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Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: Jessika on October 18, 2014, 03:43:51 PM

Title: Is this normal?
Post by: Jessika on October 18, 2014, 03:43:51 PM
Hiya all,
For the last 10 yrs or so I find it a lot more comfy sitting down to pee. Even at home around the wife I  never stand up to pee. It feels more natural.

Also, when I work out, Cycle and Walk (5 mile walk a day) I prefer Panties than my normal yucky Mens underwear lol. It just feels more comfy.
Is that normal? It feels normal.
Thank you.

I hope this is the right place to post.

Jess
Title: Re: Is this normal?
Post by: ♥︎ SarahD ♥︎ on October 18, 2014, 04:05:29 PM
Hay hun! :D

I've read quite a lot of girls around here mention that they find it more natural sitting down.  Personally?  I find sitting more natural, but standing more convenient :) ♥︎
Title: Re: Is this normal?
Post by: Sandy74 on October 18, 2014, 04:09:30 PM
Its normal here to wear panties and not your ugly male underwear or clothes. I know that I love to put on a pair of boy short panties on when I get home from work if I am not already wearing them to work. Sitting down when you use the bathroom is normal as well, do whatever feels comfortable, I only pee standing up when I am at work or on the job site because if I squatted to pee I am sure my co-workers would look at me like I was a freak (I am a freak) but I don't want them to know that.
Title: Re: Is this normal?
Post by: Jessika on October 18, 2014, 04:46:20 PM
Great answers!  :D
Exactly how I feel. *giggle*
Title: Re: Is this normal?
Post by: Jessica Merriman on October 18, 2014, 04:47:42 PM
Of course it is normal, you are a girl!  :) Most of us here have been at this point so yes, perfectly normal!
Title: Re: Is this normal?
Post by: Rachel on October 18, 2014, 07:19:56 PM
Perfectly normal. Panties are comfortable and sitting is normal.

Funny, my daughter is getting use to me being trans and said girls do not make all that noise when peeing. So she is the potty police and wants me to only sit, too funny. 
Title: Re: Is this normal?
Post by: ♥︎ SarahD ♥︎ on October 18, 2014, 07:24:36 PM
Quote from: Cynthia Michelle on October 18, 2014, 07:19:56 PM
...Funny, my daughter is getting use to me being trans and said girls do not make all that noise when peeing. So she is the potty police and wants me to only sit, too funny.

Awwww!  That's sooo adorable! :laugh: ♥︎
Title: Re: Is this normal?
Post by: peky on October 18, 2014, 07:26:41 PM
Quote from: Jessika on October 18, 2014, 03:43:51 PM
Hiya all,
For the last 10 yrs or so I find it a lot more comfy sitting down to pee. Even at home around the wife I  never stand up to pee. It feels more natural.

Also, when I work out, Cycle and Walk (5 mile walk a day) I prefer Panties than my normal yucky Mens underwear lol. It just feels more comfy.
Is that normal? It feels normal.
Thank you.

I hope this is the right place to post.

Jess


Very, very, very normal... it is what we girls do.... LOL
Title: Re: Is this normal?
Post by: Jo-is-amazing on October 18, 2014, 08:37:23 PM
It's completely totally normal, don't worry about it, I'm pretty sure the majority of us feel the same way :)
Title: Re: Is this normal?
Post by: Taka on October 19, 2014, 08:33:17 AM
most housewives would be thrilled if the men in their family would stop obsessing so much over their manliness (or complexes about lack of it?) and just sit down.
my dad's wife would never let any man in her family stand to pee. or if he did, he'd be washing the whole toilet after every visit.

i know men who prefer to pee sitting, and it's even recommended for the elderly, in order to empty their bladder properly.
so many medical and hygienic reasons to sit when there's a toilet. none for standing, other than feeling manly.
i didn't think men needed so much proof, but apparently even cis guys are afraid of not being man enough.
Title: Re: Is this normal?
Post by: Jessika on October 19, 2014, 09:47:31 AM
I agree. My wife and I NEVER argue about the seat being up. lol
Title: Re: Is this normal?
Post by: Sydney_NYC on October 19, 2014, 11:32:19 AM
Quote from: Jessika on October 19, 2014, 09:47:31 AM
I agree. My wife and I NEVER argue about the seat being up. lol

Never had that issue either since I always sat to pee prior to HRT. The bathroom always stayed so much cleaner for longer. Once summer our Nephew who was 16 at the time spend 6 weeks with us. He didn't set to pee obviously and wasn't very good at aiming either. It was really disgusting. I told him to sit to pee or clean it up. He thought it was a manly thing because of his a**hole father. (Her teats my wife's sister bad emotionally.) He got over it and starting sitting, but it only if it's clean which it isn't in his home environment until recently he moved out of that situation and away from home.

BTW, my nephew (who is now 18) has been supportive and calls me Aunt Sydney now.
Title: Re: Is this normal?
Post by: ImagineKate on October 19, 2014, 11:53:01 AM
Standing to pee has its advantages such as being able to pee in the woods quickly and easily. There are also waterless urinals which save water.
Title: Re: Is this normal?
Post by: Taka on October 19, 2014, 12:46:09 PM
well, they make stp devices for women, to be used in places where there are no seats.
not a bad thing to stand when that's more convenient and not unhygienic.
Title: Re: Is this normal?
Post by: Mariah on October 19, 2014, 12:47:44 PM
I'm glad to hear your nephew is supportive. My mentally brother has that same aiming issue. He lives with me and sometime he will leave the seat down and get both the seat and the floor with urine. It makes for one disgusting mess to clean up. As far as myself, I have sat to go pee for a long time. Standing only resulted in wet clothes, the floor and anything else near the ground getting instead.
Mariah
Quote from: Sydney_NYC on October 19, 2014, 11:32:19 AM
Never had that issue either since I always sat to pee prior to HRT. The bathroom always stayed so much cleaner for longer. Once summer our Nephew who was 16 at the time spend 6 weeks with us. He didn't set to pee obviously and wasn't very good at aiming either. It was really disgusting. I told him to sit to pee or clean it up. He thought it was a manly thing because of his a**hole father. (Her teats my wife's sister bad emotionally.) He got over it and starting sitting, but it only if it's clean which it isn't in his home environment until recently he moved out of that situation and away from home.

BTW, my nephew (who is now 18) has been supportive and calls me Aunt Sydney now.