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General Discussions => General discussions => Topic started by: Jessica Merriman on November 30, 2014, 05:37:38 PM

Title: Not drama, but reality
Post by: Jessica Merriman on November 30, 2014, 05:37:38 PM
Good bye all.  :'(

For those interested:

paramedic822@yahoo.com

It has been a joy and privilege, thank you. Now maybe this site can heal with my absence.

I love you all.  :'(
Title: Re: Not drama, but reality
Post by: Ms. OBrien CVT on November 30, 2014, 05:39:51 PM
Why? But why?
Title: Re: Not drama, but reality
Post by: Marcellow on November 30, 2014, 05:47:13 PM
What happened this time? ::)
Title: Re: Not drama, but reality
Post by: Devlyn on November 30, 2014, 05:47:51 PM
I hope you reconsider, but best wishes if this is it.

Hugs, Devlyn
Title: Re: Not drama, but reality
Post by: Tysilio on November 30, 2014, 05:50:58 PM
Aw, Jess. Don't do this. We need you. (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fthefiringline.com%2Fforums%2Fimages%2Fsmilies%2Ffrown.gif&hash=ee4b80b254a8a04b1b56983ae88680c8223a3a60)
Title: Re: Not drama, but reality
Post by: Jessica Merriman on November 30, 2014, 05:51:27 PM
I will no longer shoulder all the blame for the NB issue and controversies. I was not the sole person who contributed to that situation. I cannot let this drag me down and destroy the progress I have made in my life. I started to feel like a failure in this situation and that just can't be. I have given a vast amount of time, experience, emotions and assistance and it was all for nothing. Neg rep points flooded in the last few weeks which is something I have only given once the whole time I have been here. No, time to go. No talk or support will change that now.

Thank you all for past support and words of kindness. Maybe a smarter person will fill my position here. I wish the best to everyone.  :'(
Title: Re: Not drama, but reality
Post by: Indoctrinated on November 30, 2014, 05:51:44 PM
Your reputation is telling me something different...
Title: Re: Not drama, but reality
Post by: stephaniec on November 30, 2014, 05:57:52 PM
Quote from: Jessica Merriman on November 30, 2014, 05:51:27 PM
I will no longer shoulder all the blame for the NB issue and controversies. I was not the sole person who contributed to that situation. I cannot let this drag me down and destroy the progress I have made in my life. I started to feel like a failure in this situation and that just can't be. I have given a vast amount of time, experience, emotions and assistance and it was all for nothing. Neg rep points flooded in the last few weeks which is something I have only given once the whole time I have been here. No, time to go. No talk or support will change that now.

Thank you all for past support and words of kindness. Maybe a smarter person will fill my position here. I wish the best to everyone.  :'(
sorry  this has happened
Title: Re: Not drama, but reality
Post by: Susan on November 30, 2014, 06:01:27 PM
I looked over reported posts for well over a month trying to find one single report on any of Jessica's posts, there wasn't one relating to non-binaries. Jessica you shouldn't let people get to you like this.
Title: Re: Not drama, but reality
Post by: peky on November 30, 2014, 06:03:16 PM
My dear Jessica,

Please reconsider your decision... I for one, hold you on great esteem, admiration,  and respect... and enjoy your posting for their directness and clarity... we need you,

Best

Peky
Title: Re: Not drama, but reality
Post by: stephaniec on November 30, 2014, 06:06:56 PM
Quote from: Susan on November 30, 2014, 06:01:27 PM
I looked over reported posts for well over a month trying to find one single report on any of Jessica's posts, there wasn't one relating to non-binaries. Jessica you shouldn't let people get to you like this.
ditto
Title: Re: Not drama, but reality
Post by: FTMax on November 30, 2014, 06:19:39 PM
I think you're a great lady with some really helpful insights, and you do an excellent job keeping us all in line :) I do hope you'll consider staying, but understand if leaving is something you feel would be best for you.
Title: Re: Not drama, but reality
Post by: stephaniec on November 30, 2014, 06:32:11 PM
Quote from: peky on November 30, 2014, 06:03:16 PM
My dear Jessica,

Please reconsider your decision... I for one, hold you on great esteem, admiration,  and respect... and enjoy your posting for their directness and clarity... we need you,

Best

Peky
ditto
Title: Re: Not drama, but reality
Post by: BlaineGame on November 30, 2014, 06:38:02 PM
 :'(

Well this sucks. You're such a sweet lady Jessica (at least in my opinion and experience) Expect a kind email headed your way in the near future
Title: Re: Not drama, but reality
Post by: Beth Andrea on November 30, 2014, 06:54:52 PM
Take a break perhaps, but please keep in mind I'd like to see you return.

:)
Title: Re: Not drama, but reality
Post by: Makenzie on November 30, 2014, 06:55:47 PM
OMG,I am shocked.You were always sweet and were an awesome moderator,you set the tone as a mod for what I hope to be like someday.Thank you for your help and all you've done and please stay
Title: Re: Not drama, but reality
Post by: Trillium on November 30, 2014, 07:02:53 PM
'hugs' xx
Title: Re: Not drama, but reality
Post by: ImagineKate on November 30, 2014, 07:12:08 PM
Jessica, come on now. You're one of the reasons I enjoy Susan's. I enjoy your life experiences especially since I am an ex LEO and can relate. Just another "don't leave" voice. Pretty please?
Title: Re: Not drama, but reality
Post by: Eva Marie on December 01, 2014, 08:58:57 AM
 :-\ :(