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Community Conversation => Transitioning => Topic started by: Indoctrinated on December 01, 2014, 05:55:17 PM

Title: How long until I fail?
Post by: Indoctrinated on December 01, 2014, 05:55:17 PM
I've been on HRT for nearly 4 months now and the results are pretty great... People take me as a female at least once a day now and it's getting more frequent...

But well here's the problem: I'll be leaving my job in 1 month so I'm not planning to tell anyone about my transition. But I'm getting a bit scared with that plan.. I fear I'm already failing to present myself as a male in male clothes.

This is how I dressed today: http://postimg.org/image/3xu6lt83x/
Title: Re: How long until I fail?
Post by: mrs izzy on December 01, 2014, 06:45:51 PM
It will come down to when you feel its ready.

Your continence and longer time on hrt will put the past in the past.

Day at a time
Title: Re: How long until I fail?
Post by: Eva on December 01, 2014, 09:01:51 PM
I love the name anyway ;D

"Fail" is negative... Negativity is a drag and not really useful for much...

You become your thoughts, YOU create your own reality...

There are better questions to ask yourself ;)

Its obvious to me you "failed" a LONG time ago... What are you gonna do about it is my question??? ;)
Title: Re: How long until I fail?
Post by: Indoctrinated on December 02, 2014, 05:31:51 AM
Think I got a bit desperate... I'm sorry.

It's just 1 month after all...

Quote from: mrs izzy on December 01, 2014, 06:45:51 PM
It will come down to when you feel its ready.

Your continence and longer time on hrt will put the past in the past.

Day at a time
Thank you.

Quote from: Eva on December 01, 2014, 09:01:51 PM
Its obvious to me you "failed" a LONG time ago... What are you gonna do about it is my question??? ;)
That's the fun part. I've worked for 2 different divisions at the same company. Seems like not a single person prefers me as the fake I used to be. That's much better than I expected.
Title: Re: How long until I fail?
Post by: ImagineKate on December 02, 2014, 08:14:30 AM
It can be anywhere from pre HRT to a full 2 years.

My opinion is that if you put work into it you can pull it off. However you have help from genetics and pharmacology.