So, last night I went to see a play with my friends, the supportive ones. I asked that they call me Lorenz and use male pronouns, which they were happy to do. We had one slip up, simply out of habit and we joked about it (I tossed her a mock dirty look). I was SO nervous about what I was wearing. I did black jeans, white button front shirt with nave blue check lines and a black jacket, and for a bit of spunk tossed on some suspenders. I was wearing my binder, so it wasn't the moobs (but I'm fairly slim to start) but I got gendered female at least once and was uber dissapoint! :'( This was after a party just the week previous where I hadn't TRIED to present as male (didn't even HAVE a binder to wear) and got gendered as male!
*flops dejectedly*