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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: stephaniec on November 10, 2014, 10:49:39 PM

Title: everyone preparing for turkey,, relatives and friends
Post by: stephaniec on November 10, 2014, 10:49:39 PM
how is everyone's out look for the fast approaching holidays. I  hang out with my computer, but I've been doing that a long time, so  I'm  cool  with that.
Title: Re: everyone preparing for turkey,, relatives and friends
Post by: mrs izzy on November 10, 2014, 11:06:47 PM
I cook way to much food.

Just a little earlier this year due to a busy schedule end of month.
Title: Re: everyone preparing for turkey,, relatives and friends
Post by: katiej on November 10, 2014, 11:11:15 PM
I make a mean turkey...and it's the highlight of my thanksgiving every year.  But I just learned that we're going to my sister-in-law's and she wants to make the turkey.  Poor Katie.  :(

My trans support group is having "Trans-giving" and I really wish I could skip my family thanksgiving and hang out with them instead.  It would be much less stressful.
Title: Re: everyone preparing for turkey,, relatives and friends
Post by: stephaniec on November 10, 2014, 11:27:41 PM
I have a quiet dinner , but I always make sure I cook every thing, turkey , stuffing , potatoes , rutabaga, cranberries, gravy and pie. I use to make my own pie, but I gave up.
Title: Re: everyone preparing for turkey,, relatives and friends
Post by: Cindy on November 10, 2014, 11:34:06 PM
What's rutabaga?

Aussies don't celebrate Thanksgiving but I'm interested in it. Especially as it involves food, drink and merriment.

And for those who can't get to family or friends for any reason, everyone is very welcome at Susan's Thanks giving celebrations.

I'm pretty sure we can organise an online feast!
Title: Re: everyone preparing for turkey,, relatives and friends
Post by: stephaniec on November 10, 2014, 11:40:39 PM
rutabaga is a tuber like turnip , but milder  and richer  , yummy
Title: Re: everyone preparing for turkey,, relatives and friends
Post by: LittleBoyBear on November 10, 2014, 11:49:45 PM
My Mom, Dad and sister stopped talking to me over the last few weeks since I came out. So, I am looking to get together with a few friends. But I'm super bummed out about not being able to eat the comfort foods I'm so used to, since I don't have any of the recipes  :'(
I'm trying to figure out how to get my Mom to just send me some of them, but I'm afraid of how that will go...  :'(
Title: Re: everyone preparing for turkey,, relatives and friends
Post by: stephaniec on November 11, 2014, 12:01:34 AM
Quote from: LittleBoyBear on November 10, 2014, 11:49:45 PM
My Mom, Dad and sister stopped talking to me over the last few weeks since I came out. So, I am looking to get together with a few friends. But I'm super bummed out about not being able to eat the comfort foods I'm so used to, since I don't have any of the recipes  :'(
I'm trying to figure out how to get my Mom to just send me some of them, but I'm afraid of how that will go...  :'(
I'm sure you can get good recipes right here
Title: Re: everyone preparing for turkey,, relatives and friends
Post by: Newgirl Dani on November 11, 2014, 12:40:36 AM
Quote from: stephaniec on November 10, 2014, 10:49:39 PM
how is everyone's out look for the fast approaching holidays. I  hang out with my computer, but I've been doing that a long time, so  I'm  cool  with that.

Can relate, but this year is about to change all that.  I was the one to volunteer bringing the hams for the trans support group thanksgiving dinner.  The hams will be pre-cooked so I guess I cant go too wrong, and also went and bought an 18qt roaster oven for this little adventure.  First stretching of the social legs, so I will spend extra time and really get made up, wear my black gown (underneath my leather jacket of coarse), heels, and maybe some fancy sparkly things (I'm part crow).  I think they expect the usual of about 50 or 60 people, with quite a few that I have never met from Canada and Seattle so it should be fun.  Dani   
Title: Re: everyone preparing for turkey,, relatives and friends
Post by: Cindy on November 11, 2014, 12:41:19 AM
Quote from: stephaniec on November 11, 2014, 12:01:34 AM
Quote from: LittleBoyBear on November 10, 2014, 11:49:45 PM
My Mom, Dad and sister stopped talking to me over the last few weeks since I came out. So, I am looking to get together with a few friends. But I'm super bummed out about not being able to eat the comfort foods I'm so used to, since I don't have any of the recipes  :'(
I'm trying to figure out how to get my Mom to just send me some of them, but I'm afraid of how that will go...  :'(
I'm sure you can get good recipes right here

Well why not!

Lemon roast potatoes.

Take Desiree potatoes (but any will do).
Boil until slightly soft but firm, drain well until dry. Pat dry with paper towel if need be.
Add to a roasting dish with Olive oil and then cut 2 or so lemons cut in quarters, squeeze some juice over the potatoes and add the lemon pieces to the roasting dish.

