexy or cutting edge sexy
Post by: peky on October 02, 2014, 08:13:54 PM
Quote from: Ellesmira the Duck on October 02, 2014, 01:56:31 PM
I kept a similar style to when I presented male. I just dress a but nicer. Still its mainly jeans and a shirt with my boots. Its what I feel most comfortable in. At home I'm more likely to wear skirts or dresses but I'm still not brave/comfortable enough to wear them in public.

Are you a Texan Girl ?
Title: Re: how do you like to dress; conservative, moderate sexy or cutting edge sexy
Post by: Nicole on October 03, 2014, 12:34:32 AM
I'm very casual-chic.
I can really dress up and I love it when I'm heading out for a big night, I love spring racing (a very melbourne thing) and wearing race wear, but day to day its casual-chic.
I love dark colours (its a very melbourne thing) and would wear a shirt or a dress most of the time, jeans or shorts the rest, I hate leggings (THESE ARE NOT PANTS) and other pants so never wear them.
Ballet' flats, ankle boots (labour day (march) weekend to grand final weekend(last weekend)) and even heels, but manly wear heels if I'm heading out at night.
Title: Re: how do you like to dress; conservative, moderate sexy or cutting edge sexy
Post by: Eva Marie on October 03, 2014, 01:42:30 AM
I can usually be found wearing some nice skinny jeans, a nice top, and nice wedges or heels. Nothing sexy or revealing, just a little cutting edge for a girl my age but who really cares?  :laugh:

I don't do sexy. The mini skirt stays hung up in the closet these days although I can still rock it.
Title: Re: how do you like to dress; conservative, moderate sexy or cutting edge sexy
Post by: Skeptoid on October 04, 2014, 02:42:52 AM
I mostly wear casual things like jeans and tshirts but I love wearing tight fitting stuff. I feel like my best asset is my waist and belly so I'd like to wear more crop tops. It's just tough to find a cute outfit that works without looking too trashy like the first one. My head is cut off because no one ma'ams me (yet?) and these are from before I was out.

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi.imgur.com%2Fnc1ORIT.png&hash=19942ef3c05916f67b5b49ab6b9370af860e899f)(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi.imgur.com%2FwXFxopd.jpg&hash=1052e7bcbfcf3d305f8bec0cf1199324f98e4094)
Title: Re: how do you like to dress; conservative, moderate sexy or cutting edge sexy
Post by: GingerMaxim on October 04, 2014, 05:39:20 AM
Quote from: Natalie on October 02, 2014, 10:13:51 AM
I dress however I want to dress, but the "vast" majority of the time it's simple and casual. I don't care about whether people think I am sexy or not. I just don't care to wear all the things people tend to classify as "sexy." Just no real appeal.

I agree with Natalie 100%...
Title: Re: how do you like to dress; conservative, moderate sexy or cutting edge sexy
Post by: crystals on October 04, 2014, 05:40:24 AM
im somewere beetwen full casual/conservative to moderate sexy not much of a sexy altho i have a body for it X D i just dont like it and am rather very casual
Title: Re: how do you like to dress; conservative, moderate sexy or cutting edge sexy
Post by: stephaniec on October 04, 2014, 11:25:20 AM
Quote from: Skeptoid on October 04, 2014, 02:42:52 AM
I mostly wear casual things like jeans and tshirts but I love wearing tight fitting stuff. I feel like my best asset is my waist and belly so I'd like to wear more crop tops. It's just tough to find a cute outfit that works without looking too trashy like the first one. My head is cut off because no one ma'ams met (yet?) and these are from before I was out.

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi.imgur.com%2Fnc1ORIT.png&hash=19942ef3c05916f67b5b49ab6b9370af860e899f)(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi.imgur.com%2FwXFxopd.jpg&hash=1052e7bcbfcf3d305f8bec0cf1199324f98e4094)
I'd be pretty happy if my stomach looked like  that
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Post by: Codia on October 04, 2014, 11:37:06 AM
I often wear parachute pants, acid wash cottons, tank tops and tshirts with the necks and sleeves cut out.  Comfort first ^_^
Title: Re: how do you like to dress; conservative, moderate sexy or cutting edge sexy
Post by: Ellesmira the Duck on October 09, 2014, 02:52:30 PM
Quote from: peky on October 02, 2014, 08:13:54 PM
Are you a Texan Girl ?
I'm actually a California girl. Though I probably don't look like it. That picture was taken in Texas though. =P I was visiting my friend there and he insisted I have a cowgirl hat. Oddly enough didn't see a lot of them in the dalas fort worth area.
Title: Re: how do you like to dress; conservative, moderate sexy or cutting edge sexy
Post by: Miranda Catherine on October 09, 2014, 03:06:28 PM
Quote from: Ms Grace on October 02, 2014, 02:08:55 PM
Cutting edge moderate sexy conservative...
Me too! I like to look sexual and conservative at the same time. Still, it depends on my mood and what I feel like that day. I wear a dress or skirt and stockings or pantyhose every day of my life and it makes me feel sexy, even in knee length dresses. I hope I never get over having my door opened for me by a guy of any age. I had my first real dis yesterday, when I was at a fast food place and some young woman not only didn't hold it open, which was what most anyone would do because my hands were full with drinks and bags of food. I was so mad at the little brat, about 20, because we made eye contact before, during and after she did it, and a little smirky smile came across her face. She wasn't dressed very well and I was and I think that had something to do with it.
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Post by: Carrie Liz on October 09, 2014, 03:07:29 PM
When I'm not making an effort, I'm REALLY lazy clothing-wise. Jeans and t-shirts, jean shorts and t-shirts, or jeans and sweaters depending on the season.

