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Community Conversation => Crossdresser talk => Topic started by: Dani Davis on October 19, 2014, 11:22:28 PM

Title: Sitting at the vanity upstairs in my girl cave
Post by: Dani Davis on October 19, 2014, 11:22:28 PM
A pleasant evening in the process of becoming me.  I so love these rare moments of bliss.

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Title: Re: Sitting at the vanity upstairs in my girl cave
Post by: Katy on October 21, 2014, 09:57:17 PM
Transforming oneself can be a pleasure, but...

For me at least the process of transformation always has a dose of reality.  I can't quite overcome the need to cast a critical eye at the results and generally, more times than naught, I am unsatisfied with the result. 

"Mirror, mirror on the wall whose the fairest of them all?

"Not you, missy, you can be sure of that." 

Sheesh...
Title: Re: Sitting at the vanity upstairs in my girl cave
Post by: Dani Davis on October 21, 2014, 11:01:30 PM
Hi Katy!  Just a little while ago I was watching a wonderful female stand up comedienne on Netflix who said that women's worst critics are themselves and I believe that. I take 25 pics before I find one that I feel I can share to the world...and I still cringe because I know that my inner self isn't being reflected with what's seen on the surface.

And speaking of pics, very nice to see more of you in your new avatar! 
Title: Re: Sitting at the vanity upstairs in my girl cave
Post by: Jessica Merriman on October 21, 2014, 11:04:08 PM
Well, my time with the vanity is pure heaven and bliss. Being 49 in a week I know I will never see an 18 year old hottie. You know what Doesn't matter because I am genuinely happy now.  :)
Title: Re: Sitting at the vanity upstairs in my girl cave
Post by: Dani Davis on October 21, 2014, 11:17:27 PM
Quote from: Jessica Merriman on October 21, 2014, 11:04:08 PM
Well, my time with the vanity is pure heaven and bliss. Being 49 in a week I know I will never see an 18 year old hottie. You know what Doesn't matter because I am genuinely happy now.  :)
(applauds!)  Yes, girl!  So happy for you and my day is coming!
Title: Re: Sitting at the vanity upstairs in my girl cave
Post by: Katy on October 22, 2014, 06:46:12 PM
Dani and all, please accept my apology for writing such a negative comment to your cheerful post.  Events conspired to put me in a rather disappointed mood last night.  A new turtleneck sweater arrived yesterday.  I really thought it was going to be marvelous.  The warm, beige color of the material was just what I was looking for.  I thought the turtleneck might hide my rather ugly neck.  So it proved.  For once the sleeves were more than ample in length, a real problem for me with most clothes since I have long arms.  The length of the sweater almost to mid-thigh made it look decidedly feminine especially paired with my leggings.  All boded well until I decided to take some photos.  What a disappointment!  I don't own another garment that quite so effectively made me exceedingly fat.  If my attempt at feminization was to make me look very pregnant, I succeeded beyond bounds.  But, of course, that wasn't my goal.  Oh well, back to the drawing board. 
Title: Re: Sitting at the vanity upstairs in my girl cave
Post by: Dani Davis on October 23, 2014, 08:59:07 PM
Absolutely no worries, Katy!  Sorry for not responding sooner; I am just now feeling a little better today after a 5 day bout with the flu..   :(

A couple months ago I ordered a pair of fem pants in a color I love - pink of course.  When they arrived I was so excited...until I put them on and realized they made me look like a pink Stan Laurel of Laurel and Hardy fame.  Ugh!  They sure looked a lot better on the model in the pic online.  Those were from Wal-Mart.

Have you ever been to HerRoom.com?  That's the first place online where I have ordered clothing from that arrives fitting almost perfect every time.  And they have very easy to understand sizing charts you can pop open on every page.

Title: Re: Sitting at the vanity upstairs in my girl cave
Post by: Jessica Merriman on October 23, 2014, 09:36:18 PM
Quote from: Dani Davis on October 21, 2014, 11:17:27 PM
my day is coming!
I figured that out a long time ago Dani!  ;D