Roast for 30-45 minutes at about 150C until golden.

Enjoy
Title: Re: everyone preparing for turkey,, relatives and friends
Post by: stephaniec on November 11, 2014, 06:41:59 AM
my only recipe  is using champagne instead of water when making cranberry sauce.
Title: Re: everyone preparing for turkey,, relatives and friends
Post by: ImagineKate on November 11, 2014, 07:11:43 AM
I don't like turkey and my wife is a vegetarian but we are still cooking a decent meal. Probably a roast with assorted veggies. Just the 5 of us, probably 6 or 7 if her other two kids join us.
Title: Re: everyone preparing for turkey,, relatives and friends
Post by: Jaime R D on November 11, 2014, 07:34:36 AM
These days my oldest brother and his gf and her daughter come down to the coast(he has a house next to mine) and bring a big meal from Bob Evan's that they order every year, so I have dinner with them.
Title: Re: everyone preparing for turkey,, relatives and friends
Post by: cathyrains on November 11, 2014, 09:33:39 AM
I think my extended family has finally learned after last year's culinary disaster that I should no longer be put in charge of turkey duties. Phew!  :laugh:
Title: Re: everyone preparing for turkey,, relatives and friends
Post by: Newgirl Dani on November 11, 2014, 09:57:08 AM
Quote from: cathyrains on November 11, 2014, 09:33:39 AM
I think my extended family has finally learned after last year's culinary disaster that I should no longer be put in charge of turkey duties. Phew!  :laugh:

Not sure bout anyone else but it seems more info is needed, just that one line made me smile.   :)  Dani
Title: Re: everyone preparing for turkey,, relatives and friends
Post by: Natalie on November 11, 2014, 10:07:19 AM
I don't celebrate Christmas or Thanksgiving...sort of pointless since nobody in my family has been a part of my life in decades.
Title: Re: everyone preparing for turkey,, relatives and friends
Post by: Jane's Sweet Refrain on November 11, 2014, 10:18:15 AM
Not to be a topper for strangeness, but I'm taking my children and having dinner with my ex in-laws. My ex-wife won't be there as she's having dinner with her boyfriend and his family. These are strange days we live in. Strange indeed.  ;D
Title: Re: everyone preparing for turkey,, relatives and friends
Post by: Lostkitten on November 11, 2014, 10:20:29 AM
No Thanksgiving here, was already questioning .. why the turkey? Isn't it usually, eh, what do you call those.. bigger chicken like things? Gosh my English..

We will be celebrating Christmas here yupp, but that is still quite far away, no need to plan much for that yet :P.
Title: Re: everyone preparing for turkey,, relatives and friends
Post by: Sydney_NYC on November 11, 2014, 09:11:58 PM
My wife and I are going to TN to spend Thanksgiving with her family. My sister-in-law and I will probably do most of the cooking as my mother in-law has been having some health issues. (They have all been fairly supportive for the most part.)
Title: Re: everyone preparing for turkey,, relatives and friends
Post by: 23 Skidoo on November 11, 2014, 09:17:55 PM
Quote from: Kirey on November 11, 2014, 10:20:29 AM
No Thanksgiving here, was already questioning .. why the turkey? Isn't it usually, eh, what do you call those.. bigger chicken like things? Gosh my English..

I don't think Americans even know why we eat turkey. I mean few people actually eat turkey any other time of the year. It's like we'd all prefer steak, ham, chicken, or even just no meat, but we can't stop eating turkey.
Title: Re: everyone preparing for turkey,, relatives and friends
Post by: katiej on November 11, 2014, 10:05:40 PM
Quote from: Jane's Sweet Refrain on November 11, 2014, 10:18:15 AM
Not to be a topper for strangeness, but I'm taking my children and having dinner with my ex in-laws. My ex-wife won't be there as she's having dinner with her boyfriend and his family. These are strange days we live in. Strange indeed.  ;D

That is odd.  But it sounds like her family accepts you.  So that's something.
Title: Re: everyone preparing for turkey,, relatives and friends
Post by: Joelene9 on November 11, 2014, 10:42:58 PM
  If I'm good enough for travel, I will go to Texas to visit my long-lost sister (no joke!) for Thanksgiving. Otherwise it is with my siblings here in town. I usually do the carving duties and I bring over the garden vegetables I canned over the past summer. She and her husband aren't going anywhere this year due to the budget breaking cost of their daughter's wedding I attended this past June. My other niece and a nephew both with families of their own, live nearby plus a few from her church attend the feast at her house.  I usually visit on Thanksgiving about every other year and she and her husband come over in the summer on various times. We have gotten very close over the years since she found us.

Joelene
Title: Re: everyone preparing for turkey,, relatives and friends
Post by: Jessica Merriman on November 11, 2014, 10:45:04 PM
This will be my first without my family.  :( Just my son and I. I am not real sure how I feel about it this year to be honest.  :-\