When I am making an effort, I've found that the "classy elegant" look works pretty well for me. Basically, things which are a bit conservative, not very revealing (my arms are too big, I'm too overweight, and I don't have enough boobage to make any degree of "sexy" look work,) very bland classic types of colors, mostly whites, reds, purples, and dark blues on top, black or brown on the bottom, and clothes that mostly cover everything except for a v-neck.

I wish I could do more, but firstly I am really clueless in regards to clothing or originality or styles, and secondly I just don't think my body is made for it. My upper body is just too big and square to wear anything sleeveless or super-feminine. Sigh...
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Post by: April Lee on October 09, 2014, 04:02:25 PM
I don't think I would consider myself "cutting edge sexy", but I am way more over on that side than conservative. One person who saw my pictures in another forum called my style "loud and provocative", but she also said that it worked well for me. I love my dresses and skirts fairly short, and most of what I own could double as club wear. I do think I have developed pretty good continuity between my accessories and jewelry. I like black leather and silver. I have a silver skull on my handbag. That is so me.

  (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Flghttp.17106.nexcesscdn.net%2F808773%2Fmagento%2Fmedia%2Fcatalog%2Fproduct%2Fcache%2F1%2Fimage%2F420x630%2F9df78eab33525d08d6e5fb8d27136e95%2Fa%2Fc%2Faccessories-handbags-ami88-1801black.jpg&hash=6f5abbafabe94e4a964cabf563334936c9a2c2ef)
Title: Re: how do you like to dress; conservative, moderate sexy or cutting edge sexy
Post by: Boo Stew on October 09, 2014, 04:13:52 PM
Good question! I'm definitely not above showing a lot of leg in a short or slit skirt/dress but I have no "cleavage" to speak of cause I'm skinny and not doing HRT, so that's out. I'll do an open back or a midriff bearing crop top so I guess that might be sexy.
Title: Re: how do you like to dress; conservative, moderate sexy or cutting edge sexy
Post by: Allyda on October 09, 2014, 10:41:35 PM
I dress what I call  comfy-sexy. Usually a very low V cut sleeveless sun dress with a mini hem(these are actually my fav's), a flaired mini skirt and a tank or halter top or short shorts with a tank or halter top. As for shoes I love my 4" wedge sandals or 3" suede flip flops. :D

While I may be a lil bit older, I still have the body for these outfits and I'm not ashamed of it. I work hard at keeping fit, looking youthful, and being healthy. I love showing off my legs as they are my best attribute, and just feeling young again. Besides, I live in Florida and it's too hot most of the time here for unnecessary clothing. ;)

Ally :icon_flower:
Title: Re: how do you like to dress; conservative, moderate sexy or cutting edge sexy
Post by: caitlyn powers on October 11, 2014, 09:59:35 AM
Like Carrie, I shoot for classy/elegant.  I am looking forward to being able to pull off a bit more sexiness, once HRT gets rid of my muscular arms and torso and adds some curviness.

When I go clubbing, I try for a little more in the sexy department but probably end up more like a semi-sexy librarian, lol!
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Post by: judithlynn on October 11, 2014, 11:48:28 AM
I think conservative but sexy is a good description for me. Recently I met Grace in Sydney with Catherine and Aisla and then  I was in the US I met up with Jill, Eva Marie and Breanne in California ,and for these occasions I work a summer dress (1 " above the knee) , sleeveless with nice pumps. Or on one occasion  I wore a Black mini skirt and red longish top with the skirt length 2 " above the knee. The skirt had a side slit and looked a bit sexy and I wore it with a garter belt and black stockings. Generally for daily wear I prefer a dress or skirt, but in the winter I quite often wear a longish dress with some really nice leather look skin tight leggings or woollen tights. I am not much into jeans, but do like tight figure hugging shorts, but I do have one pair of skinny jeans.  I love wearing heels, but I am better on wedges (I have 8 pairs), and two pairs of black pump 3.5" heels. I also have these really nice ankle length brown boots with low heels. I am though a girly girl and a lesbian too. I like my women to be soft butch.