I'm new here, but not new to the Trans world. Made an intro on the intro posts: https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,176837.0.html
Lately, I say over a couple years or so, I've been more aggressive around other dudes. I feel like I need to size everyone up for some reason, male wise and those I feel are trying to be Masculine. Feel like I want to physically get into a fight with people more then usual. Those I see as fem, or trying to be fem, I have no problem with. I'm Pre T but feel I have high T levels. Got a pretty deep voice for being pre-T (get mistaken for my brother) and tons of body hair to include able to grow a light but seeable mustache and under lip hair. Don't know if it's possible to get a T boost with out being on T but I feel that it's been more then usual, especially since I've met my gf (been together a few years).
Also since being with my gf, I noticed I have more of a desire to want to actually make babies with her. Like when she talks about wanting to have kids, I feel like my body reactions to it. Like I get turned on more. During intimacy, my body feels that urge to want to impregnate her even tho I know I physically can't.
Does anyone else get like this?
I've researched, and it says that many cis males react to wanting to make babies normally in two ways. They either get turned on and have a sexual "boost" to get their partner pregnant or they get scared.
Quote from: Thatoneguyyouknow on November 02, 2014, 09:04:58 AM
Lately, I say over a couple years or so, I've been more aggressive around other dudes. I feel like I need to size everyone up for some reason, male wise and those I feel are trying to be Masculine. Feel like I want to physically get into a fight with people more then usual. Those I see as fem, or trying to be fem, I have no problem with.
Do you see this as a problem? If so, perhaps anger management can help. (Not saying you need it. I'm also aggressive, have been since childhood, and like being this way, so personally, I don't see anything wrong with it.)
Quote from: Thatoneguyyouknow on November 02, 2014, 09:04:58 AMI'm Pre T but feel I have high T levels. Got a pretty deep voice for being pre-T (get mistaken for my brother) and tons of body hair to include able to grow a light but seeable mustache and under lip hair. Don't know if it's possible to get a T boost with out being on T but I feel that it's been more then usual, especially since I've met my gf (been together a few years).
Some people get higher T levels than normal for reasons such a PCOS and stuff like that. I doubt it has to do with your aggression though.
Quote from: Thatoneguyyouknow on November 02, 2014, 09:04:58 AMAlso since being with my gf, I noticed I have more of a desire to want to actually make babies with her. Like when she talks about wanting to have kids, I feel like my body reactions to it. Like I get turned on more. During intimacy, my body feels that urge to want to impregnate her even tho I know I physically can't.
Does anyone else get like this?
I've researched, and it says that many cis males react to wanting to make babies normally in two ways. They either get turned on and have a sexual "boost" to get their partner pregnant or they get scared.
That makes sense and I think it's a pretty normal reaction.
Thanks fo the reply Edge. No I don't see it as a problem really just been noticing it. Just kinda wondering why I've been feeling like this more lately (now that I'm older)then when I was younger.
Could be a compensation thing. Since we're trans, we tend to have more pressure on us to "prove" that we are who we say we are. At least, that's what I've found. There's also the fact that, while presenting as women, we may have been seen as masculine, but as men, any effeminate traits get focused on for some reason it seems which can get frustrating.
Quote from: Edge on November 02, 2014, 04:45:24 PM
Could be a compensation thing. Since we're trans, we tend to have more pressure on us to "prove" that we are who we say we are. At least, that's what I've found. There's also the fact that, while presenting as women, we may have been seen as masculine, but as men, any effeminate traits get focused on for some reason it seems which can get frustrating.
Yeah it can be frustrating.
I'm not sure whether my voice matters, but as an ongoing MtF (and thus born as a male), but is exactly how men feel about sex. Same for the will to fight.
Sexually speaking first: if I wanted to be blunt and short, I'd say that men just want to "empty their testicles". The act is great and all, but there is an actual need to "impregnate" - as you put it - your partner. This is a physical need, these thingies have to be emptied regularly. It's like when you want to eat chocolate or something I guess: you aren't going to die if you don't eat any, but you'd still definitely kill for some. This can be strengthen even more when there's baby stuff going on. You want to try again and again and again 'till it works... Except if you don't want any. In that case, yeah, I guess you just want to run away because you know this is getting dangerous.
Basically: even though it depends from man to man and evolves with age, sex for men is first about emptying their tank before having a really long good time. That's why some ejaculate prematurely, or you see these guys wanking their monkeys like it was some kind of Mario Party mini-game.
Men are also likely to be more "aggressive". The basic feeling is that they want to own the world, they want to prove their own strength. Well, this is true mostly for big dudes and all, but yeah. You have to move your body, to show your strength or something. This is indeed how men feel.
Then again not all men are like this, but it is definitely true that most of them just want to empty out their buckets. There's nothing to do about it, it's a physical thing. As for the fights and all, it depends, but men are definitely more likely to be aggressive.
Thanks for the reply Bloombox. I figured as such. Just surprised I feel that way still tho since there's nothing to really "empty" so to say.
I don't think it has anything to do with whether there is something to empty or not but rather your level of T. All that matters is the T level :)
I mean it's the same thing for us MtF. For example I feel like I have breasts, I protect them and all when I walk around... While I don't anything yet. Hormones seem to give really strong orders to our bodies ^^
Then it just means that you actually feel like a man, and this is great news for you, don't you think? I understand it may (must) be frustrating, but you can definitely identify as a man which, I think, is awesome for you :)
Understood Bloombox. Yes it's just more proof that I am male inside so yes it is good. : )
Why do you think it is bad
My favorite part is the sexual frenzy, wonderful