Lol I don't even know if I can ask this. I probably can't. But my girlfriend is pre op and we're planning on having sex when I see her next. She's really dysphoric when it comes to down there, but what can we use so I can please her?
It's going to be our first time, for the both of us.
I really love her a lot and I want to make her feel good.
Thanks a lot. <3 :)
Magic Wand, aka Mr. Hum.
Told ya! There's a good reason it's been around as long as it has! Just be sure you're buying a real Hitachi and not a knock-off, and don't run it for more than half an hour (not that you'll need it that long) or you'll risk burning it up.
Edit: Apparently Hitachi doesn't want their name associated with it anymore, and almost discontinued it entirely, but they're now made to the original specs by a company called Vibratex.
Close to original. It is as strong and a little smaller. I am a fan.
Quote from: J441 on November 29, 2014, 03:52:17 PM
Lol I don't even know if I can ask this. I probably can't. But my girlfriend is pre op and we're planning on having sex when I see her next. She's really dysphoric when it comes to down there, but what can we use so I can please her?
It's going to be our first time, for the both of us.
I really love her a lot and I want to make her feel good.
Thanks a lot. <3 :)
Hmm, I think I've found what you need: it's a ''Royal duet – double ended dildo'' from Edenfantasys. I think you should like that :333
Well, mi boyfriend is a ftm transsexual so equipment is a must fer us. If yer gonna use a strap on device inspect na stitching an materials bifor purchase. We kinda had a hard tyme finding a harness that I wouldn't break grabbing it... :? But I do suggest ye shop together, make it mor fun as well ye can let her decide what she is willing to use. Good luck. ;)
I second the vibrator fun time idea, I have two and they are my best friends (I am pre-op and a lesbian myself)
But I also want to say that everyone deals with there own body in diffrent ways, it may be best to talk about how she masterbates and go from there, it may take time to find a way you can both enjoy things but it will happen and be totally worth it when you do.
Serena
Serena's opinions are purely her own and mostly speculation as she has never actually had sex, and is deeply envious of any trans woman who's girlfriend cares enough to go out of her way to make sure she is happy and comfortable with there intimacy.
I second a magic wand or vibrator. I'm pre-op/non-op and when my partner uses a vibe on me it makes me feel like a cis girl.
Bump.
Vibratex is a good choice? I saw this one at Amazon, before I throw down $70, just wondering if anyone else in our community was using something like this and likes it
http://www.amazon.com/Magic-Wand-Premium-Essentials-Controller/dp/B0089175GE/ref=sr_1_6_s_it?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1456532440&sr=1-6&keywords=vibratex
Quote from: Monica Jean on February 26, 2016, 06:48:59 PM
Bump.
Vibratex is a good choice? I saw this one at Amazon, before I throw down $70, just wondering if anyone else in our community was using something like this and likes it
http://www.amazon.com/Magic-Wand-Premium-Essentials-Controller/dp/B0089175GE/ref=sr_1_6_s_it?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1456532440&sr=1-6&keywords=vibratex
YES TO THE MAGIC WAND but...... you really cant go back to anything else after you use one for a few times. Im on my second already. Pro tip..... buy a bag of balloons and put one over the head. The head is vinyl with a foam rubber inner liner. These are not waterproof and if you get moisture into the foam... it will not be good from a mechanical and a smell standpoint. I bought balloons the day I got my last wand and been wrapping it ever since.
As for the speed control, yes I think they are important. But I bought a light dimmer from menards (home depot/lowes/ace) its sortof a extension cord with a slide dimmer built into it. Works great and believe me, I use the ->-bleeped-<- out of mine with no trouble. It cost me 11 bucks at the menards store
Thank you! I will buy this and some balloons. Thank you! :)
I got my balloons at the dollar general store, 12 inch round... I tried several wasted sizes so Im telling you exactly what fits. The 12 inch round takes a little effort to get it on the head, but it stretches enough then the ball portion fits great. Couple practice tears and you will be a pro at it ;)
that sounded dirty.....
heres the lamp dimmer from menards
https://www.menards.com/main/electrical/wiring-devices/dimmer-controls/lutron-credenza-reg-dimmable-cfl-led-plug-in-lamp-dimmer/p-1444438507478.htm (https://www.menards.com/main/electrical/wiring-devices/dimmer-controls/lutron-credenza-reg-dimmable-cfl-led-plug-in-lamp-dimmer/p-1444438507478.htm)
(https://www.menards.com/main/items/media/LUTRO001/ProductLarge/TTCL-100LH-WH.jpg)
The really rumbly vintage magic wand with the motor in the handle is only available used.
Many now produced ones have the motor in the head.
An alternative might be the lelo smart wand large.
They are completely covered in silicone and waterproof.
There are attachments available which fit both.
Like pspot stimulators.
I'd look for safe materials or cover with a condom.
Well for pleasure you might look up lesbian practices...
*hugs*
sorry Laura, but this is not completely true, the internet spreads this sort of belief. Was the original hitachi stronger, better, faster, more durable...? perhaps. ??? But the Vibratex version is a great product, the motor is in the handle and it is built nearly identical to the original hitachi. Are there better toys out there built in a similar fashion? Maybe... they surely cost more, nearly double. And I prefer the plug in version over a rechargeable or god forbid a USB charger.
There is nothing wrong with a real vibratex wand.... just make sure you get a real one, not a knock off... the internet tells the differences if you search for it.
I would like a completely sealed, waterproof version that had a great battery that would not take a dump like a phone battery.... but they are pricey and I doubt the battery life would make me happy
Quote from: RitaChans on February 28, 2016, 07:15:22 AM
sorry Laura, but this is not completely true, the internet spreads this sort of belief. Was the original hitachi stronger, better, faster, more durable...? perhaps. ???
The older versions had the motor in the handle. They were heavy and very rumbly.
Some newer versions have the motor in the head, I have seen it.
Cannot comment on brands/manufacturers.
The newer ones are also rumbly.
There were comparisons with vibration measurements where the old ones were a bit higher.
One alternative might be the lelo smart wand large which is waterproof, completely covered in silicone and has eight speed settings.
Some buyers were unhappy with reliability though.
One thing to keep in mind is accumulators lose capacity if the are not loaded at least once a month...
So ... its your choice :)
*hugs*
Ordered. Thank you! I look forward to many happy returns :D
will be coming soon hopefully
certainly I did not mean it that way :angel:
Quote from: RitaChans on February 28, 2016, 08:58:05 AM
will be coming soon hopefully
That made me laugh.
And I'll need a partner to help me soon. I better log on to some dating site to weed through all the riff raff to find a good one...if that's even possible on those sites.
my partner is the wand... he has proposed and I have accepted
Quote from: RitaChans on February 28, 2016, 07:10:45 PM
my partner is the wand... he has proposed and I have accepted
LOL! Best one-liner ever!!!
Quote from: Monica Jean on February 28, 2016, 05:45:01 PM
That made me laugh.
And I'll need a partner to help me soon. I better log on to some dating site to weed through all the riff raff to find a good one...if that's even possible on those sites.
It is...
I'd say make a profile that says a few things about you ... that describes you in a meaningful way...
and well it might be necessary to go through a few candidates...
you might chat first, then skype ... or meet in a public place...
*hugs*