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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: Sarah84 on November 13, 2014, 03:22:38 PM

Poll
Question: Which name does sound more feminine?
Option 1: Andrea
Option 2: Nicol
Option 3: Andrea Nicol (two names are not usual in our country, we prefer just one given name but theoretically this is possible)
Option 4: Nikola
Option 5: I only want to see poll results...
Title: Name question
Post by: Sarah84 on November 13, 2014, 03:22:38 PM
I know that this is a little bit weird question. But I am helping my friend with choosing a new name. Because in our country we can choose from a limited names. I want to know what name do you think is the best for a woman from international point of view. 

Thanks for your vote :-).

Edit: I will be honest,  it is not for my friend, I am trying to find the best name for myself :).
I like all of mentioned names but can't decide which one is the best one.
Title: Re: Name question
Post by: Jessica Merriman on November 13, 2014, 03:23:49 PM
I like Andrea Nicol myself.  :)
Title: Re: Name question
Post by: MelissaAnn on November 13, 2014, 03:26:53 PM
Well for the first time today I din't agree with Jessica. I prefer Nicol myself.
Title: Re: Name question
Post by: Devlyn on November 13, 2014, 03:29:05 PM
I'll agree with Jessica, Andrea Nicol.
Title: Re: Name question
Post by: Sarah84 on November 13, 2014, 03:33:17 PM
Andrea Nicol Kunc is possible but we usually don't use two given names here. I guess one given name is preferable. But I know that two names sound good :). 
Title: Re: Name question
Post by: NaiveNicole on November 13, 2014, 03:33:55 PM
Well I am pretty fond of Nicol myself :) however I think Andrea is a pretty name. It matches your face in my mind because I knew a girl named Andrea who looked a lot like you.
Title: Re: Name question
Post by: Jessica Merriman on November 13, 2014, 03:34:13 PM
Quote from: Devlyn Marie on November 13, 2014, 03:29:05 PM
I'll agree with Jessica, Andrea Nicol.
:icon_yikes:

Devlyn, agree, Jessica all in the same sentence? I have seen it all now take me Lord!  :eusa_pray: :eusa_pray: *giggles*  ;D
Title: Re: Name question
Post by: Lostkitten on November 13, 2014, 05:03:56 PM
Issit weird I need to see a face before I can judge for someone? Some people just look like Nicol or an Andrea :P.
Title: Re: Name question
Post by: Sarah84 on November 13, 2014, 05:33:59 PM
Quote from: Kirey on November 13, 2014, 05:03:56 PM
Issit weird I need to see a face before I can judge for someone? Some people just look like Nicol or an Andrea :P.

It isn't weird :). So what do I look like A or N :) ?   
Title: Re: Name question
Post by: Lostkitten on November 13, 2014, 06:14:11 PM
Andrea :P.
Title: Re: Name question
Post by: liz on November 13, 2014, 07:26:11 PM
Yeah, Andrea :)
Title: Re: Name question
Post by: Nala on November 13, 2014, 08:25:37 PM
I like Andrea a lot, and think it suits you well too (assuming that's you in your display picture~!). ^^'' I think Andrea Nicol is pretty too, but that's coming at it from the perspective of someone from a different cultural and linguistic background, and I don't know if you'd feel comfortable or not having two names if it isn't common in your country. Really up to you. ^^
Title: Re: Name question
Post by: Delsorou on November 13, 2014, 09:23:02 PM
I vote Andrea...

And just because I'm extremely curious... you seriously are given a pool of allowed names to choose from, legally?!
Title: Re: Name question
Post by: Sarah84 on November 13, 2014, 11:16:35 PM
Quote from: Delsorou on November 13, 2014, 09:23:02 PM
I vote Andrea...

And just because I'm extremely curious... you seriously are given a pool of allowed names to choose from, legally?!

If you are changing gender in my country, you must start process with something called a neutral name. It is a name that can be used for both men and women. Women are not allowed to have a man name and vice versa. Thus neutral name is only choice in the beginning of transition. There are many neutral names, usually they sound a little foreign but it is possible to choose a nice one. I can change to a purely women name after divorce and SRS. I can't finish transition(receive new sex marker in ID and unlimited choice from women names)  when married. SRS is obligatory too.  But because I am married and we don't want to divorce, I can't finish gender change, that means I will still have M as sex marker in ID(legally stay male), can't have SRS legally(but of course I can have SRS in a different country) and must stay with neutral name  :(. It is a stupid system...
Title: Re: Name question
Post by: AnneB on November 13, 2014, 11:25:43 PM
i know, right?  A pool of names to choose from?  Is that how it is with babies?

And I'd go with Andrea, but as in An-dray-ah, but that's just me...
Title: Re: Name question
Post by: Sarah84 on November 13, 2014, 11:30:02 PM
Quote from: Paula Christine on November 13, 2014, 11:25:43 PM
i know, right?  A pool of names to choose from?  Is that how it is with babies?

Yeah,  a pool of masculine, feminine and neutral names. It applies for all people and babies. So for exampe I can't choose name Sarah because it is considered a female name and I am still legally a male.
Title: Re: Name question
Post by: Sarah84 on November 15, 2014, 02:06:20 AM
Thank you for voting. Results are close and nikola is the less favourite. I like Andrea Nicol because I can't decide between Andrea and Nicol. Both names are nice. Two names are allowed in my country but only minority of people choose two names.